HSIAMetalKing said:
Is this really a problem with Bioware, the company, or with some stupid forum mods?
More likely the company. If you look at every other BioWare game, those that have a romance subquests tend to have a "discount lesbian" option and that's it. By "discount lesbian," I mean that there's a gay option, but it's limited to only lesbians, and there's some degree of "justification" to it, with only one option on that front. For example, in KotOR, you couldn't romance Bastila as a woman, you could only romance Juhani the cat alien lady. In Jade Empire, you could only romance Silk Fox as a woman, who would marry a goat if it meant she became Empress. In Mass Effect, the only gay lover is the ambiguously-female Asari character. In all these cases, it's not really a normal lesbian relationship to begin with. Yet it is the only gay option.
There's some cultural explanation to all this. BioWare is, for all intents and purposes, an Albertan company. Its founders are Albertan, and their main base of operations is Edmonton. The closest state analogue to Alberta in terms of culture is Utah or Texas. They were the birthplace of the Reform Party (the closest analogue in Canada to the Republicans of now before their merging with the Alliance to form the current Conservative Party), they hold high religious values, and they are EXTREMELY anti-gay. Seriously. Try to have two gay guys walk through Old Strathcona in Edmonton on a busy night holding hands. Then check on them a few hours later, see how many bruises and cuts they got from homophobes jumping them.
Is it a stretch to connect the anti-gay sentiment of Alberta to BioWare? Not really. Considering this sentiment, it's not hard to deduce that these "discount lesbian" options were less legitimate gay romances than means to satiate the lipstick lesbian fantasies of their core demographic, while maintaining the point that it's a fictional experience that could never translate in real life.
Is this justified, however? No.
If you're going to put a romance subquest in there to add some depth to the story, you go all out. While one doesn't have to make EVERY character available for the player's yearning, your player character's sexuality should be just as malleable as their stats. And not every character you can romance has to be bisexual, either: You can have a variety of people with different sexual and romantic leanings that can not only give a supporting/ensemble cast depth, but also diversify the way a story is told. You can't just make something as complex as a character's relationships with others one dimensional and stereotypical, as well as "traditional." All BioWare's doing is denying reality by being homophobic and enforcing dominant male stereotypes. The very argument that "gays don't exist" in one universe is a very homophobic statement to make, as if to whitewash their ideal world. If they can't be serious about such context in a plot, they should either leave the romance subquests out, or make such subquests linear, so the PC doesn't have a choice about who they romance.
At the end of the day, BioWare's being anti-gay. Besides, they hire these forum mods, so it's likely they are as much a voice to the company as the developers themselves.