Love and Kindness, mkay? Mkay.AstaresPanda said:HERESY ! YOU WILL DIE WITH THE REST OF YOUR TRAITOR BROTHERSUberPubert said:ROT WITH YOUR CORPSE GOD, LOYALIST SCUM!AstaresPanda said:MY ARMOUR IS CONTEMPT
MY SHIELD IS DISGUST
MY SWORD IS HATRED
IN THE HIS NAME LET NONE SURVIVE
GLORY TO THE GOLDEN THRONE
GLORY TO THE IMMORTAL GOD EMPEROR OF MANKIND
Jokes aside, I think Jim's right. There's a difference between voicing your displeasure in a way that allows those receiving it to actually put your criticisms to some use and, you know, just braying as loud as you possibly can in the hopes that being offensive enough is going to scare the recipient into changing whatever needs to be changed.
Being angry is tolerable; it's being obnoxious about what makes you angry that's feeding the perceptions of toxicity in the gaming scene.
I mean, consider Jim's apparent role models, the Sith. Oh, they're angry, alright. Are they obnoxious, though? Nope. The Sith do not throw temper tantrums, and there is no galaxy-wide imageboards where you'll find junior Empire soldiers trolling the Rebels. The Sith *hone* their anger. They hone it for nefarious purposes, but they do control it.
In comparison, for every decent argument I heard during the ME3 debacle, there were a few dozen voices going "GRAAAAH, SCREW YOU BIOWARE, YOU'RE A BUNCH OF POOPYHEADS, I HAVE NOTHING TO CONTRIBUTE TO THE DISCUSSION BUT I REALLY NEED TO SHOW THAT I CAN BE ANGRIER THAN THE PREVIOUS POSTER!"
That's a shame, and this is, largely, the biggest problem we have to find a way to solve. Everyone needs to be equally empowered if things are going to change or if hot-button issues are going to be discussed adequately.