Deadcyde said:
First of all, feminism is supposed to be under the auspices of equal rights for women. That inevitably means to be equal, -all- parties must be taken into account. Simple as that.
thats like saying if youre a publisher you are obligated to publish ALL genres even if your publishing house is called "sci fi books". That doesn't mean you think less of other genres or want to suplant them completly, but its not your focus. Feminism does ackowlegde issues that effect men, such as rape NOT being ok/funny when it happens to men, gender roles that are harmful to men too ect. Theres also the race thing...black women are by far more marginalised than white women. I am not an expert on feminism, if you want a more detailed veiw ask somone here who knows what they are talking about
[quote/]To not do so means you are not after the ideal of women's equality at all, but women's superiority. That is matriarchy, the very style of thinking that caused feminism to come about in the first place.[/quote]
what caused feminism was women realising they lived in a world that left them at a terrible disadvantage, if they hadn't had spoken out and ruffled the feathers of the establishment then they would have never gotten things like the vote.
[quote/]Secondly, that's not true at all, anyone who honestly cares about other people cares about social justice for all people. Please stop speaking to other peoples motives, you certainly don't speak for mine. Also, this isn't about speaking for other people, [b/]this is about being aware of their issues and how you affect them and vice versa.[/b][/quote]
welll...yeah I never denied that, but the thing is...no one makes their political and socialogical veiws in a vacum, we are affect by ourselves and our surroundings, no one is above it, its human nature...that doesn't mean we can't care about social issues but ultimatly what gets us really going is always going to be something that strikes close to home
[quote/]Lastly, that is a complete cop out and nonsense. "could we all just be equal so you people will stop talking about your issues?" Fucking really? Are you so blind to think that there's no people who care about more then just themselves and would rather support everyone equally rather then focus on singular issues? *rolls eyes*[/quote]
heres the thing though, I can say I'm all for the rights of black people because its perfectly reasonable Idea...but I am not a black person, therefore there are certain things I would not experience, so I'd have a limited understanding of the kind of issues black people (particually women) face which might cause me to midguidedly say things like "why do we need black history month?" or "why do black people get all the scholarships?" unless there was somone to explain thease things (and I was open to hearing them) same with sexism "I don't see why women have a problem with catcalls, why not take it as a compliment?" its not hostile sexism but it is slightly misguided, thats why you can't lump everyone under the same umbrella, their voices are no longer heard