Ever been in Love?

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blushmoe

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Ok, i am 20
I've been in and out of relationships since i was like 15, and truthfully i hated most of them, But now i have found this girl, she is moving over to my house today. But what i want to talk about, is it just my first 'good' relationship or could i be feeling something more for this girl?
 

AvsJoe

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Could be either. Really, only you would know. But if you have to ask, then you aren't in love.
 

Legion IV

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Yes and its not all what its cracked up to be. The greatest happenes you can ever have is by loving thyself or improving.


That which causes us trails shall yield us triumph,and that which makes our hearts ache shall fill us with gladness.
For only true happiness is to learn,to advance and to improve.
None of this could happen without rejecting error,ignorance and imperfection.
We must pass out of the darkness to reach the light.
 

blushmoe

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I know i am, but i have a large feeling because this is my first relationship, i'm subconsciously telling myself I love her...
 

Mimssy

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lostzombies.com said:
Yeah only once and it nearly killed me.

If you have to ask if you are in love, then you aren't, sorry :)
I agree with all of this.

Stupid love, making me feel good then making me feel awful...
 

Eumersian

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blushmoe said:
I know i am, but i have a large feeling because this is my first relationship, i'm subconsciously telling myself I love her...
Well certainly don't tell her that right away.

Honestly though, you'll have to take some time and figure it out for yourself. All people are different in the battlefield that is love. If you want to come out breathing easy, you need to prepare and not make illogical decisions.
 

BlackWidower

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Sadly yes. I suggest you watch Christopher Titus' one man show, Love is Evol. It might speak to you.
 

Z of the Na'vi

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Truly in love?

No.

Driven by lust due to my hormones and stupid teenage mind?

Oh yes, multiple times.
 

RatRace123

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I have never been in love, and I doubt I actually could be.
Not doubting I could find compainionship, but I don't think I could feel the emotion. Don't know why, course I've never met anyone who has made me feel that way. I've felt lust though, actually concerning relationships, lust is all I've felt.
 

unoleian

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In love?

Sure. That one's easy.

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Been loved?

Not so sure. That's where it gets hairy, and usually confusing.

Only time and experience can answer that one. And sometimes, the answer ain't what we wanted to hear at all.

The idea of being in love generally sucks. Enjoy the ride. Don't invest too much in it, though. True love, I think, should just feel right. Not come with a disclaimer and a healthy dose of indigestion. If it's requited, then it'll feel right. Not like some sort of stomach illness.

At least, that's my opinion. Maybe, someday, I'll be able to verify it.
 

procyonlotor

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So yeah, OP. Feel any burning desire to embrace your beloved and protect her from all the evil in the world, yet?
 

blushmoe

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I can stay up all night talking to this girl, we get along amazingly well but she never seems enthusiastic about anything. But i have decided she will move in with me, that way i will know cause it has been about 7 months and i have loved every moment of it, i think the idea of us living together just shocked me really hard!