If someone is accusing you wrongly for whatever reason either don't dignify them a retort or call them out on Mccarthyism, which ever is most appropriate.
I wonder if he feels the same way about "lady candy"Johnny Impact said:He was a fat kid and has carried some of it into adulthood, had problems with ***** tits, etc. He says "man candy" like Chris Hemsworth is demeaning and offensive. Really I think he's jealous that he'll never look that way no matter how hard he works.
Or, alternatively, I direct people to the Avenue Q song:"I just want to say I am not a racist. I don't even see race, not even my own. People tell me I'm white and I believe them because I just spent six minutes explaining how I am not a racist- and that is about the whitest thing you could do."
I'm sorry but you can't have it both ways, you can;t say you like them as people yet be against their basic human rights (as in the right to marry and love whom they wish without persecution)Mad World said:I state that I am against the actions (homosexual marriage, for example), but not the people. And, it's true. I love all people - including gays. However, that doesn't mean that I have to tolerate their actions.
One of the dumbest, most deluded things I've ever read, alongside "I don't mind gay people, I just don't want MY kid to be one" and "I'm not racist, I just don't agree with inter-racial marriage". Woooow.Mad World said:I'm against gay acts; I think that they're wrong. I love gays (as I love all people). It's just that I don't agree with what they do.
heh...I think this might be ironic...or something...Trippy Turtle said:Doesn't really matter to me what people think I think.
Hell, [b/]I don't even think any of those are necessarily bad things until you act on them.[/b] I believe they can't help being weirded out by gay people any more than gay people can help liking dudes.
yeah I think if somone said that to me I would....not say very nice things to them in return, its like wanting to be anti-gay and also wanting a free pass for itStarsintheBlood said:One of the dumbest, most deluded things I've ever read, alongside "I don't mind gay people, I just don't want MY kid to be one" and "I'm not racist, I just don't agree with inter-racial marriage". Woooow.
That's pretty much my view on the matter as well. There are certain times and/or debates where choosing to criticize the actions of a minority will inevitably lead to people assuming that you're bigoted against said group.Artina89 said:I don't argue whether or not I am racist/homophobic/etc as I find it a waste of time and effort. If someone I don't know has labelled me as homphobic/racist/whatever, I am not going to bend over backwards to change their mind, because more often than not, it is barely worth the time and the effort. I try and treat people how I would like to be treated myself.
Lol. If somebody accused me of being homophobic for saying that I would have laughed in their face.Headsprouter said:"That guy's wearing two layers of pink? He must be double gay!"
I would be appalled at them for saying something like that to their child/a gay person. But hey, its a valid opinion. I don't want my kid to be a smoker. I don't go out and insult smokers or even have something against them. I just don't want my child to smoke because, (ignoring the health issues) I personally don't think it looks good/is good for you. Same thing could go for being gay, but its just taboo to criticize them at all these days.Vault101 said:heh...I think this might be ironic...or something...Trippy Turtle said:Doesn't really matter to me what people think I think.
Hell, [b/]I don't even think any of those are necessarily bad things until you act on them.[/b] I believe they can't help being weirded out by gay people any more than gay people can help liking dudes.yeah I think if somone said that to me I would....not say very nice things to them in return, its like wanting to be anti-gay and also wanting a free pass for itStarsintheBlood said:One of the dumbest, most deluded things I've ever read, alongside "I don't mind gay people, I just don't want MY kid to be one" and "I'm not racist, I just don't agree with inter-racial marriage". Woooow.
By that logic, you wouldn't mind me and a consenting dog to have sex? How about a few dead bodies, they won't mind?Gundam GP01 said:Good for you. However, how can you be against something that does not negatively effect you or anyone else in any way?
no actually it couldn't because smoking is a habit one willfully picks up...Trippy Turtle said:I would be appalled at them for saying something like that to their child/a gay person. But hey, its a valid opinion. I don't want my kid to be a smoker. I don't go out and insult smokers or even have something against them. I just don't want my child to smoke because, (ignoring the health issues) I personally don't think it looks good/is good for you. Same thing could go for being gay,