Ah, alright then. I thought you were saying that gay men can have romantic love for a woman, which implies sexual attraction. Sure, gay people can definitely have platonic love for members of the other sex, no question.LadyRhian said:Gay talks about attraction, not love. You can marry someone you are not attracted to, and have sex with them, and "love" doesn't necessarily imply sexual love. I know gay men who love their female friends. Does this make them suddenly, magically not gay? No. They may not want to shag their friend's bones, and the love might be more platonic, but it's still love. I said nothing about attraction. That is different from love and different from sex. Because you are attracted to women, does that mean you cannot love your brother, or your father, or a friend? No, it just means you are not sexually attracted to them. That's all it means. You could still have sex with a guy or marry him. Marriage is not predicated on love or attraction-people prove that pretty much all the time, with green card marriages. And gay men have had children while married to a woman, so obviously, it's possible to have sex with a woman while only being attracted to other men.ReiverCorrupter said:snip
You're statement was a bit misleading though, especially the last bit:
So you can see where I got that impression.LadyRhian said:I will add that being gay only means you are sexually attracted to other men. Nothing says a gay man cannot love a woman, or even marry her or have kids with her. It just means... he's attracted to other men first and foremost.