Ya that sounds like me though ironically I do have a girlfriend and have no clue how I accomplished it.
(And yes I do have Asperger Syndrome.)In spite of being completely blind to nonverbal cues, plus all my anti-social behaviors, people still approach me wanting to be friends, occasionally I even have the occasional crazy chick scream her so-called undying love for me, luckily for me the ladder it doesn't happen to often.
So to answer your question yes it is possible for guys who are socially isolated to eventually find a relationship eventually.
Some tips for guys both normal or that have social anxiety:
-Obsess over how non-verbal cues work, there are plenty of books on that sort of thing out there heck I had to study one for the past 6 months so it isn't impossible to learn all the various cues out there so you can eventually pick up on them in spite of any in born blindness.
-People often want what they perceive they don't have. I remember my first day of going back to school after having graduated high school but went back to school 3 years later. Day one as soon as lunch hit I went off to the cafeteria and within the next 20 minutes I was approached by 2 of my fellow classmates wanting to be friends.(I hadn't talked to anyone and any break between classes I spent listening to music and reading aka totally ignoring everyone.) By the end of the first 2 weeks I was friends with everyone in the class.
-Another case is when I'm at work but I choose to spend my break-time reading and listening to music and yet I am constantly approached by people wanting to talk or get to know me. Before any1 asks I have people from both genders bugging me. (This is how I met my current girlfriend.)
-Acting like a nice guy contrary to "the nice guys finish last." saying is actually a good idea. If you offer a sympathetic ear when someone has a problem and simply hearing them out they start to get comfortable around you at least and if you are perceived as friendly more people start approaching you.. Just don't turn into a door mat don't be they guy that has to buy everyone everything or drive everyone everywhere bc then you will only be seen as a chauffeur, and a wallet with legs.
-Be ready to start new things, everyone is different chances are if you do start socializing you might start doing stuff a bit outside of your comfort-zone, my advice is be adventurous.
-You have to be seen: go out to a bar or a coffee shop or the mall, you won't meet anyone waiting around your house, apartment,condo whatever.Hey on occasion simply reading or gaming out in the open makes a decent conversation starter.
(And yes I do have Asperger Syndrome.)In spite of being completely blind to nonverbal cues, plus all my anti-social behaviors, people still approach me wanting to be friends, occasionally I even have the occasional crazy chick scream her so-called undying love for me, luckily for me the ladder it doesn't happen to often.
So to answer your question yes it is possible for guys who are socially isolated to eventually find a relationship eventually.
Some tips for guys both normal or that have social anxiety:
-Obsess over how non-verbal cues work, there are plenty of books on that sort of thing out there heck I had to study one for the past 6 months so it isn't impossible to learn all the various cues out there so you can eventually pick up on them in spite of any in born blindness.
-People often want what they perceive they don't have. I remember my first day of going back to school after having graduated high school but went back to school 3 years later. Day one as soon as lunch hit I went off to the cafeteria and within the next 20 minutes I was approached by 2 of my fellow classmates wanting to be friends.(I hadn't talked to anyone and any break between classes I spent listening to music and reading aka totally ignoring everyone.) By the end of the first 2 weeks I was friends with everyone in the class.
-Another case is when I'm at work but I choose to spend my break-time reading and listening to music and yet I am constantly approached by people wanting to talk or get to know me. Before any1 asks I have people from both genders bugging me. (This is how I met my current girlfriend.)
-Acting like a nice guy contrary to "the nice guys finish last." saying is actually a good idea. If you offer a sympathetic ear when someone has a problem and simply hearing them out they start to get comfortable around you at least and if you are perceived as friendly more people start approaching you.. Just don't turn into a door mat don't be they guy that has to buy everyone everything or drive everyone everywhere bc then you will only be seen as a chauffeur, and a wallet with legs.
-Be ready to start new things, everyone is different chances are if you do start socializing you might start doing stuff a bit outside of your comfort-zone, my advice is be adventurous.
-You have to be seen: go out to a bar or a coffee shop or the mall, you won't meet anyone waiting around your house, apartment,condo whatever.Hey on occasion simply reading or gaming out in the open makes a decent conversation starter.