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Hello internet.

I just want to say I like my fighting fucktoy's. And I want to know why that's a bad thing.

I grew up in a world where women are equal to men. I grew up in a world where gay relationships are completely normal. I grew up in a world where what made people happy was just fine as long as no one lost an eye.

What happened to that world? Why are people trying to tell me my toys are wrong?

I haven't yanked the vibrator out of my fiancee's desk and told her shes wrong for enjoying the occasional orgasm without me. I don't go around to the local gay bar and tell the guys and girls there they're wrong for enjoying each others company. I don't waste my time going to local churches and heckling people for worshiping a spaghetti monster.

So if I want to enjoy a game as a female character or that features a female character that I find visually and sexually appealing and part of the reason I find that character appealing is because she kicks ass....why is that wrong? Explain to me what is wrong with that?

If everyone else is normal and what they're doing is just fine...then I am too. Just because I like empowered, distractingly dressed alpha females that can be admired both for their beauty and their capabilities doesn't make me some kind of terrorist.
 

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Because if it doesn't fit the tone of the story, if it's a female character who is scantily clad soldier in the middle of a modern war zone, I'm gonna call it what it is. Bad and lazy writing. All I want is consistent tone in my stories.

And for the love of Christ, when I criticize female characters like this I am not criticizing the people who enjoy them. No one is saying you're a bad person for enjoying it. Chill. Out. Or am I allowed to run around the forums saying how everyone is telling me I'm wrong for enjoying Halo and console gaming?
 

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I dont really think it promotes sexism or mysogony in the same way that GTA doesnt make you a mass murderer

Id also like to add that upon reading the title I though you were carrying out some sort of combat using dildos. Perhaps its worth a title change
 

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Because if it doesn't fit the tone of the story, if it's a female character who is scantily clad soldier in the middle of a modern war zone, I'm gonna call it what it is. Bad and lazy writing. All I want is consistent tone in my stories.

And for the love of Christ, when I criticize female characters like this I am not criticizing the people who enjoy them. No one is saying you're a bad person for enjoying it. Chill. Out.
I'm not sure I'd appreciate a scantily clad female in a warzone either, you're right that would be lazy writing.

But where it fits and where the character fits the tone I don't see the issue.

And while you may not be saying that hetero-normative men that enjoy games like this are bad people, the general message being sent is "If you like boob armor, you're a terrorist".

Thats hyperbole, but the internet is BUILT on hyperbole.
 

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I grew up in a world where women are equal to men. I grew up in a world where gay relationships are completely normal. I grew up in a world where what made people happy was just fine as long as no one lost an eye.
Oh hello there, and let me be the first to welcome you to Earth. Unfortunately, we aren't anywhere near that advanced yet, but we are working on it.
 

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I dont really think it promotes sexism or mysogony in the same way that GTA doesnt make you a mass murderer

Id also like to add that upon reading the title I though you were carrying out some sort of combat using dildos. Perhaps its worth a title change
That would be an awesome video response if Youtube still allowed video responses.
 

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Because if it doesn't fit the tone of the story, if it's a female character who is scantily clad soldier in the middle of a modern war zone, I'm gonna call it what it is. Bad and lazy writing. All I want is consistent tone in my stories.

And for the love of Christ, when I criticize female characters like this I am not criticizing the people who enjoy them. No one is saying you're a bad person for enjoying it. Chill. Out.
I'm not sure I'd appreciate a scantily clad female in a warzone either, you're right that would be lazy writing.

But where it fits and where the character fits the tone I don't see the issue.

And while you may not be saying that hetero-normative men that enjoy games like this are bad people, the general message being sent is "If you like boob armor, you're a terrorist".

Thats hyperbole, but the internet is BUILT on hyperbole.
Well if that's the case then there's no problem is there?

...Uh-huh. Forgive me if I feel like that's a bit of an overreaction.
 

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I grew up in a world where women are equal to men. I grew up in a world where gay relationships are completely normal. I grew up in a world where what made people happy was just fine as long as no one lost an eye.
Where do you live, and can I move there?
(Also are there dragons too? That would be perfect.)
 

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Pr0 said:
I grew up in a world where women are equal to men. I grew up in a world where gay relationships are completely normal. I grew up in a world where what made people happy was just fine as long as no one lost an eye.
Where do you live, and can I move there?
(Also are there dragons too? That would be perfect.)
No dragon's. But the rest of it is there, when I read back what I wrote its easy to see why people would say "We don't live in that world."

Heres the thing....WE don't have to live in that world. Its the world I choose to live in. You can live there too, so can anyone else. The world you live in is largely what you put in your own head anyways....actually biologically and neurologically that's 100% accurate.
 

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Pr0 said:
erttheking said:
Because if it doesn't fit the tone of the story, if it's a female character who is scantily clad soldier in the middle of a modern war zone, I'm gonna call it what it is. Bad and lazy writing. All I want is consistent tone in my stories.

And for the love of Christ, when I criticize female characters like this I am not criticizing the people who enjoy them. No one is saying you're a bad person for enjoying it. Chill. Out.
I'm not sure I'd appreciate a scantily clad female in a warzone either, you're right that would be lazy writing.

But where it fits and where the character fits the tone I don't see the issue.

And while you may not be saying that hetero-normative men that enjoy games like this are bad people, the general message being sent is "If you like boob armor, you're a terrorist".

Thats hyperbole, but the internet is BUILT on hyperbole.
Well if that's the case then there's no problem is there?

...Uh-huh. Forgive me if I feel like that's a bit of an overreaction.
It would be an over reaction amongst about 300 million huger over reactions at this point.
 

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No one gives a fuck if you like them. Do that. Good for you. Don't try and silence people who don't lile them.
I don't, what part of this post says I'm trying to silence anyone? The post says....hey we all like different stuff, as long as it makes us happy and it doesn't hurt anyone, thats alright...right?

You have an rather aggressive posture for someone with an MLP avatar.
 

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Pr0 said:
erttheking said:
Pr0 said:
erttheking said:
Because if it doesn't fit the tone of the story, if it's a female character who is scantily clad soldier in the middle of a modern war zone, I'm gonna call it what it is. Bad and lazy writing. All I want is consistent tone in my stories.

And for the love of Christ, when I criticize female characters like this I am not criticizing the people who enjoy them. No one is saying you're a bad person for enjoying it. Chill. Out.
I'm not sure I'd appreciate a scantily clad female in a warzone either, you're right that would be lazy writing.

But where it fits and where the character fits the tone I don't see the issue.

And while you may not be saying that hetero-normative men that enjoy games like this are bad people, the general message being sent is "If you like boob armor, you're a terrorist".

Thats hyperbole, but the internet is BUILT on hyperbole.
Well if that's the case then there's no problem is there?

...Uh-huh. Forgive me if I feel like that's a bit of an overreaction.
It would be an over reaction amongst about 300 million huger over reactions at this point.
And that has what to do with anything? We're talking about what you said right now, not what other people said. And I'm sorry, I can't take the claim that people who dislike sexualized characters are saying "If you like boob armor you're a terrorist" seriously.
 

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Pr0 said:
Lieju said:
Pr0 said:
I grew up in a world where women are equal to men. I grew up in a world where gay relationships are completely normal. I grew up in a world where what made people happy was just fine as long as no one lost an eye.
Where do you live, and can I move there?
(Also are there dragons too? That would be perfect.)
No dragon's. But the rest of it is there, when I read back what I wrote its easy to see why people would say "We don't live in that world."

Heres the thing....WE don't have to live in that world. Its the world I choose to live in. You can live there too, so can anyone else. The world you live in is largely what you put in your own head anyways....actually biologically and neurologically that's 100% accurate.
I'm gonna be living in a world full of dragons from now on then, thanks for the advice.
Also I might choose to include some cats and all my pets.
Bye.
 

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Heres the thing....WE don't have to live in that world. Its the world I choose to live in. You can live there too, so can anyone else. The world you live in is largely what you put in your own head anyways....actually biologically and neurologically that's 100% accurate.
Sounds a lot like power of positive thinking woo, like, if you just believe hard enough, it'll happen. I think it reminds me of a certain character created by J.M. Barrie.

I do wonder why this was made though, as it's pretty aparent this is directed at grassgremlins thread. Where is the discussion value?
 

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Lieju said:
Pr0 said:
Lieju said:
Pr0 said:
I grew up in a world where women are equal to men. I grew up in a world where gay relationships are completely normal. I grew up in a world where what made people happy was just fine as long as no one lost an eye.
Where do you live, and can I move there?
(Also are there dragons too? That would be perfect.)
No dragon's. But the rest of it is there, when I read back what I wrote its easy to see why people would say "We don't live in that world."

Heres the thing....WE don't have to live in that world. Its the world I choose to live in. You can live there too, so can anyone else. The world you live in is largely what you put in your own head anyways....actually biologically and neurologically that's 100% accurate.
I'm gonna be living in a world full of dragons from now on then, thanks for the advice.
Also I might choose to include some cats and all my pets.
Bye.
Sounds like a solid plan. I wish you luck and happiness.

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Pr0 said:
erttheking said:
Pr0 said:
erttheking said:
Because if it doesn't fit the tone of the story, if it's a female character who is scantily clad soldier in the middle of a modern war zone, I'm gonna call it what it is. Bad and lazy writing. All I want is consistent tone in my stories.

And for the love of Christ, when I criticize female characters like this I am not criticizing the people who enjoy them. No one is saying you're a bad person for enjoying it. Chill. Out.
I'm not sure I'd appreciate a scantily clad female in a warzone either, you're right that would be lazy writing.

But where it fits and where the character fits the tone I don't see the issue.

And while you may not be saying that hetero-normative men that enjoy games like this are bad people, the general message being sent is "If you like boob armor, you're a terrorist".

Thats hyperbole, but the internet is BUILT on hyperbole.
Well if that's the case then there's no problem is there?

...Uh-huh. Forgive me if I feel like that's a bit of an overreaction.
It would be an over reaction amongst about 300 million huger over reactions at this point.
And that has what to do with anything? We're talking about what you said right now, not what other people said. And I'm sorry, I can't take the claim that people who dislike sexualized characters are saying "If you like boob armor you're a terrorist" seriously.
Granted but don't you think the polemic has shifted away from "we dislike sexualized characters" and more towards "sexualization of characters is wrong and the people that enjoy sexualized characters are the reason this problem exists".

There I took "terrorist" out of the hyperbolic simplification, perhaps its easier to run through the punch card machine and see if it checks out this time.
 

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Pr0 said:
Heres the thing....WE don't have to live in that world. Its the world I choose to live in. You can live there too, so can anyone else. The world you live in is largely what you put in your own head anyways....actually biologically and neurologically that's 100% accurate.
Sounds a lot like power of positive thinking woo, like, if you just believe hard enough, it'll happen. I think it reminds me of a certain character created by J.M. Barrie.

I do wonder why this was made though, as it's pretty aparent this is directed at grassgremlins thread. Where is the discussion value?
Uh I didn't see Gas Gremlin's thread til after I made this one, the term "Fighting Fucktoy's" is actually used on Twitter with an origin from Feminist Frequency I believe.
 

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Pr0 said:
TheKasp said:
No one gives a fuck if you like them. Do that. Good for you. Don't try and silence people who don't lile them.
I don't, what part of this post says I'm trying to silence anyone? The post says....hey we all like different stuff, as long as it makes us happy and it doesn't hurt anyone, thats alright...right?

You have an rather aggressive posture for someone with an MLP avatar.
No, you did not say that. And I should've been more clear that my answer was more general and way less directed at you.

Yes, as long as I'm free to critique the shit I'm passionate about in ways I'm interested in you're free to like whatever you want to like. Because I really don't see the connection between those two things. I can rip apart games, movies and series I like in many different ways.

Yeah, I'm a bit tired of this whole ordeal.
Everyone has a right to opinion and critique. I'm not saying you have to like what I like, or that you shouldn't say what I like isn't to your taste, all I'm saying is I feel like I'm wrong for liking what I like because of how all this stuff has gone. I've almost never looked at a social movement in the world and went "Wait...what?" like I have with this one.
 

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Pr0 said:
Lieju said:
Pr0 said:
Lieju said:
Pr0 said:
I grew up in a world where women are equal to men. I grew up in a world where gay relationships are completely normal. I grew up in a world where what made people happy was just fine as long as no one lost an eye.
Where do you live, and can I move there?
(Also are there dragons too? That would be perfect.)
No dragon's. But the rest of it is there, when I read back what I wrote its easy to see why people would say "We don't live in that world."

Heres the thing....WE don't have to live in that world. Its the world I choose to live in. You can live there too, so can anyone else. The world you live in is largely what you put in your own head anyways....actually biologically and neurologically that's 100% accurate.
I'm gonna be living in a world full of dragons from now on then, thanks for the advice.
Also I might choose to include some cats and all my pets.
Bye.
Sounds like a solid plan. I wish you luck and happiness.

erttheking said:
Pr0 said:
erttheking said:
Pr0 said:
erttheking said:
Because if it doesn't fit the tone of the story, if it's a female character who is scantily clad soldier in the middle of a modern war zone, I'm gonna call it what it is. Bad and lazy writing. All I want is consistent tone in my stories.

And for the love of Christ, when I criticize female characters like this I am not criticizing the people who enjoy them. No one is saying you're a bad person for enjoying it. Chill. Out.
I'm not sure I'd appreciate a scantily clad female in a warzone either, you're right that would be lazy writing.

But where it fits and where the character fits the tone I don't see the issue.

And while you may not be saying that hetero-normative men that enjoy games like this are bad people, the general message being sent is "If you like boob armor, you're a terrorist".

Thats hyperbole, but the internet is BUILT on hyperbole.
Well if that's the case then there's no problem is there?

...Uh-huh. Forgive me if I feel like that's a bit of an overreaction.
It would be an over reaction amongst about 300 million huger over reactions at this point.
And that has what to do with anything? We're talking about what you said right now, not what other people said. And I'm sorry, I can't take the claim that people who dislike sexualized characters are saying "If you like boob armor you're a terrorist" seriously.
Granted but don't you think the polemic has shifted away from "we dislike sexualized characters" and more towards "sexualization of characters is wrong and the people that enjoy sexualized characters are the reason this problem exists".

There I took "terrorist" out of the hyperbolic simplification, perhaps its easier to run through the punch card machine and see if it checks out this time.
No, no no no. I will grant you that there is some "The sexualization of characters is wrong IF it serves no purpose other than to titillate." But people who enjoy it are part of the problem? No.

We're never gonna get anywhere in these discussions if everyone takes every criticism personally. I like sexy characters too. When they make sense.
 

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erttheking said:
Because if it doesn't fit the tone of the story, if it's a female character who is scantily clad soldier in the middle of a modern war zone, I'm gonna call it what it is. Bad and lazy writing. All I want is consistent tone in my stories.

And for the love of Christ, when I criticize female characters like this I am not criticizing the people who enjoy them. No one is saying you're a bad person for enjoying it. Chill. Out.
Well it amounts to the same thing because if people didn't enjoy them they wouldn't exist.

The thing though is that people need to understand this whole "hypersexualized character" thing is not gender specific and appeals to both genders. Typically Sarkeesian-type feminists need to argue that the overdone guys represent a male power fantasy so they don't count as the same thing, when they actually do, because the girls looking that way represents a power fantasy as well. You'll notice when women create fantasy characters they are typically extremely hot, and tend to dress just as outrageously. Arguably when it comes to girls writing for a female audience they tend to be worse than guys are which is where the whole "Mary Sue" thing comes from. What's more when it comes to sexual content I'll say girls are far more into that than guys are, and tend to be nastier about it as well. One of the ironic things about these whole discussions is that for the most part they stem from women pushing to be included in everything AND to have romantic and emotional subplots added into everything to appeal to them... and yes women gravitate heavily towards romance and such, as you can tell by the sheer number of books churned out on those topics, which they are hardly being held at gunpoint to produce by some kind of militant patriarchy. See the odd thing is that dudes tend to be a lot simpler and can be quite content with stories about brotherly bonding, a few guys against the environment, or whatever else. Society has gotten to the point where this is viewed as being wrong, and it means female characters need to be tacked in everywhere, and of course simply treating them like another guy who just happens to not be a guy is a no-no. Take say "Lord Of The Rings" for example, that's almost a complete bro-fest, but for the movies they greatly extended the roles of a lot of female characters and even created new ones (Tauriel) adding in more feminine and emotive subplots other than "WAR! DEFEAT THE DARKNESS, BROHOOD WILL SAVE THE WORLD!".

The point here is that there is not an issue unless people want to make one, and really a lot of problems tend to come about as a result of people trying to force changes and make people to conform to specific political ideals. By definition the creative process is not something that is ever going to be politically correct or socially balanced, and nor should it be.

At any rate, more on the subject, the thing about skimpy costumes in unlikely situations is because it looks cool, and it adds to the badassitude of a character when they can apparently get away with dressing like that despite the absurdity of it. It also applies to both genders, for example guys run around with these huge beefcake arms, showing off unlikely amounts of muscle definition (and let's be honest, that appeals to most girls, the dudes pumping iron at the beach to get and maintain arms like that usually don't have any shortage of female admirers), I mean heck even if they had the potential for that kind of muscle definition it's not likely sweat would consistently fall to show it off perfectly, or say Marcus Fenix is going to sit around using Body Oil before he goes into combat. Likewise leaving your arms and legs uncovered is actually worse than a lack of torso protection due to shrapnel, splinters, running through brush, sliding across pavement, and the like. Some girl say running around in a bikini showing off her perfect body is similar, and like the above has a certain "I do it because I can" component. What's more if your dealing with fantasy and say bullets bounce off you, or your personal force field, why not flaunt what you have? People say complain about power girl showing her cleavage in DC comics for example, but notice real girls built anything like that tend to do the same thing when they can, the ones that complain are mostly girls who can't pull it off. What's more you can't say it makes no sense for what she does because really she doesn't need armor, attacks (including field artillery) against her fail because she's a Kryptonian and thus invulnerable to almost everything, so as a result she can dress like that if she wants to, and it makes a certain arrogant statement which actually fits the character, and it's also something a lot of girls IRL might do if they were that powerful. You'll also notice when girls create heroic characters they tend to behave very similarly. While not as super heroic pay attention sometime to what Rachael or Ivy wear in The Hollows books and even some of the jokes made about it (Rachael dressing like a streetwalker half the time comes up more than once), of course both characters are loaded with so much magic it doesn't much matter, especially later when Rachael really starts to explode on the power spectrum.

A big part of the equasion is how realistic your trying to be. If say the point of the game is that your female character is on a battlefield because she can literally do the fantastic stuff from a video game (dodge bullets, heal at a crazy rate, shoot with pinpoint accuracy, have a slowing mechanic of some sort) she can pretty much justify dressing however she wants to. The point is sort of to stand out because your at least a minor super hero, and half the point is supposed to be how crazy this is that one person is going to go running out there and change the entire course of a battle. In a purely realistic game that's different of course, but the really realistic games don't tend to be the ones complain about being obnoxious. Basically you don't see characters in "Call Of Duty" running around dressed like super models on a bikini runway unless your setting it up intentionally for lulz (it's not a game default). People rather tend to complain about characters like Bayonetta, where yeah... most women given that level of power and the looks she has would probably do something similar, and it's oddly exactly the kind of character a lot of women create. People talk about the crotch shots, dancing, and similar things, but understand that guys do that kind of thing as well, perhaps it's too modern for some people to really "get it" when it comes to girls "looking at the whole OMG Twerking responses IRL" but let's be blunt, Elvis was making money off of his Pelvis long before Bayonetta was a glimmer in the mind's eye, and you've seen guys doing sassy things in dance moves and even certain action scenes ever since, even if it's died out a bit except when a character is really Flamboyant. Zack from "Dead Or Alive" does a victory dance (male version) including Pelvic action at the end of DoA3 for example. I'm actually kind of surprised nobody drew the comparison between some of the "crotch action" in Bayonetta 2 and what was going on IRL with youth icons like Miley Cyrus (love her or hate her, she is one) basically it's less "female objectification" than a product of it's time, welcome to the 21st century. Also remember that while Miley got attention for this kind of thing, her daddy (Billy Ray) did the same stuff first and got the same kind of attention by shaking his hunky butt and package in front of women in too tight jeans and even getting right in their face or on their lap at times. It's pretty co-ed even if some people think it's outrageous, and frankly if anything I think Billy Ray went further proportionatly than Miley has because to my knowledge Miley has never done anything with random people in the audience.
 

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erttheking said:
Pr0 said:
Lieju said:
Pr0 said:
Lieju said:
Pr0 said:
I grew up in a world where women are equal to men. I grew up in a world where gay relationships are completely normal. I grew up in a world where what made people happy was just fine as long as no one lost an eye.
Where do you live, and can I move there?
(Also are there dragons too? That would be perfect.)
No dragon's. But the rest of it is there, when I read back what I wrote its easy to see why people would say "We don't live in that world."

Heres the thing....WE don't have to live in that world. Its the world I choose to live in. You can live there too, so can anyone else. The world you live in is largely what you put in your own head anyways....actually biologically and neurologically that's 100% accurate.
I'm gonna be living in a world full of dragons from now on then, thanks for the advice.
Also I might choose to include some cats and all my pets.
Bye.
Sounds like a solid plan. I wish you luck and happiness.

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Pr0 said:
erttheking said:
Pr0 said:
erttheking said:
Because if it doesn't fit the tone of the story, if it's a female character who is scantily clad soldier in the middle of a modern war zone, I'm gonna call it what it is. Bad and lazy writing. All I want is consistent tone in my stories.

And for the love of Christ, when I criticize female characters like this I am not criticizing the people who enjoy them. No one is saying you're a bad person for enjoying it. Chill. Out.
I'm not sure I'd appreciate a scantily clad female in a warzone either, you're right that would be lazy writing.

But where it fits and where the character fits the tone I don't see the issue.

And while you may not be saying that hetero-normative men that enjoy games like this are bad people, the general message being sent is "If you like boob armor, you're a terrorist".

Thats hyperbole, but the internet is BUILT on hyperbole.
Well if that's the case then there's no problem is there?

...Uh-huh. Forgive me if I feel like that's a bit of an overreaction.
It would be an over reaction amongst about 300 million huger over reactions at this point.
And that has what to do with anything? We're talking about what you said right now, not what other people said. And I'm sorry, I can't take the claim that people who dislike sexualized characters are saying "If you like boob armor you're a terrorist" seriously.
Granted but don't you think the polemic has shifted away from "we dislike sexualized characters" and more towards "sexualization of characters is wrong and the people that enjoy sexualized characters are the reason this problem exists".

There I took "terrorist" out of the hyperbolic simplification, perhaps its easier to run through the punch card machine and see if it checks out this time.
No, no no no. I will grant you that there is some "The sexualization of characters is wrong IF it serves no purpose other than to titillate." But people who enjoy it are part of the problem? No.

We're never gonna get anywhere in these discussions if everyone takes every criticism personally. I like sexy characters too. When they make sense.
Well I'm just saying its how its getting to me. As someone that literally has kept their head down the entire time. But I see the shifting landscape in various modding communities and how this is trickling down into game development at its lowest levels and it really makes me sit here and wonder what I'm supposed to enjoy if I'm allowed to enjoy anything at all.