I think God is kind and loves us much in the same way you would love your kids. Like, he'll let us make mistakes for the sake of learning, and hope that we don't make the same mistake again (nukes are a good example, although i don't really believe in divine intervention). Plus, look at it overall, at least in your case. You're sitting on a computer, connected to the internet, youre probably not starving, and you probably have a bed etc etc etc. I'd say, if you believe in such things, that God was quite kind to you. As for other people (people in poverty-stricken third world countries come to mind), the complete religious nuts would have you believe that its because they live in sin and are being judged. In reality it's prolly just, horrible as it sounds, luck of the draw...aka they got shafted and you didnt. So I'd say he's nice, but no one can please everybody