This sounds pretty classic, to be honest... I couldn't stomach how insolent Demon's Souls was. It's a shame, too, cause I crave challenging games. It's just they're not challenging... It's boring. "Oh no, that arrow that flew to that side of you actually hit you somehow and you died. Oops, by exiting the menu your character rolled and came close enough to the whats-it to register an insta-death on contact. You know all that awesome, atmospheric and challenging gameplay you just did, well how about you do it ALLLLLLL AGAIN just so you can continue playing the game. That'll be fun right? Hey, you know the nice, distant online elements which add just enough depth to make this game feel haunted, well someone many levels above you playing a melee class just came into your world and you can't exit / use any non-offensive skills / deny challenge - oh you died, best play the whole level again." That's not fun, that's a time-sink for the depressed. And I wish not to add to my already strife depression.
And this is all coming from someone who deletes an entire Minecraft world and starts again if he dies but once as a self-imposed punishment. This is coming from the person who puts Skyrim on Master then specialises in speech and illusion, wears no armour, hires only rogue-lockpicks, never fast travels and has the TV set so dark it's impossible to play during the day... The person who INSISTS on going into every Resident Evil final boss with the starting pistol, starting knife and ink ribbon taking up 3 out of 6 inventory spaces.
It's like playing a game of hide and seek with a child who refuses to acknowledge that you've found them and then throws a tantrum if you actually hide. I'd rather just ramp up the difficulty on a fun game and place some self-imposed rules, at least then I have the freedom to decide when I want to stop playing or go to the toilet.
They are not difficult games, they just force you to play under unreasonable circumstances and repeat the same gameplay OVER AND OVER AND OVER in that same monotonous fighting system... I have no time for such "hardcore" drivel... Which I lament as I really like the imagery / worlds / concepts and am a Namco Bandai fan