If you'd actually bothered to read my OP, you'd see that I was attempting to illustrate why this is more than a fan-rant, and why the arguments against it "RPG players don't like change" is a misleading and unhelpful comment by someone trying to play down the flaws in the game.
I think the DA 2 complaints go far beyond mere fanboyism as well. There are a number of legitimate complaints aimed at central design choices, which a large number of people have changed the game for the worst.
If you're as jaded and annoyed by it as your post appears, however, why bother commenting on it? Be content with the game that you have, and enjoy it. If you like it, good for you. Do you need to continue re-affirming your love in threads made by people who didn't like it?
Incidentally, happening for every sequel ever is untrue.
I loved BG2, I thought IWD2 was an improvement, I thought that ToB, whilst not as good as BG2, was fine as a successor, I thought NWN1 was awful (because it was) and NWN2 good; MotB brilliant - way better than NWN2, and Storms of Zehir much worse. I enjoyed Mysteries of Westgate, and Dragon Age, whilst not my favorite, was a game I enjoyed.
Then I played the demo for DA2, and couldn't finish it.