Jimmy Sylvers said:
If you were a satin bowerbird you could just woo women by showing them your rad collection of blue shit.
I dunno, if a guy was an excellent curator and was presenting a show around the theme of "blue," that would be a definite plus for their potential as a potential future mate.
OP, it really sounds like you don't seem to quite think of women in the same way you think of men. And I just have to put it out there: the mind of women work
just like men, except they have to navigate through life with a few different organs.
We're
people. We're not some sort of strange creatures, inherently programmed with moon logic meant to confound the males of the species. And
here's the mind-blowing conclusion to what I have to say here:
If you want a different experience when dating women, you don't have to try to change the entirety of society because we are
individuals, and if you want a different experience than what you've had in the past, just
find someone else who thinks more like you do!
We're not stuck in this supposed 1950's mindset,
you are putting yourself in relationships you don't like and then are blaming women, society, everyone but yourself.
No, stop. Everyone, stop doing this, please. This goes to all the threads where people are asking for society to change to fix their relationship. It bugs the
hell out of me to be generalized so completely on the basis of my two X chromosomes, especially on matters of relationships. If you don't like what's happening in relationships,
you're in the wrong ones, and chances are, you got there by your own actions.