Well, you have two hands, and she has neck?
All joking aside, this ***** planned it from the beginning and you need to try to separate yourself from her.
How do I know she planned it?
Two facts:
1. You said it yourself, women don't "forget" to take birth control for a WEEK!?!!?
2. The fact that she waited 12 weeks to tell you she was pregnant means that she deliberately took one of your options off the table. 12 week=3 months=1st trimester= abortion deadline
It's not that she doesn't want an abortion(well it is) it's that she wanted to be as sure as possible that you would be stuck as the father. I say hit that adoption line as hard and as fast as you can. She may not want to do it now, but if she is convinced that you won't be around(I'm not saying be a dead-beat if it comes to that; like it or not, it's your kid) to help her, she may change her tune in a couple of months once that water weight starts to get heavy.
Talk with her, talk with her parents, and for God sakes talk with yours; make sure they know your side of the story and push the adoption line HARD. Make it as clear as possible that she is a conniving ***** and deserves no more say in the fate of that child than you.
All joking aside, this ***** planned it from the beginning and you need to try to separate yourself from her.
How do I know she planned it?
Two facts:
1. You said it yourself, women don't "forget" to take birth control for a WEEK!?!!?
2. The fact that she waited 12 weeks to tell you she was pregnant means that she deliberately took one of your options off the table. 12 week=3 months=1st trimester= abortion deadline
It's not that she doesn't want an abortion(well it is) it's that she wanted to be as sure as possible that you would be stuck as the father. I say hit that adoption line as hard and as fast as you can. She may not want to do it now, but if she is convinced that you won't be around(I'm not saying be a dead-beat if it comes to that; like it or not, it's your kid) to help her, she may change her tune in a couple of months once that water weight starts to get heavy.
Talk with her, talk with her parents, and for God sakes talk with yours; make sure they know your side of the story and push the adoption line HARD. Make it as clear as possible that she is a conniving ***** and deserves no more say in the fate of that child than you.