Ever been in Love?

[Tdc2182]

Its definitely not love right now, but something has recently just happened to me.

This girl that Ive always found cute and just recently started to get to know her has just come up pretty strong in my life. Now I have only been talking to her for about a week, but we really have hit it off. And on her facebook profile, I noticed that she had posted a song to one of her friends (girl, and she is not gay).

Basically, I am the worlds most pessimistic person when it comes to realtionships. As soon as I see someone start talking to another guy, I immediately lose all hope. But, like I said, we have really hit it off. I can already joke and call her a prostitute while she does the exact same.

But this is what really got me. This video she posted. And I kid you not the first lyric in the song (which is amazing, by the way) is "Know its only a week, and I can't help but wonder if there was a spark"

I honestly feel like an idiot if I dont do something. I just have this condition where I have no balls(not literally).

If you want the song, go ahead and ask. Ill PM you.

 

[tehweave]

Ok, i am 20
I've been in and out of relationships since i was like 15, and truthfully i hated most of them, But now i have found this girl, she is moving over to my house today. But what i want to talk about, is it just my first 'good' relationship or could i be feeling something more for this girl?

First good relationship. I mean, if you want to live together for a while, feel free. But, keep a little thought in the back of your head that 'this won't last forever.'

Just... Keep a steady head when it stops.

 

[SeriousSquirrel]

Yeah, the only love I know is that of the Un-Requited variety...But I don't think anyone can answer that question except for you.

 

[ExplosionProofTaco]

Oh jee this thread again.. Just kidding. I'll bite.

I have known this Girl for a couple of years now. We get along pretty well. We talk online and she is also in one of my classes at school. A few months back, I told her how I feel and she just said 'Thanks'. I assume she doesn't feel the same way, I realise this but I can't seem to get her out of my head and believe me, I've tried to.

Unrequited love is the only love I know.

 

[blushmoe]

Well i first met this girl at a party, we hooked up when we were like 17 and still at school, and we never really talked after that until I got a facebook and said hi and stuff and she told me I was her first Kiss... We met up and shit for about a 4 weeks taking it hell slow, occasionally making out at then end of the Dates and shit until she invited me over and we..... yerrr! But time has past, we get on well and i feel lucky to have her in my life.

There is a high chance she like you bro, but if you are still at school, chances are your relationship will suck dick (from experience) just take it slowly and feel free to PM me the song

 

[no oneder]

Yeah only once and it nearly killed me.

Then you were doing it wrong.

OT: Yes, plenty of times. Have I found the right guy? Let's cross our fingers. And good luck with that girl'o yours.

 

[blushmoe]

I have that in my mind, this won't last forever... And I keep thinking that and thinking "why bother?"

 

[Polaris19]

One of my friends has a semi-cynical yet kind of right view on love.

"Love is giving someone the power to destroy you emotionally, and trusting them not to."

 

[gunrunnerjr]

ask the master......http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZOU8GIRUd_g

 

[Julianking93]

Have to agree with the one who said if you have to ask, you aren't.

As for me.....yes I believe I currently I am. Never have been in love before so I'm not positive but I've never felt the way I do before and I can't describe it. Sounds like love to me.

 

[Kenko]

Love is a hideous abomination, suggest you purge yourself of it. It only causes harm.

 

[Le_Lisra]

Many times.

 

[Scout Tactical]

Ok, i am 20
I've been in and out of relationships since i was like 15, and truthfully i hated most of them, But now i have found this girl, she is moving over to my house today. But what i want to talk about, is it just my first 'good' relationship or could i be feeling something more for this girl?

It's your first 'good' relationship, probably. If it was love, you'd know it. I've been in that position for a long time: I like some people, had a good relationship, but never really loved them. Even now I'm not sure if I understand the feeling, but you'll know it when you feel it. Trust me, it's unmistakable. Considering what a vague feeling it is, authors have done a pretty decent job of describing it through cliches.

So if you're asking yourself if you're really in love, you're not. It's not anyone's fault: it's not a bad thing. Thousands of wedded couples aren't in love, and for some it isn't even a problem. It's really nothing to worry about.

 

[samuraiweasel]

Once...i think....didn't end too well.
Be careful and well, try to use the head on top of your shoulders once in a while....if you can...

 

[Vildleder]

Only 5 weeks of college and I've already fallen for someone. Is it love or merely teenage lust? I like to think the former.

I also have this crazy ability to fall in love with, while not exactly the 'wrong' people, most definitely the oddest choices. Last time (last school) it was one of the biggest bitches in our year, which for a (relatively) shy guy like me isn't exactly the most obvious (my friends also assure me she was actually butt ugly). This time around it's the only Jehovah's Witness in my class, who is also rather strange. Nothing wrong with that though. I like weird

 

[SimuLord]

I've been in love, as in really, truly, unequivocally in LOVE twice in my life. Both times the girl broke my heart at the end of a long-term romance, first the girl I was engaged to at 20, then the girl I was married to for five years.

Sometimes I honestly wonder if it's worth it. But I know damn well that when the next girl comes along I'll not be thinking of how I might be hurt...nay, my thoughts will be solely on praising the gods for her arrival in my life.

 

[duchaked]

time will tell...

 

[Sacman]

I would like to say I'm in love right now...[small] but I know what happens when you say that too soon...[/small]

 

[Mordekaien]

Yes. I am, for two years

But I agree, if you have to ask if you are in love, then there can be something wrong

 

[Angryman101]

I've been in love, as in really, truly, unequivocally in LOVE twice in my life. Both times the girl broke my heart at the end of a long-term romance, first the girl I was engaged to at 20, then the girl I was married to for five years.

Sometimes I honestly wonder if it's worth it. But I know damn well that when the next girl comes along I'll not be thinking of how I might be hurt...nay, my thoughts will be solely on praising the gods for her arrival in my life.

This. Take a chance, man. This is probably the infatuation that comes with being in love for the first time, but I say fucking relish it. Get completely emotionally involved with her and love her until you feel as though you can't love her anymore. If it ends, as most things do, it will hurt a lot, but love is something you savor, especially first love. You'll never be able to feel like this again, so embrace it and enjoy it while it lasts, and don't get jaded when it ends. Things happen and people change, but I personally think love is worth it in the end.