TGLT said:
I'm of the opinion if you can't in some way affect even the surface of the story, it's not a roleplaying game, it's a graphic novel. But I unconditionally hate JRPGs and masturbate over my wonderful d10 and d20, so take what I say however you will.
That doesn't mean they're not RPGs in the current usage of the term, and I shall defy any who try to tell me that Mother 3 isn't a fantastic RPG.
All those ones that emphasise "taking on the role" - Neverwinter Nights, Baldur's Gate et al, I dislike those because of how limited you really are. For me, it's all or nothing in terms of how much control players have, and any middle ground just infuriates me. I love D&D, I love games you dismiss as "graphic novels", but any computer game that attempts to imitate D&D has, for me, failed to deliver.
But I'll concede to your semantics and retcon what I said to JRPG, because in retrospect my favourite "RPGs" - The Mother series, Golden Sun, the early Final Fantasy games - are in fact of the distinct J variety.