Twenty Ninjas said:
To be honest, the video's kinda missing the point. Hepler wasn't harrassed because she was creative with her writing. Holy shit no. That never happened. Hepler was harrassed because she was a video game writer who didn't like video games, and people understandably flew off the handle (not that the death threats were understandable) at someone who got into the industry without deserving to.
1. she said she didnt liked the fighting part and this is a reasonable opinion. Why the cat does this opinion deserve harassment? why the heck does teh idea that there might be other people who like her didnt like the fighting parts deserve that?
I mean, i dont get it?
Yeah, there are people who don't like fighting in games(if the games are not about that fighting) and if you choose to implement the OPTION for skipping the fight scenes, where is the problem? i dont get it.I would be happy if FF13 had that option. Other people like that.. i dont get why giving people more options to make their experience better WITHOUT taking said parts from the game is criticiseable..
I remember katawa shojo where you could disable the sex-scenes. people who like them watched them, people who didnt like them didnt had to watch them. Both groups are happy because their demands were met in the same game.
I mean, you have the option to make YOUR gaming experience better without limiting the experience of other people. thats a great idea, why the hefty critique and the sick harassment?
Also.. I dont think that people having opinions which i consider as wrong or worse entitles me to harassment. Critique:yeah, sure 100%
but harassment=|=critique. Its a sign of maturity to not harass people. I mean, be angry, and vocalize that anger, that is okay. but its better to be angry at a opinion and express that anger without resorting to personal hurtful attacks. I know its damn hard, i often fall for it myself, especially if there are things I have heard to the excess and sometimes there is the need for venting the frustration. But i do think that its the best to vent that anger in a productive and well, civilized manner.
Its hard and most people will fail because we are no saints and in anonymity there will often be no consequences (which is a big part of the problem. because silence to that behaviour enables it)for behaving like ass. So as long as the most people will ignore that behaviour, its just our own principles of not being an ass which constrain us.
(better would be the possibility to take consequences. In forums like these, there are the mods which help enabling a good discussion) but if you look at online gaming, the harassers are often cheered to or ignored and only if some lines(which are individual) are crossed people speak up(and get called out as white knights. ><)
Usually, online gaming have rules for behaviour-and there are usually rules which say that harassment&such stuff is not allowed.
So why is it often tolerated? anonymity? you dont know the victims so its not relevant?(until say, someone you like is harassed.. which is kinda sad. Its sad that you need to knwo one person to be empathetic to that person)
well, I think there should be places for people who like gaming without harassment, rape jokes, hacks and unfair play.( trolling might or might not be a part of it.*) usually most places should be that kind of place because they have rules which forbid such behaviour-but the rules are not enforced. So we need places where they are enforced-which costs money and time. There has to be more demand for safe-spaces i think. but that just my opinion.
If the trolling is one victim=one time trolled by one player and the trolling is creative, i dont see a problem. but is a player gets permanently the victim of trolling so that person cant play 20 minutes online without getting attacked than this ruins the gaming experience and is bad. IMHO
( i remeber some creative and funny trollings in dark souls.^^)