LadyRhian said:
spectrenihlus said:
LadyRhian said:
spectrenihlus said:
So what does this mean for his wife, and his kids.
That's the thing about changing the sexuality and/or race of a established character, it creates ripple effects that force the change of other characters. I have no problem with gay characters I just wish they wouldn't change already established characters to add more "diversity". If you need to have a character to be gay create a new character, like Obsidian.
Also look at it from the reverse can you imagine if someone decided to change an established gay character and make them straight?
Being gay does *not* mean you cannot have kids, guys. Do I really NEED to say this? Or cannot marry a woman, for that matter.
Did I say it did? No it creates inconsistencies with the established lore. Yes it is a reboot however they still use the previous background for his character and besides it all just feels forced on him. Here is a writer on the best way to write a gay character
I think it was implied in the very first sentence, as if gay men or gay people in general can't have opposite sex spouses or children. What does it mean for his wife? Her husband is attracted to other men. What does it mean for his kids? Their father is gay. That's all it means.
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I will add that being gay only means you are sexually attracted to other men. Nothing says a gay man cannot love a woman, or even marry her or have kids with her. It just means... he's attracted to other men first and foremost.
Two points:
1) It seems like you're using the term 'gay' a bit too generally. I could very well be mistaken about this, but as I understand the terms 'gay' means that you're exclusively attracted to the same sex, 'straight' means that you're exclusively attracted to the opposite sex, and 'bisexual' means that you're attracted to both. So you seem to be conflating 'gay' with 'bisexual'. Or perhaps you regard it as a continuum where 'gay' and 'straight' are two ends of the scale and 'bisexual' is in the middle.
Whatever your answer, you should consider the possibility that there are at least some gay men who might be offended by the idea that you can be gay and also be attracted to women because it might be taken to imply that homosexual people are promiscuous and willing to have sex with anyone. There are certainly some gay men that are solely attracted to other men. Alternatively, there are probably a few lesbians who might be offended by the idea that you can be lesbian and still be attracted to men.
I'm not saying that these people are right: ultimately it's a terminological issue. If you're right and 'gay' and 'lesbian' just mean "
predominantly attracted to the same sex" then we could just invent new terms to describe those who are
only attracted to the same sex.
2) While in general terms you're right to point out that gay men can have wives and children (assuming 'gay' has the meaning you ascribe to it), spectrenihlus is right to point out that it would cause issues with Scott's backstory. Specifically, part of his backstory (or so I've heard from other posters in this thread) is that his son was gay and that there was a large conflict in him coming to terms with that fact. That makes absolutely NO sense whatsoever if the character is openly gay himself.