Is it really "retarded" for a company that has made gay-friendly games to back a gay-friendly con? Sure, it is a PR stunt most likely, but Bioware, one of EA's most important subsidiaries, is one of the few companies to make in-roads at including all types of sexuality in their games. You might think the con is a bad idea, but there is no doubt the organizers wanted to signal to all of its attendees that they are welcome here without stigma. You could just think of it as a gay pride parade, where people from all walks of life come to embrace each other as people, no matter their sexual orientation. Acceptance of fellow human beings is an important social cause, and if we haven't reached acceptance, there will always be room for a con that does embrace the cause of the disparaged minority. And corporate sponsors are an important part of making sure these people have a venue with the necessary logistics solved.Rocklobster99 said:People are seriously falling for this again.
Whatever, this whole thing was completely retarded to begin with.
"I want to belong... by being sorted out !!!"
Yup, that's a common wish, not only shared by the LGBT community, but by pretty much everyone.
You can't approach the question of the "Why this convention ? What's the point ?" objectively, because there's no tangible objective argument justifying it, no matter how much some feisty people on this thread will try to convince otherwise.
It's all "justified" by subjectivity, a big mix of frustration of being insulted on online games for a sexual orientation (I'm guessing, based on some arguments I'm reading; and there's probably some other stuff I'd never understand personally, which is fine).
It's not a logical move, so trying to understand it like that will hurt your brain.
But it being illogical doesn't make it nonsense : Of course there's an issue, (just look a at multiplayer Call of duty game on Youtube and you'll get the picture). Is this the best way to deal with the problem though ?
As for my own opinion on the conference, I think it's dumb, because it could be integrated as a panel in already existing well-known conventions, thus informing and sensitising more people (and probably the CONCERNED people) to the issue (as it is, it's preaching to the choir).
The "fear of bigots crashing your presentation" argument is just an excuse, I'm sure the Comic con (for example) security is qualified to deal with those idiots.
And don't quote me on that, but I'm also inclined to think those panels wouldn't be rejected by conference administrative staff: rejecting a panel of this nature is bad publicity, green lighting it make them look progressive.
"Yes, but it is a tight-knit community with individual that would enjoy meeting people going through the same troubles and sharing the same passion simultaneously."
Well, yeah, that's exactly my point : The main motivation, is to provide a shiny, "my very own thing" kinda feeling, to that community. If you wanna feel like you belong and have fun, that's a good place for you (gaming cons in general are, too), but don't tell me you're trying to tackle the issue with this.
As I said, I think it's dumb, but, if I turn my brain off for a second, I also think it's okay too. Because even though it's not serving the "cause" as well as it could be, according to me, it provides a feeling of satisfaction and belonging to a community that may be craving for it.
I agree. They could charge double the normal price, and give 25% to LGBT causes.Falterfire said:Indeed. Just because it's a PR stunt doesn't mean it can't still be the Right Thing To Do.Orks da best said:Bet 99.99% of the post here are going to be something like this "hur hur EA trying to make its public image good hur hur I hate EA hur hur." Or something like that.
Well if a big game publisher supports homosexuality, think something like that oreos support homosexuals will happen here too?
However, I think the way Nabisco showed their support for gay marriage was incredibly inappropriate. How dare they show us that amazing rainbow oreo and then not start selling them?
What I mean by segregation is labeling themselves differently. They aren't just "gamers' like the rest of us, they want to be "gaymers." It's no different from when a girl labels herself as a "girl gamer." It's just unnecessary. The fact aside that I hate the label gamer as well albeit that's another topic entirely.octafish said:You can go to Gaymercon if you want, it isn't exclusive, there is no segregation. You know this, why say otherwise?
As hard as it is to believe, some people are still vilified by the community for expressing their love. Shocking I know but people still get beaten just for being different. That sometimes makes it difficult for Queer* people to be themselves openly. This isn't about spreading a message, it is about holding a Queer* friendly event.
The right thing to do is the right thing to do, no matter what motivated the action, so Kudos EA.
*[small]Is it OK for a straight guy to use the word queer? Friends don't mind me using it, but they use it themselves, plus they're my friends. I find LBGT so ungainly, it sounds like a sandwich.[/small]
I don't understand. Are you implying that "gaymers" in particular know where the "perfect" place EA can "shuv" their transparent PR stunt? As if we're particularly qualified for that? If you are, then I'm pretty sure you're being hateful of not just EA.DVS BSTrD said:Well I think the gaymers know the perfect place EA can shuv their transparent PR stunt.
Exactly. My first thought when reading this newspiece was "screw EA, but there will be homosexual gamer convention? why?"VanQQisH said:What I mean by segregation is labeling themselves differently. They aren't just "gamers' like the rest of us, they want to be "gaymers." It's no different from when a girl labels herself as a "girl gamer." It's just unnecessary. The fact aside that I hate the label gamer as well albeit that's another topic entirely.
About people being vilified about being different, I don't know what it's like in America but where I live, even the most intolerant people never seemed to show any open hatred towards gays or bisexuals so it baffles me why they feel the need to hold an event like this. I've never met a LGBT person that felt like they needed support for their lifestyle choices, they are all well adjusted members of society just living out their life the same as anyone else. That's not to say that persecution for such a trivial matter doesn't exist elsewhere.
Like I said, I have no beef with the people involved or attending the con. People can do as they wish, I just believe there are far better choices available than this.
It's nice to have your own thing sometimes. That really is pretty much all there is to it, if it wasn't several thousand miles away I'd probably be thinking about going.Andy Shandy said:Well done to EA for supporting LGBT and all that, but I ask this, but is LGBT geek culture so much different than so-called "normal" geek culture that it needs it's own Con for it?
okay seriouslyFalterfire said:Indeed. Just because it's a PR stunt doesn't mean it can't still be the Right Thing To Do.Orks da best said:Bet 99.99% of the post here are going to be something like this "hur hur EA trying to make its public image good hur hur I hate EA hur hur." Or something like that.
Well if a big game publisher supports homosexuality, think something like that oreos support homosexuals will happen here too?
However, I think the way Nabisco showed their support for gay marriage was incredibly inappropriate. How dare they show us that amazing rainbow oreo and then not start selling them?