Moonlight Butterfly said:
Treblaine said:
I am being honest about why it bothers me. In that female characters in the majority are only there for men to ogle. They are hardly ever 'just' people.
I could easily turn around and say to you why don't you be honest you just want to keep overtly sexualised characters in video games so you can ogle them. Feels kind of insulting doesn't it?
Your description of 'sex object' was about exactly the same as how the majority women are portrayed in video games.
So good job there.
Stop having such a defensive knee jerk reaction when women want to make things better for themselves.
And if you don't believe that guys think that girls couldn't possibly love video games look at most gender related threads on this site.
I'll be honest with you as well.
I don't play AS a sexy female too oogle her. If I wanted to oogle at a woman there are FHM and Maxim Magazine photoshoots for that. Or google for oogling. NO ONE plays a game for oogling unless they are extremely sad and desperate, DOA Beach Volleyball is a one-off that did not sell well because at its core it's just a mediocre volleyball sim, completely at odds with oogling.
No, I like to play as a female because I like to role play as a powerful and distinctly female character, I like the idea of BEING Lara Croft! I like the idea of BEING a beautiful and powerful woman. Now I am not a pre-op transsexual, I do not feel I am a woman trapped in a man's body, I just REALLY admire such women and think they are awesome. I think most men like the idea - the fantasy - of being a sexy woman who is so powerful, capable and literally awesome - awe inspiring.
I don't care if she is "hatchet faced" or scarred, but that she be distinctly female, not a guy with boobs and a wig. But they must be visually female, not hiding their whole bodies under loose fabric or a bulky power suit. Sexuality is distinctly female. This is not about disenfranchising, subjugating or denigrating women. Men wanting to play as women empowers and reinforces their relevance. And sexual without compromise, sexual and in control, sexual without being submissive and just capitulating to be a man's wife to cook and clean for him.
Marcus Fenix has shoulder pads that accentuate his masculinity, Snake with a perpetual stubble, implausibly gruff voice and dat chippendale ass. All the male protagonists are hyper masculine or exaggerated sexual features.
Characters you want to play exaggerate their gender, they do not hide it or make ambiguous with androgynous looks. Raiden is androgynous but that is the style in Japan for desirable guys, that's what all the guys in pop-groups look and act like. That is pandering to THEIR tastes.
"Your description of 'sex object' was about exactly the same as how the majority women are portrayed in video games. "
Maybe some of Duke Nukem's "babes" but NONE of the female protagonists. I have made clear how "protagonist" and "object" are totally contradictory with each other, if they are the character riving the story then they are not an object. They are not passive.
I don't know who you've been talking to on this site, but anyone you heard say it's weird for a woman to enjoy video games is a loud mouthed idiot, a noisy minority who wants to give the impression their opinion is more widely held than it is. The majority don't state the obvious that of course both males and female can enjoy games. The only large groups of people who make an issue out women playing games are people who do NOT play games and just make ignorant assumptions about the pastime.
Men only play video games is an unfounded stereotype.