But, as many people have said, what is hardcore? I grew up with the Sega Mega Drive (or Genesis for you americans out there at this time in the morning) and I loved Sonic, I barely played anything else, sure the odd platformer but Sonic was what I came back to time and time again.
I then had a ps1 and I was still a youngster and was into games like Crash and Spyro and completely bypassed games like Metal Gear Solid and Final Fantasy VII til I was older. I loved gaming. I loved playing Spyro or Rayman or games similar, I would play anything from Metal Slug to 007 Racing. Was I hardcore then, was I playing hardcore games or were they all casual?
My ps2 was what really introduced me to gaming proper with incredible, deep games like Dark Cloud and Final Fantasy X, I was a JRPG teen, it was also where I had my first dose of action games like Metal Gear Solid 2 and Devil May Cry, sure I also had the odd platformer but mostly for my little brother, I still played through Crash's ps2 game, I adored Klonoa 2 and then even later on that gen I actually bought my own games console for the very first time in the Gamecube and fell in love with games like Wind Waker and Metroid Prime while staying true to my JRPG teen years with Tales of Symphonia and Skies of Arcadia.
Are all of these games hardcore? Buying and enjoying Super Mario Sunshine, is that hardcore?
This gen I have all 3 consoles and I am not lacking in the same games I enjoyed and loved when I was in my teens at least (platforming seems to have died a bit, well unless you have a Ps3 or a Wii, which I do), and so I can enjoy playing hardcore titles like Demon's Souls, Fire Emblem: Radiant Dawn and Fallout: New Vegas. I can also enjoy platforming titles like Little Big Planet 2 or Super Mario Galaxy 2. I've even found a love for point and click thanks to great "hardcore" games like Hotel Dusk and Sam and Max. In my eyes this generation is flooding with hardcore, you just have to look past the new player friendly games like Modern Warfare and Halo and go into more depth with titles already mentioned like Fire Emblem or Demon's Souls.
I say to my friend all the time, just look and you'll find some.
I say the same to you.