How do you explain bisexuals?
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I thought I was bisexual for a while, and I probably am at some point in my annoyingly complex self, but I don't really feel conciously attracted to girls. It's probably too weird to put into words, but whatever.
As far as others go, bisexuals are just people who are attracted to both sexes... more fuckery with genes and whatever it is that changes sexuality. I'd actually like to research that ^^
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As far as others go, bisexuals are just people who are attracted to both sexes... more fuckery with genes and whatever it is that changes sexuality. I'd actually like to research that ^^
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All WOMEN are bisexual.Lonan said:
I swear to Odin males are not. ANd you cannot convince me otherwise.
NANANANANANANA I'M NOT LISTENING
Surely if we're bound to be fixed by the idea of sexuality (as apparently we all are), which is defined, usually, by whether you are attracted to your own or the opposite gender, surely desiring both at the same time (potentially) falls outside of that, essentially breaking the mould (surely a good thing?).Zachary Amaranth said:
I've gotten more curious about the how part as well, and largely because of how many claim to be so on the Escapist wonder how much of it is environmental. I know it tends to be a younger crowd on the Escapist from what I'm used to, by a good 10 years or so, and when I look back at my time through high school/college there's just nothing to relate to here. Two things seem to have happened inbetween though (from my high school days at least), quick and easy access to any sort of porn you could want, and the rise of the emo-subculture where it became cool for guys to be bi. If you could post this question online only 10 years ago the answers would be very different, so there's gotta be something to it.esin said:
arn't the women supposed to bend over for you?Mr.K. said:
-I really hope no one finds that joke offensive-
I'm with you on these points...slightly evil said:
I don't officially consider myself bisexual, having been strongly heterosexual and attracted to women for the majority of my life. However my mind has opened of late and I'm starting to find myself attracted to some men, including the various naughty thoughts that go with that! :3
I'm unsure if I would want to have sex with a man, but then I'm not sexually active with women either so it's hardly a fair assessment! I don't really see much difference in being attracted to either sex, which is odd because I'd thought I would be more apprehensive about finding men alluring. I just see... an attractive person. Women... I'd take any kind, but men, my men would have to be pretty. Yeah, I'd be a real shallow gay!
As for people calling bisexuals greedy... that just doesn't make any sense. I mean consider male and female people as two different foods (forgive the metaphor.) Heteros can only eat one food, but the bisexuals can have both. Why would you be jealous of the bisexual just because they like something you don't? Chances are they'll have the same amount as you, just with more variety. They're just jealous that they're minds aren't quite so open, that's all!
I mostly look at things like a smile, the eyes, ass and personality. Someone who's funny and capable of having hour-long conversations are very attracting to me.
The gender don't really play into the attraction. If you're hetero, you don't think "oh man it's a female. Wow that's so hot". Well...maybe if you're desperate.
Hope it made sense to you guys
The gender don't really play into the attraction. If you're hetero, you don't think "oh man it's a female. Wow that's so hot". Well...maybe if you're desperate.
Hope it made sense to you guys
Bi sexuality like homosexuality, heterosexuality trans sextuality pan sexuality
You know.. it are labels that try to make sense of things. Because we like labels
BUT labels are limited really is a guy who likes girls but once in a while that certain special guy.. is he heterosexual or bi sexual. But the meaning of labels he is bi, and that is good! But lets be fair mostly he is going for the girls.. so really is bi sexual the best label.
And really that is the story there is so much more to sexuality then these labels. In the basis yes the help make things understandable but also kinda don't work.
It is just a definition really...
Not a choice obviously not but the words we use are our CHOICE of words we use.
You know.. it are labels that try to make sense of things. Because we like labels
BUT labels are limited really is a guy who likes girls but once in a while that certain special guy.. is he heterosexual or bi sexual. But the meaning of labels he is bi, and that is good! But lets be fair mostly he is going for the girls.. so really is bi sexual the best label.
And really that is the story there is so much more to sexuality then these labels. In the basis yes the help make things understandable but also kinda don't work.
It is just a definition really...
Not a choice obviously not but the words we use are our CHOICE of words we use.
Not really..holy_secret said:I mostly look at things like a smile, the eyes, ass and personality. Someone who's funny and capable of having hour-long conversations are very attracting to me.
The gender don't really play into the attraction. If you're hetero, you don't think "oh man it's a female. Wow that's so hot". Well...maybe if you're desperate.
Hope it made sense to you guys
Heteros find the characteristics of the opposite sex attractive, which is a direct result of sex.
I find boobs attractive. I love fat booties. A feminine face really gets me going, along with that slender neck and that sultry voice.
Flat chest, wide shoulders and vein riddled balls do not inspire the same feelings.
I am bi, and it's the same shit as being attracted to a woman, what did you expect anyway?facaldo said:
I really don't understand why people think it's different because it's to the same sex... Jesus, will these threads stop soon?
Labels are not meaningless, arbitrary, or limited. The only thing limiting such things would be a small functional vocabulary, or a lack of understanding.masticina said:
And the scenario you speak of would be labeled 'Hetero with an Exception.'
This has never been proven. I have a friend who was not gay, but after years of being made fun of for his lisp, he was societally pressured into becoming his image. Also, I was bi but I don't even think about men that way anymore.Ephraim J. Witchwood said:
I've always seen this as a matter of biology. Sex, gender, and sexuality are separate and unique components. Sex is your chromosome composition, mostly XX (female) and XY (male). However, it's possible to be XXX, XXY, XYY, XXXX, XYXY,or X due to non-disjunction mutations during meiosis. Next, gender is usually defined by genitals and secondary sexual characteristics like breasts. Again, this isn't always as simple as "boy" or "girl", as certain mutations can case an individual who is XY to develop as a female (technically our "default" gender developmentally). Finally, sexuality has a heavy basis in pheromones. Although we're not as sensitive to them as other animals, pheromones still have a huge impact on sexual arousal. There have even been experiments where heterosexual males have shown an arousal response to male pheromones.
TLDR: It's mostly biological.
TLDR: It's mostly biological.