BreakfastMan said:
Why do so many people ignore the societal elements of sexism? Seriously, why? Is that something that just goes straight over everyone's head? Society and gender roles push women towards more "caring" and "service" careers (like nursing, teaching, and waiting) while it pushes men towards more "technical" and "production" careers (like accounting, construction, and engineering). This is bad and needs to change. Is that so hard to understand? :\
I certainly agree that western cultures specifically tend/trend towards pushing life pursuits onto an individual in a generally sexist way. Is that even debatable anymore?
Now where I would attempt to make a case is that one would have to demonstrate that given all the limitations and biasing "removed" from lets say, twins (one male one female) that all things considered equal, that indeed a man or a woman show
no strong tendencies towards particular fields or areas of personal interest, self development, or employment.
Now I think one would have some ground from which to make a case. Simply saying "this is bad and needs to change" really doesn't do that. I do not find it particularly hard to understand.
Now, as a parent of a boy and girl, and acutely aware of this ongoing discussion I will freely admit, that it is not as "cut and dry" as it is often made to appear in ridiculously simplified terms. Though as with any change within a societies progression simply encouraging people on a case by case basis to engage the activities in which they find contentment is for my money, the way to go. If that means playing with dolls that is what it is... but not a few feet away is a small assortment of dart guns and my daughter is a pretty good shot. Nor do I care when my son plays "house". Why should I be concerned with that? I play house all the time, I am no stranger to a dirty dish.
That all said, at present, I am not obliged to attempt to make a case that boys and girls are not somewhat indeterminately biased by nature towards particular fields of interest. Heck my wife likes competition grade R/C rock crawlers, and painting her nails... so what? Now her passion has been the medical industry and ultimately I think she will want to create a small private school and pursue the roll of an educator. Awesome for her.
If we, as a society, are at the point where people are being denied the opportunity to make reasonable rational choices for themselves, sure... it is an issue in the pursuit of a civilized society. Thing is one would have to show, beyond a reasonable shadow of a doubt, that denial of opportunity is happening, and by happening I mean happening more than a tiny percentage when compared to the 320~340 million people in let's say, the US.
My point is that the opportunity is there. Yes, likely in some fields it may be more difficult to work as a professional engineer as a woman for lack of gender peer, or for a man to become a nurse without criticism, but the opportunity to pursue it
is there; for the most part.
It's not a perfect world, but in all fairness, it is pretty darn good. As it has been my experience most of these highly technical fields "do" require (although do not advertise) a certain "lifetime" of interest to really be any good at the field anyways.
With technology becoming more accessible and not the domain of the social outcast male, I honestly think we will see more woman pursuing "hard" development. Hard is hard though, and again... (strums a harp) good developers, highly professional people no matter what the field are almost always people who have been at it in one way or another for many many years.
One sort of has to give a damn about the material, beyond it's social ramifications. We may be able to teach everything there is to know on a subject, but we cannot teach "caring" about the subject in a meaningful way. I just try to cultivate the genius when I see it... cause I know at the end of the day, one cannot "wish" it to be, nor "wish" that a qualified applicant with a good idea is going to pop through the door. In fact, the odds are against it.
EA looks to be saying they have jobs that need to be filled. That is opportunity. Just take it! Why is that so hard?