cyber_andyy said:
If its not in a public place then its her word against yours
And how well do you think a guy would fair in that situation? Police will almost invariably believe a woman if she cries rape. The worst ones in my opinion are when women get drunk and sleep with a guy, then regret it in the morning and cry rape
There was a case a few years ago, where a man and a woman who hadn't met before were round at a mutual friend's house, where they all enjoyed some wine. They were all getting on all night, when the mutual friend went to bed. The man and woman kept on drinking together and ended up having sex. In the morning the woman cried rape. Eventually she retracted the accusation, but by that time the man had lost his job, and was viewed as a rapist by any number of people. That sort of thing can really mess up people's lives
I'm not trying to say that rape doesn't happen, or that guys don't take advantage of drunk women sometimes, but I think that there is a huge grey area where it is very questionable if something constitutes rape