Well... this "make yourself" and "stats hell" is one of the reasons nearly all RPGs (on PCs or consoles) suck major balls. After all RP stands for Role Playing and this includes dealing with troubles and challenges without having "superman" as your character to begin with. But that has been done because majority of PC players are simply put dumb-asses which can't be bothered to play real games (aka games with depth and "characters"). Funny fact is that I know non-FPS games where you actual get role playing feeling while I know no RPG which has real role playing going on. So the general motto should be "less stats, more role play". Maybe the day will come I'll witness a real RP(G) which actually deserves the name.