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Money/and acts like a d-bag?ravensheart18 said:
jk, sorta.
Yeah dude, I don't know. Just don't fuck with it.
Its all about conversation starters.
I've started a dialogue with a chick, who I sat next to in Trig (who I had nothing else to really say) just by showing her a picture I drew using the "draw/pen" function on my calculator. Later that same class period she invited me to join the club she was the president of. I'll have to get back to you on how it ends.
But seriously, think of all your best qualities. Think of everything you could use to start a conversation. Think of your best jokes and stories. After that, just relax and be yourself. Those are the only real "chick magnets" you'll need.
I've started a dialogue with a chick, who I sat next to in Trig (who I had nothing else to really say) just by showing her a picture I drew using the "draw/pen" function on my calculator. Later that same class period she invited me to join the club she was the president of. I'll have to get back to you on how it ends.
But seriously, think of all your best qualities. Think of everything you could use to start a conversation. Think of your best jokes and stories. After that, just relax and be yourself. Those are the only real "chick magnets" you'll need.
I guess you could listen to the Rod Stewart song until you got over it. See a dermatologist, hit the gym, boost some of that confidence.
Seriously, just because you like anime and video games doesn't mean you couldn't eventually become the Adonis of [catchy video game title].
Seriously, just because you like anime and video games doesn't mean you couldn't eventually become the Adonis of [catchy video game title].
From my experience, girls like someone with self confidence.
What I typically do to hit on a girl is slam her against a wall and choke her out, then drag her unconscious body out into a secluded area. You have to be pretty fast, they usually wake up within 2-3 minutes. When they do regain consciousness, they almost always say how much self confidence it takes to assault someone in public and proceed to make out with you. PROVEN BY SCIENCE!
What I typically do to hit on a girl is slam her against a wall and choke her out, then drag her unconscious body out into a secluded area. You have to be pretty fast, they usually wake up within 2-3 minutes. When they do regain consciousness, they almost always say how much self confidence it takes to assault someone in public and proceed to make out with you. PROVEN BY SCIENCE!
Truthfully? Just accept who you are. Do you like Anime? Ok, great. Do you like video games? Fantastic! I'm sure you can find a group of people who will accept you for who you are. I myself have a group of friends, half of which are female, who don't give 2 shits about video games and are actually all purely their own individuals, for that is just what college is.
From the sounds of it though you are still in Highschool. I don't care how you put it, but from how you are stating it you are still there in Mind and Spirit. If you set your Mind into being Confident, and your Spirit into being an individual (and find a group of friends who accept you) than you should be fine.
I will give one more piece of advice though. You will never get friends by sitting alone *hint*, because Pity wins you nothing. It turns people off, ESPECIALLY WOMEN. If they see a man who feels bad about himself and doubts his own abilities they are not about to go wipe their nose and be their mother. I'm not telling you to grow a pair, but to just be more confident about your abilities. Welcome to LIFE, and it's time to roll the dice.
Also too make this advice validated. I lived through what you are living through now.
EDIT: Also... I am sickened by the fact that some people have stated that you should 'fake' being someone else... For the record this is the worst thing to do and will do nothing but make you more miserable. I am not joking.
From the sounds of it though you are still in Highschool. I don't care how you put it, but from how you are stating it you are still there in Mind and Spirit. If you set your Mind into being Confident, and your Spirit into being an individual (and find a group of friends who accept you) than you should be fine.
I will give one more piece of advice though. You will never get friends by sitting alone *hint*, because Pity wins you nothing. It turns people off, ESPECIALLY WOMEN. If they see a man who feels bad about himself and doubts his own abilities they are not about to go wipe their nose and be their mother. I'm not telling you to grow a pair, but to just be more confident about your abilities. Welcome to LIFE, and it's time to roll the dice.
Also too make this advice validated. I lived through what you are living through now.
EDIT: Also... I am sickened by the fact that some people have stated that you should 'fake' being someone else... For the record this is the worst thing to do and will do nothing but make you more miserable. I am not joking.
Just get a sense of humor and talk about current stuff like politics with passion that does not come across as zeal. The confidence to get this done? Fake it.
Remember these fifteen wise and powerful words: Girls are like spiders. They are more scared of you than you are of them.
Good hunting, good sir.
Remember these fifteen wise and powerful words: Girls are like spiders. They are more scared of you than you are of them.
Good hunting, good sir.
You're after the wrong kind of woman if you're interested in the sort that hates nerdy pursuits. Seriously, nerdy women are becoming more and more common. You'll be fine.
Have you tried actually going up to a girl? Maybe one of the ones that seem too shy to go up to a guy? I can just about guarantee they'll be better relationship material.
Have you tried actually going up to a girl? Maybe one of the ones that seem too shy to go up to a guy? I can just about guarantee they'll be better relationship material.
I've heard that admitting that you have a problem is the first step to the process of solving it.
*ahem... RAGE MODE ENGAGED* SELF-CONFIDENCE IS KEY, I FUCKING GET IT (AND DON'T GET FUCKING, IF YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN) AND SO DOES OP. BUT HOW THE HELL DO YOU DEVELOP THAT IF SUCCESS IS JUST A CLOUD IN THE SKY? *rage mode deactivated* Seriously, I tried psychologists and all I learned was how to meditate and that I have moderate anxiety, which apparently flattens my self-confidence.
TL;DR: Fuck, I need to get laid, and by an actual girlfriend of mine. BAW
*ahem... RAGE MODE ENGAGED* SELF-CONFIDENCE IS KEY, I FUCKING GET IT (AND DON'T GET FUCKING, IF YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN) AND SO DOES OP. BUT HOW THE HELL DO YOU DEVELOP THAT IF SUCCESS IS JUST A CLOUD IN THE SKY? *rage mode deactivated* Seriously, I tried psychologists and all I learned was how to meditate and that I have moderate anxiety, which apparently flattens my self-confidence.
TL;DR: Fuck, I need to get laid, and by an actual girlfriend of mine. BAW
You humans and your worrying about relationships... Makes me smile.
OT; Don't worry, all the hot girls you meet later in life once they've gotten over the badboy/idiot/abusive boyfriend stage.
Speaking as a niceguy(tm) you'll be swimming in tattybojangles in a few years.
I was, and i'm fat!
OT; Don't worry, all the hot girls you meet later in life once they've gotten over the badboy/idiot/abusive boyfriend stage.
Speaking as a niceguy(tm) you'll be swimming in tattybojangles in a few years.
I was, and i'm fat!
I didn't read all that stuff there, but I'm gonna guess that this topic is all about attractive women with things. Material possessions, physical attributes, personality things, all that. I bought a girl I know that likes Japanese stuff an expensive pachinko machine for her birthday. She still hasn't attempted to jump my bones. Oh how I wish I knew what Earthly possessions I should buy her to make her jump.
Maybe I need more confidence or somethin' that I can't buy with money.
Maybe I need more confidence or somethin' that I can't buy with money.
Confidence goes far.
Also, find girls with similar interests like games and anime. Like I did.
She still cheated on me but eh.
Also, find girls with similar interests like games and anime. Like I did.
She still cheated on me but eh.
Everyone here is going to give you more or less the same few answers, but allow me to throw an extra one in there that may be missed, and no doubt will shatter your hope and self worth..... er... no offense intended...
You may be genetically incompatible with most females.
Despite all of our glorious achievements, our skyscrapers and TeeVees and plastic fake dog shit, we're all still animals deeply hardwired to preset evolutionary conditions. Women can actually smell good mates. Not consciously of course, but on a pheromone level, females can detect certain traits that indicate if you are a good match for creating offspring.
Seriously. Females will (to some degree) show preference toward males that can produce strong, healthy babies, even if babies are not wanted nor intended, it is still a factor.
For example, you mention that you have acne. It's an indicator of poor skin caused by overactive (or under active) sebaceous glands, and its coded into your pheromones along with immune system strength, physical and mental potential.
Alright, so what the fuck was the point of all that? Don't get me wrong, I'm not trying to say you're downright fucked with the fairer sex, but if it troubles you so much and you want to change it, be prepared for n up hill battle.
To improve your chances I would add that you may want to start working out. And I don't mean hurr-hurr-meathead working out, but maybe try to starting jogging a few miles? Is there a pool at the college you can use?
Also, if you're looking around campus and basing your wants solely on looks, then you're asking for a kick in the balls. Are there any anime or comi-cons in or around your area? check those out as a way of finding someone who shares your interests. Speaking form experience, a woman that can be your lover and friend with the same interests will go a long way towards a healthy relationship.
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two points for doing this post piss drunk ^^b
You may be genetically incompatible with most females.
Despite all of our glorious achievements, our skyscrapers and TeeVees and plastic fake dog shit, we're all still animals deeply hardwired to preset evolutionary conditions. Women can actually smell good mates. Not consciously of course, but on a pheromone level, females can detect certain traits that indicate if you are a good match for creating offspring.
Seriously. Females will (to some degree) show preference toward males that can produce strong, healthy babies, even if babies are not wanted nor intended, it is still a factor.
For example, you mention that you have acne. It's an indicator of poor skin caused by overactive (or under active) sebaceous glands, and its coded into your pheromones along with immune system strength, physical and mental potential.
Alright, so what the fuck was the point of all that? Don't get me wrong, I'm not trying to say you're downright fucked with the fairer sex, but if it troubles you so much and you want to change it, be prepared for n up hill battle.
To improve your chances I would add that you may want to start working out. And I don't mean hurr-hurr-meathead working out, but maybe try to starting jogging a few miles? Is there a pool at the college you can use?
Also, if you're looking around campus and basing your wants solely on looks, then you're asking for a kick in the balls. Are there any anime or comi-cons in or around your area? check those out as a way of finding someone who shares your interests. Speaking form experience, a woman that can be your lover and friend with the same interests will go a long way towards a healthy relationship.
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two points for doing this post piss drunk ^^b
OP: You can't just expect a beautiful girl to fall into your arms. I've been single for the last year and a half, and believe me, I know it sucks. I hated seeing happy couples all the time, but I didn't gloat and feel sorry for my self. I went out and started meeting girls, mostly through internet dating sites. Yes It can be intimidating because it is really a crap shoot. However, luckily though after a few months of searching I found a girl that I really like and get along with. Sometimes you just have to grab life by the balls and take a chance.
First of all, those girls were shallow and you don't want them. A girl without brains isn't worth fretting over because she'd just bug you. Secondly, Don't be a big scowly angry person. Nobody like the angry guy who lurks in corners and post his problems on a forum, Keep positive, you're find a girl someday and being negative just makes people not want to be around you. Thirdly, there are girl geeks around and they tend to hang out together. I'm not saying it will be easy to spot them but keep your eyes open and maybe you kind find someone who shares your interest. Fourthly, the term is "babe magnet" and only Johnny Bravo can truly be a babe magnet. (Man, he's pretty).
So start an anime club.Paragon Fury said:
And yeah, if you're not even capable of having female friends, it's gonna be pretty hard to have female romantic partners. Practice talking to women without the pressure of trying to make them go out with you -- talk about classwork or whatever, I don't care. But not having friends could be a symptom of whatever is making you fail as a chick magnet, so I'd do a little soul searching about why you're not great with people (is it because you spend lunch sulkily watching other dudes have fun?
) If you're not naturally good with girls you're gonna have to practice practice practice! "Social skills" has the word "skills" in it because you need to learn them and develop them just like any other skill.Probably growing up a little more will help too, let you grow out of the acne and maybe put on a little more muscle (if you work out a bit) or mature your features. While you wait for good ol' adulthood to fully kick in, practice your conversational skills like everyone's telling you.
Bringing up the Physical Shortcomings (Pheromones, suitable mates and what-not) is not the wisest decision. Though it is possible for him to be one of the less suitable mates of our century there is no reason too think that most of it isn't psychological as well. However the facts that you present also have a deep tie with psychology (different emotions, situations, and anything of the sort create different types of chemicals and different levels of certain pheromones), hence is why he should build the confidence to actually be deemed a suitable mate for a woman.Gerhardt said:
OP - Do as he sais with the Gym and what-not. The endorphins that are generated while exercising have a deep tie with your psychology, and thus in the pheromones you emit, and... thus in the chances of meeting a lovely lady that doesn't cost money up front, but only on a weekly basis. As an example: The summer before last I lost 50 pounds while exercising, and while doing so I felt so good about myself I kept hitting on a gorgeous red-head in a hospital (she was a nurse, before you get the wrong idea) and I kept makin' her blush.
Gerhardt - ty for helping me remember the tie between the 2 lol; completely forgot about it. Silly me.
I think you have some sort of wierd idea that these men are like the fonz or something and have this harem of women that naturally gravitate to them
The reality is more likely that they are friends with these women and probably have mutual guy friends.
You need to stop looking at women as a seperate species they are just people that you can be friends with just like guys.
You say you are a loner, okay so maybe you like a smaller range of friends, that's okay! But you will tend not to meet people unless you mingle a bit. You never know you might have fun.
Maybe have a look around the cafeteria for a female version of yourself rather than ogling the hyper confident girls who probably have nothing in common with you.
The reality is more likely that they are friends with these women and probably have mutual guy friends.
You need to stop looking at women as a seperate species they are just people that you can be friends with just like guys.
You say you are a loner, okay so maybe you like a smaller range of friends, that's okay! But you will tend not to meet people unless you mingle a bit. You never know you might have fun.
Maybe have a look around the cafeteria for a female version of yourself rather than ogling the hyper confident girls who probably have nothing in common with you.