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Fetzenfisch

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1) Met her at a party we both found boring, so we had lot to talk about. a few days later we met alone, at 3.a.m we both couldnt sleep and talked via ICQ, i proposed to go for a walk. Mission accomplished.

2) Met her at a show, she was some way away from me, we exchanged looks often. When the show was over i just walked past her, giving her my wristband, with my number attached. We texted, we met again- done

3)We worked together - christmas party at work- ??? - Profit

4) I went to a festival, the only one from my group of friends who didnt get a hotel room, so i went to the campingground, set up my tent, hers was more or less next to mine, i hang out with those people surrounding my tent, havent seen my friends i originally went there with once, and didnt wanted to , the new people were just awesome. I instantly liked her, we went to some concerts, talked and partied through the night, washed each others hair every morning (the campground only had some very idiotic waterplaces were you had to push the water trigger all the time or it stopped, so we had to manage it somehow). And well after a lot of gentlemany behaviour and charmingness, she finally stopped teasing me the last night of the festival and

5)First contact was in a scene-related online community, for goths and alike in this region of the land. Then i was in a club with my best (girl)friend, which i hadnt seen for some time, we entered the club, and SHE was standing at the bar, waving towards me , we just said hi and went on, after all it was an evening planed for me and my friend, so i didnt want to go "hunting" that day.
My friend just said: "wow she looks great, you should make her your new girlfriend." [true story!] I said "ok, i will be back later". Went back to her, we talked, we liked us, we went to clubs together every week the following month, then we met at her place and i brought a movie that we didnt watch together.(Monty Python's The Meaning of Life if anyone is interested)
 

nunqual

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"Wanna go see a movie this weekend?"

And it's been a grand time ever since. Don't be afraid of gals, just go for it and don't overthink it.

Funny story about that line, though. We didn't actually end up seeing a movie, we went bowling and then to dinner. Still a great date, and probably better than a movie. I don't like the concept of a movie date, unless you're getting dinner afterwords.
 

Redlin5_v1legacy

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My previous girlfriend and I met backstage during a Highschool production of some stupid show. I was helping tech, she was managing the actors. That is how we met. It went from friendship to dating to cold, distant friendship. I don't like being dumped over Facebook. I haven't forgiven her entirely yet.
 

BiscuitTrouser

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The Unworthy Gentleman said:
You share the same method i do. And also the same number of girlfriends both past and present. Fair dos my friend. My first was a gradual change from friend to more than friend, i asked her out, she said no very hisitantly. I'm never rumbled or awkwarded so we went back to being friends. Then it became more. We dated two years and broke up three monthd ago.

I pulled today in fact "hurrah" having just come back from my frinds house. Me and her became more than friends over time and after a drunken accident agreed we would make a good couple. Today however (a week later) we actually did something about it. Fun times had by all. Weird shizzle goin down though, its a weird casual/secret relationship combined together. It looks to be interesting.

As to advice? I became friends with the above girl actually rather recently. I ironically helped her through a break up 2 months back. I wold just start talking to her, go places with her and mutual friends. Thats how i did it, through a friend called joey.
 

ThreeWords

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Hell, for me things just happen.
With most girls, I'm annoying but amusing, a bit of a nerd but confident enough to be worth talking to. However, I'm hardly a focus of sexual tension.
But some people just seem to click, and things go from there. I just take what comes my way...
 

Julianking93

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My only relationships have spawned through school and they ended horribly.

But, they were going terribly to begin with :/
 
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BiscuitTrouser said:
You share the same method i do. And also the same number of girlfriends both past and present. Fair dos my friend. My first was a gradual change from friend to more than friend, i asked her out, she said no very hisitantly. I'm never rumbled or awkwarded so we went back to being friends. Then it became more. We dated two years and broke up three monthd ago.

I pulled today in fact "hurrah" having just come back from my frinds house. Me and her became more than friends over time and after a drunken accident agreed we would make a good couple. Today however (a week later) we actually did something about it. Fun times had by all. Weird shizzle goin down though, its a weird casual/secret relationship combined together. It looks to be interesting.

As to advice? I became friends with the above girl actually rather recently. I ironically helped her through a break up 2 months back. I wold just start talking to her, go places with her and mutual friends. Thats how i did it, through a friend called joey.
Apparently we do. We both seem to become friends before becoming more so. I can't just ask a girl out, we need to be friends before I jump in. That is precisely why I can't get in with this new lass. After I'd do the friend thing. Places with friends and places on our own. Just need a window.

And well done on your new conquest, always good to hear of someone managing to pull. Always.
 

Thyunda

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Refused to let her walk home alone from college, so I spent an hour every day walking her through the park, then another three hours getting home. But shush. She doesn't know the three hours part.
Girls love a gentleman, put simply.
 

hey_iknowyou

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I met my current girlfriend at a houseparty, we just started chatting and got on extremely well and became good friends. I was going out with a different girl at the time so nothing happened for a while, then the old girlfriend and I broke up and my current girlfriend and I got together. It's been nearly seven years now and still going strong.
 

movienut

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Thyunda said:
Refused to let her walk home alone from college, so I spent an hour every day walking her through the park, then another three hours getting home. But shush. She doesn't know the three hours part.
Girls love a gentleman, put simply.
This is true. That is what attractede me to my husband. He is protective and a gentleman. We have been together for 15 years this January, so there has to be something to it.

In my experience though, if I may interject a female voice here, friendship really is the best way to go if you want something long term and stable...and if you are just in it for the other, um, recreational activities then I don't wanna know! I have a 13 year old daughter and you guys frighten me. :-(
 

The Wykydtron

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Ah yes these so called "Girlfriends" A sentient race usually used to provide bragging right in macho social circles... We have dismissed these claims.
 
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I don't currently have a girlfriend, but I have an ex...

She asked me if I wanted to get a drink, I said yes...we kept seeing eachother after that.

Man, my life is so interesting.
 

Kenko

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Never had a girlfriend. Suppose being overly cynical, loud-mouthed boring person isnt very attractive.
 

biggles1

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I've never had looks or popularity on my side, so I go for the personality approach, not only because its my only ace but becuase its also the most important thing in a relationship. My previous 2 girlfriends I broke up with because of various reasons but I am still really good friends with both of them. My current girlfriend I have known for over a decade and we started going out 5 months ago, and it's the best relationship so far :)