We are talking console games here, right? PC games (at least, FPSs) have this wonderful thing called the developer's console, and I've yet to find a game that couldn't be made ever so slightly easier via the console.
- Want quicksaves in Far Cry? There's a way (doesn't make Far Cry any easier as there's no bloody godmode, but still).
- Want infinite ammo in Quake 4 so you can actually USE the dark matter cannon? Tap in 'give ammo' and have fun. (I think it was in either Doom 3 or Quake 4 that I actually bound 'give ammo' to a key by messing around with the config files. Tap F2 or whatever and all your bullets miraculously come back.)
- Want to do absolutely anything in Unreal Tournament? Console it. (You can even summon objects and baddies from the original Unreal.)
- Something glitches and you can't get to where you need to be? Noclip.
- Want the upgraded gravity gun from Half Life 2 for the entire duration of the game? IIRC, you can console that, too...
To be fair, I've played enough FPSs now since I got into gaming that I can rampage through most of them on easy or normal. I'm by no means a hardcore gamer though, and I appreciate an easy mode on games. Particularly RTSs, which I'm only just getting to like, and am unashamedly crap at.
A good example. Dark Messiah (of Might and Magic) is an awesome game with an intriguing storyline that's hooked me, but the difficulty curve is all over the place and I've just ran into my first bunch of Orcs, who kill me before I can say 'holy shit'. So I'm going to godmode it, or at least give myself some free abilities/weapons, via the console. Shameful? No. Judging by what happened with the originally-hard Black Guards, once your character has suitable gear, tough enemies are balanced out and brought down to your level, and I don't fancy contending with cleaver/longbow-toting, damage-absorbing Orcs over and over again until I beat them through sheer luck. Does this spoil anybody else's game experience? No. It lets me raise myself - and just me - to the required level (or beyond) of uberness required to successfully kill about 10 pissed-off Orcs in a single encounter, without dying or letting them get at my accompanying NPCs. I'm not spoiling the game, just adapting to it.
Edit: I decided to have another shot at beating the Orcs without cheating, and managed it. Turns out if you run back near your NPC love interest, she heals you. Oh well. I had to godmode a later boss fight, though.