Attractive characters can be ugly. I find asymmetry, disfigurement, sinew, emaciation, bulbous noses, wild curly hair, non complimentary color palettes, etc. attractive. That's visually attractive, not sexually attractive. I will always choose the freak over the pretty boy. I have never felt the need to role play as a prettier version of myself or escape into a world where I am the sex icon of a generation. I prefer to play as something whose appearance tells a story, whose wounds and deficiencies imply a life less than ideal.
The best character's are built according to an artist's aesthetic preferences. An artist will have a vision for what they character should convey through their appearance, and silly men will tell them no, what the character should convey is what is considered sexy or flattering. I say silly because everyone aspires to different things in terms of their own sexual attractiveness. So if a developer's goal is to cover every man's insecurities at once they end up generalizing and hence the generic white brown haired guy.
In this sense I 'get' that my character is supposed to be sexy to someone, but I don't consider them attractive because bland uninformative things don't hold my attention after the initial cursory sweep. An attractive character can be explored until the elements that make them fascinating can be identified. Handsome joe is what men imagine women want and so he is a handsome costume for men to wear and there is nothing else to 'get' about the choices made in his construction.
The best character's are built according to an artist's aesthetic preferences. An artist will have a vision for what they character should convey through their appearance, and silly men will tell them no, what the character should convey is what is considered sexy or flattering. I say silly because everyone aspires to different things in terms of their own sexual attractiveness. So if a developer's goal is to cover every man's insecurities at once they end up generalizing and hence the generic white brown haired guy.
In this sense I 'get' that my character is supposed to be sexy to someone, but I don't consider them attractive because bland uninformative things don't hold my attention after the initial cursory sweep. An attractive character can be explored until the elements that make them fascinating can be identified. Handsome joe is what men imagine women want and so he is a handsome costume for men to wear and there is nothing else to 'get' about the choices made in his construction.