aliengmr said:
runic
I'll try to keep this short, life stuff.
I don't think there is any question at all that the hostility toward the women involved were because they were women. Not 100% of it, but I should point out that the men involved received FAR less attention, Greyson being the chief example of that. Seriously, some of the stuff was down right horrible. Not placing it at your feet, just telling you what I witnessed. Hence my extreme reluctance to sign up.
I've seen it before this as well, the hostility towards women making criticisms is just much higher. We haven't wanted to admit it because, I believe, we just don't know what to do about it and think we are complicate in it when we aren't. I agree its a frustrating place to be in as a man. I also think language used has an effect. Anita's videos have that problem, I think.
I do also wonder what role culture plays in this debate.
The latter part is really just my opinions so take them with a grain of salt.
Gotta go.
I will agree, what some people have said or done on both sides is utterly despicable. Hell, right now the megathread is posting a lot of cases of pro-GG people being hacked and being called on home phones and I am sure people on the other side of the divide have been dealing with similar attacks. That shit isn't right on either side.
I have to disagree still that it was misogynistic though. The sort of hate and harassment youtubers like thunderf00t or The Amazing Atheist get is easily equivalent to what anita or Zoe got if not more so before this blew up. Afterwards, considering how Zoe was the center of a lot of different controversies such as sabotaging TFYC, the wizardchan debacle and so forth, as well as the constant attempts to paint questions about her as misogynistic has lead to an easily predictable backlash against her. There is are reasons why zoe was the spark of this, as she had connections to many different issues, while the individual people she was connected with at the start were just that, the connections to those elements. Furthermore, Zoe has done a lot more to maintain in the spot light compared to the others who have generally kept their heads down in comparison. Honestly, look at how people are now going after Kuchera now that is was revealed what an asshole he is. I don't think that is how misogyny as motivation would work.
you claim that women get more hostility but I have to ask where that is coming from. Is that based on the hostility seen, or the reporting of the hostility?
In a cultural discussion, I could see how societal pressures would shape how such things are reported and thus presenting the case that it happens more to one gender then the other, but something here just doesn't make sense, not from a cultural nor from a logical standpoint, that women would get more harassment solely for being women. Just, why would that be the case?