As long as he was clear that I'm not into guys and didn't start stalking me or anything I don't think it would change much for me beyond a week or so of slight awkwardness.
you've declared your interest in someone else, your bf has decvleared his interest in another man. have you considered the fact you may both be gay?ReservoirAngel said:So me and the boyfriend were talking about this earlier on today, after branching off from a conversation that WAS about coffee. Dunno how we got from coffee to this topic, but oh well.
Basically, how would you react if one of your same-sex friends confessed to having a really strong crush on you, or even loving you?
Cause both me and him have been on both sides of this situation. I've had a friend I didn't even think was into dudes confess to thinking I was massively cute and that he wanted to fuck me, and I've confessed pretty much the same (while slightly stoned, I admit) to another one of my friends over Facebook (private messaging, nobody else saw).
As for my boyfriend, he had a friend of his practically declare his undying love for him, and has confessed a massive crush to someone who he practically KNEW hated his guts. Didn't end well for him, but that's a story for another day.
So yeah, what would your instinctual reaction to be if one of your close friends suddenly out of pretty much nowhere confessed such feelings towards you?
These happened before I started dating my boyfriend. And we are both gay.HotFezz8 said:you've declared your interest in someone else, your bf has decvleared his interest in another man. have you considered the fact you may both be gay?
Me, I'd say "Let's have a few drinks and see where the night goes", but I'm a bisexual in an open relationship, so I'm probably not the norm there heheReservoirAngel said:So yeah, what would your instinctual reaction to be if one of your close friends suddenly out of pretty much nowhere confessed such feelings towards you?
+ReservoirAngel said:These happened before I started dating my boyfriend. And we are both gay.HotFezz8 said:you've declared your interest in someone else, your bf has decvleared his interest in another man. have you considered the fact you may both be gay?
I would be rather shocked.ReservoirAngel said:Basically, how would you react if one of your same-sex friends confessed to having a really strong crush on you, or even loving you?
You're joking, right? I haven't been in denial about my sexuality since I was 13.The Stonker said:+ReservoirAngel said:These happened before I started dating my boyfriend. And we are both gay.HotFezz8 said:you've declared your interest in someone else, your bf has decvleared his interest in another man. have you considered the fact you may both be gay?
Maybe you're in denial
I dunno,I think "I'm not gay" pretty much sums it up. Generally you don't need a supporting thesis, unless the other person is a pushy asshole.Gamer_152 said:I'd be very flattered but I'd have to explain to them carefully that I'm not gay.