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It's the cowards way out. Actually it's far better. There's no one around, you can do it and just leave when you want. It's actually much better, less personal but that's arguably better.LemonMelon said:
I have dumped one girl over text for another girl who then dumped me over text. The first relationship was great, the second was shite. I usually tend to chase them after in a bid to get them back and not have lost. That's all it is to me, a game. I must win and I must get what I can out of the relationship and I must dump them, not them dump me.
I have no real cringe worthy stories though, I'm smart in who I choose to like.
Face to face, only good way to do it. Any other way deems you to be timid, not confident in yourself, and all around a self loathing person.
Fucking grow a pair and face what you're doing.
I'm sick of people not having accountability for themselves.
Fucking grow a pair and face what you're doing.
I'm sick of people not having accountability for themselves.
Massive Citation Needed as the evidence is to the contrary.BGH122 said:
You've got the oppression right, but not the chastity that is for sure.
I have never been in a relationship I have had multiple casual encounters but in the end I am still incredibly lonely and angry with myself for not having/being in a relationship. My repressive anger causes me many physical problems such as skin irritation and on one occasion a peptic ulcer.
I hate it when I see happy couples together (and happy people in general), one time on the bus home I saw a couple just being happy in each others company; one arm around the other all that malarky and I had to more seats so I didnt have to look at them it honestly made my blood boil just seeing what seems so out of reach for me.
I have had anger management in school and it helped alot but now I have just gone back to square one. I have gotten back into that habit of repressing the majority of my emotions and now I fear that it might end up killing me (in one way or the other).
tl;dr: My troubled childhood causes me to feel anger and hostility against happy people (and couples) and my repression of that anger will probably kill me.
I hate it when I see happy couples together (and happy people in general), one time on the bus home I saw a couple just being happy in each others company; one arm around the other all that malarky and I had to more seats so I didnt have to look at them it honestly made my blood boil just seeing what seems so out of reach for me.
I have had anger management in school and it helped alot but now I have just gone back to square one. I have gotten back into that habit of repressing the majority of my emotions and now I fear that it might end up killing me (in one way or the other).
tl;dr: My troubled childhood causes me to feel anger and hostility against happy people (and couples) and my repression of that anger will probably kill me.
I was dumped on Facebook. Just wanted to be friends. Great, just great. Would have liked to known that a month or two earlier deary.
Online break ups are the worst. It tells you that your partner didn't really consider your feelings important.
Whatever, I'm over it now. Reading worse stories on this thread will no doubt be therapeutic.
Online break ups are the worst. It tells you that your partner didn't really consider your feelings important.
Whatever, I'm over it now. Reading worse stories on this thread will no doubt be therapeutic.
I have only been dumped once, in the only relationship I've ever been in. I cried for half an hour, then went to the bathroom and poured some cold water unto my face. Then "Born to be Wild" started playing inside my head, I felt incredibly badass, and I was over her that instant.
After a friends wedding back on the 21st Aug. We came home, got ready for bed then the dreading words 'we need to talk'. Apparently he had been having doubts for a few months, never told me anything but thought it a good idea to tell his friend...who told his wife (who was my best friend)...and all the while neither of them thought it a good idea to let me know anything. The first week of the break up he spent almost all of his spare time over their place, while I was trying to deal with things without involving my friends too much. In the end, both of my best friends decided I was making them uncomfortable with the way I was (emotionally driven and generally not myself) to the point where one of them actually told me she felt like she was gonna have to choose sides...guess who's?
Now, I do not talk to one of these friends while I'm on speaking terms with the other. But I never at any point during our break up tried to involve them to the point that my ex did, nor did I expect anyone to choose sides. But these girls were my friends since high school and he had only known them roughly 2 years. He has come up with every excuse under the sun to justify his behaviour which pisses me off. Even telling me that during our entire relationship that he never felt he could be truly open with me...there's goes my trust completely.
So yeah, there is a lot more to that. But it would take me far too long to go through it all.
Now, I do not talk to one of these friends while I'm on speaking terms with the other. But I never at any point during our break up tried to involve them to the point that my ex did, nor did I expect anyone to choose sides. But these girls were my friends since high school and he had only known them roughly 2 years. He has come up with every excuse under the sun to justify his behaviour which pisses me off. Even telling me that during our entire relationship that he never felt he could be truly open with me...there's goes my trust completely.
So yeah, there is a lot more to that. But it would take me far too long to go through it all.
She was moving away, we where both thinking it, and well before she got on the plane, we ended it.
Well most times I've been dumped it's been clearly my own fault for being a dick. Or they cheated on me. That's happened once.
I think its more a matter of being able to end the relationship quickly. Either that or they're just massive arseholes.LemonMelon said:
One of my friends was dumped the day before his prom/ball/formal (dumped directly after hers) and having already bought the tickets etc, went with her anyway. She was cheating on him with a friend of ours.
I got rejected about 200 times, probably cause I was friends with the girl I asked and just kept sneaking it into conversation as a joke for a while after. I think I tricked her into saying yes once...sam13lfc said:
My then GF at the time and I were together 5 years, I gave her an engagement ring in the 4th of July (Though the fact she was pregnant was the major reason, when the baby didn't make it shortly thereafter, I was just happy to be with her, regardless. Yeah, I was too young for fatherhood, never carried out after the fact).
In December, her parents were going to go to Hawaii for two weeks and her folks wanted her to watch the house, and I said I would love to. But I obeyed my parents. She told me that as I was 18, I could make whatever decisions I wanted to, and many decisions I did do regardless of my parents say so (see "Pregnant").
When I wouldn't do it (I think it was because my parents saying "No" being the only reason) she broke up with me over the phone. Gave the engagement ring back on December 17th.
Bringing this back up made my head hurt and my chest get heavy.
I can't say I would forget about her, I have strong feelings for her, even though she's married now, I'd do it ALL OVER AGAIN.
In December, her parents were going to go to Hawaii for two weeks and her folks wanted her to watch the house, and I said I would love to. But I obeyed my parents. She told me that as I was 18, I could make whatever decisions I wanted to, and many decisions I did do regardless of my parents say so (see "Pregnant").
When I wouldn't do it (I think it was because my parents saying "No" being the only reason) she broke up with me over the phone. Gave the engagement ring back on December 17th.
Bringing this back up made my head hurt and my chest get heavy.
I can't say I would forget about her, I have strong feelings for her, even though she's married now, I'd do it ALL OVER AGAIN.