And you know what they say about rock stars... all those guitars, whythmically strumming the long smooth shafts of hard wood, or fondling those long black sticks with the bulb on the end, worryingly close to one's mouth...Olivia Faraday said:
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I love this post so much I want to have sex with it and have lots of little post children.Thanatus1992 said:
However, the additional I disagree with, because most of us are going to say "yeah, you're gay, woohoo" or argue that it wasn't a choice. I don't think its quite the same reaction as the KKK would have with racial equality.
Didn't Freud prove that most people would be bisexual if it wasn't for religion, society, shyness, lack of imagination etc etc? I totally believe that, but I'm biased because I'm bi. I don't believe in limiting yourself just because of rampant ignorance in the world.
About it being a choice, I'm not really certain since I'm the only bisexual man I know in real life and haven't been able to talk about mutual experiences with anyone. I've talked to a lot of bi women though and they've had pretty much the same experience as me, just the other way around - for the first few years of puberty they've liked only men, but after that they started noticing women as well and said to themselves "fuck it, I like them as well", so they went with it. The straight men and women I've talked to refuse to even acknowledge that a same-sex relationship involving them is even possible, but I don't know whether that's true or they just fear them because of societal pressure.
Anyway, I don't see what you are trying to prove with your little rant, I don't think it's the world's business who you sleep with. It doesn't matter whether you are bi, straight, gay or any of the cornucopia of sexualities, it doesn't make you any more or any less of a person.
About it being a choice, I'm not really certain since I'm the only bisexual man I know in real life and haven't been able to talk about mutual experiences with anyone. I've talked to a lot of bi women though and they've had pretty much the same experience as me, just the other way around - for the first few years of puberty they've liked only men, but after that they started noticing women as well and said to themselves "fuck it, I like them as well", so they went with it. The straight men and women I've talked to refuse to even acknowledge that a same-sex relationship involving them is even possible, but I don't know whether that's true or they just fear them because of societal pressure.
Anyway, I don't see what you are trying to prove with your little rant, I don't think it's the world's business who you sleep with. It doesn't matter whether you are bi, straight, gay or any of the cornucopia of sexualities, it doesn't make you any more or any less of a person.
You can never be too harsh in these kinds of scenarios.anthony87 said:
'Special snowflakes' need to be crushed before they get any more ideas that they're somehow unique.
[HEADING=1]Crush 'em all! Scorched earth response![/HEADING]
Liking something and choosing something are very distinct.Spence Thompson said:
I like women. Doesn't mean I couldn't choose to suck some chode if the situation arises. Choice has little to do with what you like (other than a human naturally striding towards doing what they like to do).
What you *like* however, is outside of your control, and is based on a shitton of different factors, most of which you have no influence over (like uteral conditions and genes), and a bunch that you have influence over but not *conscious* influence over.
Most people who give blow jobs don't pretend its a political issue that merits large vocabularies and extensive debate. Put it on a T-shirt and go back to work.
My philosophy is; Why try to kick down the backdoor, when the front door has a welcome mat?Fappy said:
You can choose to be a lot of things, but you can't choose who you are. If you could, I would choose to be an even 2 meters tall, I hate being 197.5cm.
Yeah, I know he had... questionable methods and morals, but extensive study has been done on this particular issue and he was... well, not proven, but found out to be on the right track.LetalisK said:
Uhhhhhh, just what kind of discussion value does this really have? 
I agree with ya for what ya said, but like... really? Why is this here?
I agree with ya for what ya said, but like... really? Why is this here?
I've always been a bit confused as to whether I'm bi or not. On the one hand, I find some guys attractive. I have a specific type that I normally find attractive, as well as some exceptions. On the other hand, anal sex sounds awful (it's where poop lives! Poop!) and so does oral sex. I don't want someone's mouth on my junk, and I don't want to put my mouth on someone else's junk. Mostly because mouths are full of saliva and and such, and are rather gross. I also imagine I wouldn't like making out, either. I guess like nude cuddling or something would be okay? I don't really know.
But maybe that's just because I'm a virgin, and this is all speculation. Also this is probably rather tmi.
But maybe that's just because I'm a virgin, and this is all speculation. Also this is probably rather tmi.
Eh, I don't think it's a big deal to be sexually attracted to the same gender. It's not the same as being emotionally attracted.