Tenmar said:
But have you SEEN how many people actually abuse feminism to support their sexist agenda?
Yes, but you see "feminism is not a monolith", which allows one to essentially pull a no true Scotsman without technically doing so.
Tenmar said:
Hell for example my brother who was living in his college apartments with two women and everyone gets along fine. A third woman moves in and suddenly my brother is out of the blue by the third woman accused of "sexual harassment" to which the reason why the third woman moved into that apartment(one of the women was an RA) was cause she wanted his room cause it was the bigger room.
I can get into more detail but note the core problem, you had a woman who was abusing her equal rights in an overall feminist culture to destroy my brother's good name and have his entire education record end in "is a sexual harasser". Do you honestly think that is right?
That isn't a matter of "equal rights", that's a matter of biased examination and lowered standards of proof. "Do what I want or I can end your education with an unsupported accusation" is according to some perfectly reasonable fallout. They accept a reversed version of Blackstone's formulation, wherein it's perfectly fine to punish the innocent to make it easier to get at the guilty, but usually only so long as the innocent are male (personally, I'm waiting for a "mutually drunk" sexual assault college case in which the man doesn't question the events except to point out that he was drunk and incapable of consent, accuse her of the same things, and threaten a Title IX suit if they aren't treated equally -- I think it would make a few people's heads explode).
Tenmar said:
What about that college football player that we all just found out that he served FIVE years in jail all cause the woman LIED!? Lied under oath and it took someone doing an undercover video to discover the truth.
He's not even the only case like that (I have several examples, even in just the past few weeks[footnote]http://blog.cleveland.com/metro/2012/05/cuyahoga_prosecutor_bill_mason.html[/footnote][footnote]http://www.ottawasun.com/2012/06/06/cabbie-vindicated-after-sex-assault-charge-dismissed[/footnote][footnote]http://www.cotwa.info/2012/06/kelly-peretzman-adds-lying-about-rape_03.html[/footnote][footnote]http://www.cotwa.info/2012/05/false-rape-threat-caught-on-tape.html[/footnote]), merely the one that got national attention because of, well, an actual video in which the woman openly confessed that she lied and that she was only holding with her lies because she was worried about having to pay back the money she fraudulently won from the state. Note that she is not being punished (or even tried) for lying, sending a man to prison for half a decade based entirely on her lies (and then another 5 on an ankle monitor and registry as a sex offender) and fraudulently suing the school for a great deal of money.
One of those facets of "women are people too" that many feminists like to pretend doesn't exist is that women are capable of extraordinary cruelty, manipulation, and malevolence. Not because they are women, but because they are *people* and that capacity isn't gendered.
The typical argument for why someone like that isn't being punished is that somehow punishing those who are clearly lying makes it more difficult for those who are real victims to be taken seriously. I would suggest the opposite is true; if lying about such accusations was taken seriously, it would make people take accusation more seriously -- after all why would you risk lying about something like that if it could seriously bite you in the ass. As opposed to being about as bad as a speeding ticket and rarely actually pursued.
Tenmar said:
There are too many people who openly abuse feminism for their own personal gain and that is more certain what this kickstarter project/youtuber is doing. She is profiting under the guise of feminism while all she is doing is subjecting her opinion as fact instead of actually doing hard research all over subjects of pop-culture that she will be complaining about the video game industry of 2011 using characters, games, genres, and narratives of 1980's and 1990's. I doubt she won't even mention for one second how ancient in terms of how the damsel in distress in terms of age in relation to grim fairy tales and even older texts where you have both male and female characters as the damsel. We will get nothing but Zelda and Peach and have her complain about how she specifically wants women to be addressed instead of the actual narrative to tell the story and how much of a difference a gamer gets when playing through a narrative needing to be told from generation to generation instead of just reading or listening to the story from Ben Stein.
You're probably about half right. Look at her first Tropes vs Women to get an idea of what she was proposing when she was asking for $6k.
I'm actually surprised that there isn't an organized campaign to get Kickstarter to cancel it. After all, pushing Kickstarter to cancel a project that disagrees with your political sensibilities in some fashion was apparently entirely the correct thing to do when the project was something that pissed off feminist sensibilities, some of whom still seem to be mad that they can't push PayPal around as easily.
Windknight said:
I've seen a lot of the disgusting and vile stuff spewed at female players in online games described as 'just smack talk' by male players, and that the recipients should 'toughen up'.
Not nearly as gendered as you make it sound. I've seen a lot of disgusting and vile stuff spewed at players in online games and described as smack talk. Usually coming from teenaged boys, usually using whatever detail regarding you they can pick out as a focus point. It's especially bad on Xbox Live, for some reason.