Ever been in Love?
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Wait wait... I think I heard of you.... did you convert to his order? And at some point reunite with this chick? Oh and then I heard some war started somewhere, Genomis, Geoplex, something like that and you got your arm cut off... it was in all the papers. What ever happened to that chick?Paksenarrion said:
I, uh...sorta...choked her to death.Kaez said:
But it was an accident, I swear! She was trying to talk me out of joining this other sect of the religion, telling me that she was scared of what I was becoming, and that she didn't know me anymore, etc. I get really pissed, because everything I've ever done, I've done for her. Right in the middle of our fight, I see this guy I used to work with get out of her vehicle! I mean, WTF?! Of course, the only thought in my head was that she cheated on me with my old partner, and my hand just kind of acted on its own...but I barely touched her!
Anyway, so I get in a fight with the guy, and I'm pretty confident I could take him, but I guess I was wrong, 'cause next thing you know, I'm on the ground and I can't feel my arms or legs. If it wasn't for my new boss, I'd still be there. It wasn't until major reconstructive surgery that I find out from my boss that the chick died from childbirth.
Man, I was so pissed at myself, and the universe in general.
Speaking of pissed, apparently someone stole the blueprints for this big construction job my boss is working on, so now I gotta track 'em down.
I was in love, then yesterday I caught the ***** snogging my best mate.
I'm 14 if it matters.
[sub]Fucking teenage drama...[/sub]
For you? If you have to question it you're not in love.
I'm 14 if it matters.
[sub]Fucking teenage drama...[/sub]
For you? If you have to question it you're not in love.
You're about the age that most folk have their first 'adult' relationship. Not saying first boyfriend/girlfriend, but rather the first such relationship that's conducted on a reasonably mature and happy level. I guess if you think of each relationship as involving some learning and some sitting back and enjoying, then around 20 is the first time that you get to spend more time enjoying relationships than you do learning in them. Most folk are a lot more hesitant in using the word 'love' as they get older - a 3 month relationship with hormones, tempers and moods going wild can seem like a really major relationship when you're a teenager, but later you start to realise that you don't really get to know a person you're with until AFTER the initial 2-3 month 'good behaviour' period is out of the way, and you both start being yourselves (rather than trying to impress each other).
It's also when most gay/bi folk I knew started coming out of the closet (even 10 years ago, the world was VERY different regarding homophobia).
Also, don't be overly worried if there just aren't folk around who you're interested in. Some people aren't straight OR gay OR bi - they've just got ultra-low sex drive (sometimes physically, sometimes in terms of not finding anyone they care about, sometimes both) and very few people interest them in that way. I've known a couple of people like that of both genders, and they certainly don't seem to have led unhappy lives because of it - if anything they tend to be a little more stress-free than most.
As for answering the topic question, then yes, about 5 times, 4 of them being women, 1 being a guy, and including my wife. Been married for around 3 and a half years, been together for around 5 and a half years in total. Next longest relationship was 3.5 years, when I was at uni through to the year just after I graduated, next longest after that was only 1.5 years. Only been 'in love with' someone I wasn't in a committed relationship with once - we had an on-again off-again fling over about 6 months, and had been friends for a couple of years before then, but were never 'a couple' per se.
Re: the 'she's moving to your house today' - personally, I was never much for the 'moving in' thing. I never lived with a g/f or b/f (lived with friends, just not 'that' kind of g/f, b/f) until I got engaged. Not saying that as a criticism, just personally I'm really really big on having my own space and my own freedoms. I'd make it fairly clear early on that I'm someone who's happy to spend lots of time with a partner, just as long as I get to go back to my own place, where I can watch TV or play computer as I want, not worrying about how I look, etc (i.e. quality time with them, but not the random watching tv on a sunday afternoon stuff).
It's also when most gay/bi folk I knew started coming out of the closet (even 10 years ago, the world was VERY different regarding homophobia).
Also, don't be overly worried if there just aren't folk around who you're interested in. Some people aren't straight OR gay OR bi - they've just got ultra-low sex drive (sometimes physically, sometimes in terms of not finding anyone they care about, sometimes both) and very few people interest them in that way. I've known a couple of people like that of both genders, and they certainly don't seem to have led unhappy lives because of it - if anything they tend to be a little more stress-free than most.
As for answering the topic question, then yes, about 5 times, 4 of them being women, 1 being a guy, and including my wife. Been married for around 3 and a half years, been together for around 5 and a half years in total. Next longest relationship was 3.5 years, when I was at uni through to the year just after I graduated, next longest after that was only 1.5 years. Only been 'in love with' someone I wasn't in a committed relationship with once - we had an on-again off-again fling over about 6 months, and had been friends for a couple of years before then, but were never 'a couple' per se.
Re: the 'she's moving to your house today' - personally, I was never much for the 'moving in' thing. I never lived with a g/f or b/f (lived with friends, just not 'that' kind of g/f, b/f) until I got engaged. Not saying that as a criticism, just personally I'm really really big on having my own space and my own freedoms. I'd make it fairly clear early on that I'm someone who's happy to spend lots of time with a partner, just as long as I get to go back to my own place, where I can watch TV or play computer as I want, not worrying about how I look, etc (i.e. quality time with them, but not the random watching tv on a sunday afternoon stuff).
Yes I am, no doubt about it.
I thought I was in love before, but I always doubted it or simply accepted they were just crushes.
But this time is clearly different, very clearly. The fact that it's still unanswered makes it hurt more than anything I ever felt before.
I thought I was in love before, but I always doubted it or simply accepted they were just crushes.
But this time is clearly different, very clearly. The fact that it's still unanswered makes it hurt more than anything I ever felt before.
Which reminds me of the good old days when I was seven or so, and couldn't care less about relationships, social status and sex...Contun said:
lucky you. i have never been in a relationship due to lack of self esteem, not knowing what to do/say, and just the whole braces, glasses, unfit, unattractive sort of thing
anyway i guess if you really like her who cares if your in love. if you enjoy each others company stick around if you dont like her being around end it.
anyway i guess if you really like her who cares if your in love. if you enjoy each others company stick around if you dont like her being around end it.
I am now, yes. I thought I was with my last one but I think it was just a mixture of my low self esteem, hormones and how desperate I was for someone because after about 5 months I started to go off him and eventually resent him.
But yeah, I am now.
But yeah, I am now.
Yeah, twice. Never again.
I consider myself damaged goods these days and would not inflict myself on anyone. The first one was unfaithful, I caught her, she had the nerve to try and wriggle off the hook. The second one was unrequited and will be something that I regret for the rest of my life.
I consider myself damaged goods these days and would not inflict myself on anyone. The first one was unfaithful, I caught her, she had the nerve to try and wriggle off the hook. The second one was unrequited and will be something that I regret for the rest of my life.
Yeah i'll pay that, thats a pretty damn good sandwich then LOLottenni said:
As for me yeah i been in love, still am, its been what 3-4 years now, trust me it drives you insane. well actually i think i lost my sanity a while back but thats another story for a different time.
so my recommendation: love-avoid when possable
Oh RAK, you're always just a big bucket of sunshine on these threads!RAKtheUndead said:
Ot: Yes, I am now, and have been for years.
I won't go on about it to a greater degree here, most teenagers would be envious, and most other people my age would be pissed that I haven't had heartbreak yet.
Suck on that reality!