Here's why I think the reaction to feminist critiques of games is so vociferous:
1) Fear that feminist critique will lead to a climate of repression. As MysticSlayer pointed out, feminists critique video games to "(get) people to question stereotypes that they probably didn't even realize that they had" in an attempt to create change. A developer would then go "maybe we shouldn't put X in; it could be sexist or exclusionary." But if such a sentiment becomes widespread, "Maybe we shouldn't put X in" becomes "You must not even suggest X or you're fired. We denounce such bigotry!" Conservatives who work in Hollywood often have to hide their conservatism if they want to keep getting work; only the big names can afford to be open about it. Universities often have "speech codes" that harshly punish non-politically correct speech. Several people have been fired for saying things on Twitter that weren't PC, even if they weren't insulting.
This sort of oppressive climate is no different from a law against non-PC speech. They don't want creatives having to fear for their jobs just because they made, or spoke in favor of, a game that doesn't put a check mark in all the diversity boxes. They don't want it so that someone who makes such a game is considered a bigot who needs to be run out on a rail. The unspoken assumption behind "X trope/game/what-have-you is sexist" is that it should not be made because it somehow promotes hate or bigotry.
2) Racialized insults. Oftentimes, I see the term straight white male thrown around like a slur. These, along with the "dudebros," are supposed to be the "bad" guys of gaming that must be defeated if there is ever to be true inclusion. To the types that use this meme, only the Evil White Male is holding back the inevitable progress of gaming with his degenerate, rapacious ways. Advancing the medium, therefore, means not catering to their tastes, which are inherently seen as disordered or sickening by the SJW types.
Naturally, people don't like being cursed for their race or their sex, so they respond quite angrily. To add insult to injury, those who proclaim the inherent evil of straight white males often pride themselves on their anti-racism...while being racially hostile. It's an inherently hypocritical position to take, and the complainers know it.
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That's how I see this matter, anyway.
1) Fear that feminist critique will lead to a climate of repression. As MysticSlayer pointed out, feminists critique video games to "(get) people to question stereotypes that they probably didn't even realize that they had" in an attempt to create change. A developer would then go "maybe we shouldn't put X in; it could be sexist or exclusionary." But if such a sentiment becomes widespread, "Maybe we shouldn't put X in" becomes "You must not even suggest X or you're fired. We denounce such bigotry!" Conservatives who work in Hollywood often have to hide their conservatism if they want to keep getting work; only the big names can afford to be open about it. Universities often have "speech codes" that harshly punish non-politically correct speech. Several people have been fired for saying things on Twitter that weren't PC, even if they weren't insulting.
This sort of oppressive climate is no different from a law against non-PC speech. They don't want creatives having to fear for their jobs just because they made, or spoke in favor of, a game that doesn't put a check mark in all the diversity boxes. They don't want it so that someone who makes such a game is considered a bigot who needs to be run out on a rail. The unspoken assumption behind "X trope/game/what-have-you is sexist" is that it should not be made because it somehow promotes hate or bigotry.
2) Racialized insults. Oftentimes, I see the term straight white male thrown around like a slur. These, along with the "dudebros," are supposed to be the "bad" guys of gaming that must be defeated if there is ever to be true inclusion. To the types that use this meme, only the Evil White Male is holding back the inevitable progress of gaming with his degenerate, rapacious ways. Advancing the medium, therefore, means not catering to their tastes, which are inherently seen as disordered or sickening by the SJW types.
Naturally, people don't like being cursed for their race or their sex, so they respond quite angrily. To add insult to injury, those who proclaim the inherent evil of straight white males often pride themselves on their anti-racism...while being racially hostile. It's an inherently hypocritical position to take, and the complainers know it.
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That's how I see this matter, anyway.