boots said:
You are labouring under the misconception that every criticism of something like the Hitman/Lara Croft trailers is an attempt to censor and/or limit someone's free speech.
Please point to where I made this claim. Seriously, learn the difference between what I said and what you understand. I'm only responsible for the former.
boots said:
You said that people shouldn't speak up about things that they find offensive. Ergo, you think that they should stay silent. You also use every sad, tired trick in the book to try and shame people into staying silent: everything from calling them childish, to calling them "white knights", to accusing people of being oversensitive and hysterical.
Did I? Did I really? Are you sure that's not just your convenient interpretation? Please point out exactly where I said that people shouldn't criticise.
boots said:
Yep, there's the old "stop being so emotional" derailment tactic. Blimey, this is like cliché bingo.
You may want to desist from writing stuff without any intellectual value.
boots said:
People have emotions when they are discriminated against. That is not a failing. And if you paid any attention, you'd realise that the arguments against racism, sexism and homophobia in games are intellectual ones intended to encourage mature debate. FYI, you don't often find phrases like "you're just a white knight" and "grow up" in mature debate.
Indeed, when people suffer discrimination, they do have legitimate emotions. You have not established video games or any kind of media as legitimate discrimination. They always leave room for people to not care. Women being depicted in video games as absurdly proportioned doesn't even compare to being turned down a job because you're a woman; the latter has consequences, the former is just silly, it's like complaining about porn actresses having breast enlargement surgery because it appeals to a largely male-dominated demographic.
Also, prefacing something with "FYI" doesn't grant it any credibility, especially when you're complaining about my using of informal expressions. "White knight" and "grow up" are colloquial and informal and whilst you probably won't find them in a scientific case study, on an internet forum, yeah, you will. Proclaiming your opinion that you "don't often find them in a mature debate" won't avail you. Even if you did establish such a claim, it still won't help your case; the topic at hand isn't appropriate linguistics and expression.
Ask yourself this: Would you hear someone say FYI in a "mature debate"?
boots said:
See above. You tell people that they shouldn't complain about offensive material, therefore you think they should stay silent. You also try to shame them into staying silent. Get it?
It certainly would be handy for you if you could make conclusions of my behalf, however I never said anything about people's right to complain, only that they should stop being offended and that censorship is bad.
I want you to think really, really hard on this: Did I ever say "they shouldn't complain"? Read my post again and I'm sure that you'll see my point was that their taking offence was immature and that it doesn't give them any right to request the censoring of the object of their offence. I never said that they weren't allowed to criticise.
boots said:
Oh, so instead of attempting the momentous task of trying to improve media, we should instead take on the relatively easy task of convincing every single person on the planet to never, ever, ever allow their personal values to be influenced by any book, TV show, film or video game. They should instead base their personal values on essays about moralism and ... oh wait, that's another form of media. Hmm. Damn. Might need to rethink this.
Your idea of "improvement" doesn't automatically adhere to the people in charge of what gets published and what doesn't. They want money; they don't care if you're offended. They'll offend you if they think it'll increase the sales of their product. Just look at Dante's Inferno -- these people don't care about you. That's reality. Stop being so naïve.
Again, I'm struck by the irony of you complaining about my informal expressions when you yourself use plenty of informality of your own.
Kartoffelmos said:
What these guys said.
You know what? I give up. I give up!
I'm a woman. I've been playing games since I was 8. I've followed The Escapist as well as many other gaming websites for years, and pretty much every time the issue of sexism comes up, I go through a certain process - I get a lot of thoughts I want to share, until I notice how the discussions are frankly dripping with stupidity, strawmen, even more sexism, backpedaling, excuses, elitism, and to be honest, I've had enough. The next time a male game dev or journalist makes a braindead joke or comment about women, and someone tells me to "chill out" about it, or to not be so "sensitive", I'm gonna walk the fuck away, and I'm not coming back until this whole community grows up.
Being a woman doesn't automatically make you more credible.