socialistmath said:
Schadrach said:
Do we? What other crimes do we pursue and sometimes convict on nothing other than victim testimony? What other crime can you say "That 51 year old man committed this crime against me 36 years ago when he was babysitting", and get a conviction with no other evidence (more importantly, how would you defend against that?)? Or for a better example, imagine the person you lost your virginity with (if such a person exists) decided tomorrow to claim that encounter was rape/sexual assault (depending on the genders involved, since forced intercourse isn't rape if it's female-on-male). How would you defend yourself? As far as I can tell, the only answers are video every sexual encounter, and don't stick it in the crazy (always good advice).
"B-b-but what about people accused of rape!?" Really? You bring up bullshit about false rape accusations? Do you have any idea of how statistically insignificant those accusations are? Do you not understand how much bullshit a woman goes through when she
dares to accuse a
man of rape? Why would any woman want to go through all that?
So, are you suggesting that women are incapable of deceit, or that we should pretend that they aren't because it only throws some men under the bus? Most of the studies on the topic end up with results in the 2-11% range[footnote]New York Rape Squad (1974), Hursch and Selkin (1974), Kelly et al. (2005), Geis (1978), Smith (1989), U.S. Department of Justice (1997), Clark and Lewis (1977), Harris and Grace (1999), Lea et al. (2003), HMCPSI/HMIC (2002)[/footnote], mostly depending on what instrument they use. Quite a few [footnote]McCahill et al. (1979), Philadelphia police study (1968), Chambers and Millar (1983), Grace et al. (1992), Jordan (2004), Kanin (1994), Gregory and Lees (1996), Maclean (1979), Stewart (1981)[/footnote] come up with much larger numbers than that, but usually have a methodology that some disagree with (such as assuming that when an alleged victim recants that means the recanted accusation was false). Something occurring with a frequency that according to more conservative methodologies could be as frequent as 1 in 9 cases is *not* statistically insignificant.
As for why a woman might falsely accuse someone of rape, sexual assault, or domestic violence, that seems to vary pretty broadly from case to case. A cursory search seems to run everything from divorce and custody cases [footnote]Examples: http://www.latimes.com/news/local/la-me-accused-20110626,0,7042051.story http://wnyt.com/article/stories/s2650065.shtml[/footnote] to avoiding being caught cheating to using it to provide an excuse for her own violence [footnote]http://lancasteronline.com/article/local/660284_Former-Elizabethtown-woman-sought-for-assault--making-false-statements.html[/footnote] to sometimes even something as trivial as dodging a cab fare [footnote]http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=gaB45iWDO9c[/footnote]. People are individuals, and as such, there's no singular reason they might decide to lie.
socialistmath said:
Rape cases need to be thoroughly investigated, tried if there's evidence, held to the same goddamned standards as every other criminal case, if there's a finding of guilt, punished appropriately, and if there's evidence that it's a false accusation, then that needs to be thoroughly investigated, tried if there's evidence, held to the same goddamned standards as every other criminal case,
Regardless of whatever men's rights activists vomit out of their putrid mouths, rape already is held to those standards.
Name another crime, any other crime, where the allegation and testimony of the victim is proof enough to get a conviction with no corroborating evidence. Name another crime where you'd accept an accusation alone as proof beyond a reasonable doubt that the accused was guilty.
socialistmath said:
[yes, I am saying falsely accusing someone of a sex crime should itself be a sex crime]).
You're mentally ill if you seriously think this. Seriously? You equate the false accusation of rape to rape itself?
No, I'm not equating it to rape. Maybe you should look at the full breadth of things that count as "sex crimes" and thus yield getting your scarlet "A." I'm saying it should count as a "sex crime", thus yielding mandatory registration on the sex offender registry and some meaningful punishment (as opposed to the current situation which in most jurisdictions is a fine [akin to a bad speeding ticket, but without the points on your license]).
socialistmath said:
Likewise, I think the media should be barred from naming either defendant or victim in such a case (as opposed to the current practice of anonymizing the victim and plastering the defendant's name everywhere, thus effectively ruining his reputation even if innocent).
"Think of the poor rapists' reputation!"
Did I say a damned word about keeping anonymous those found guilty? You appear to want to be sure that anyone accused, even if falsely, "gets what they deserve" as you put it below? While ensuring that anyone who makes a false accusation is free to know that no one will ever know what kind of horrible person they are?
socialistmath said:
If the defendant is found anything other than guilty, I think the defendant's name should not be released. If there's a false accusation case, I think a finding of guilt should involve releasing the false accuser's name, but letting the falsely accused remain anonymous.
Let me guess, you want their name made public so they can get what they deserve, right?
Didn't say that. I want their name made public because they are guilty of a terrible act, and they shouldn't be guaranteed protection from people knowing that.
Wanetta Gibson is actually a good recent example of this (you would agree that the victim stating outright "No, he did not rape me, but I don't want to clear his name because I might have to pay back the large sum of money I fraudulently sued the school for" counts as clear evidence of a case of false accusation, right?). No, I don't want her to "get what she deserves" (I don't even like that you are implying that), but I don't think she should never have to deal with the fallout of that choice. You would, as I understand it, want her to be kept anonymous forever, because she shouldn't have to be responsible for that terrible thing she did, right? I personally think in a just world, she'd see some jail time, be put on the registry, and have all future wages garnished to start paying back from her fraudulent suit (though I doubt given what she did she'd be terribly employable).
After all of that I feel I need to reiterate that I don't believe all rape accusations are false, or women need to be "put in their place" for daring to accuse a man of a crime he committed, or any other ridiculous exaggeration you might concoct. Actual rape happens, should be investigated, and the rapist brought to justice and appropriately punished. However women, by virtue of being human, are not perfect fonts of honesty and are fully capable of being just as malevolent as any man, and false accusations are a uniquely gendered avenue through which this can occur. Those engaging in such things need to be investigated, tried, and if guilty punished.
JerrytheBullfrog said:
Jessica Valenti.
Clarisse Thorn.
Hugo Schwyze.
Alyssa Rosenberg.
Pretty much everyone at Feministing.
No seriously, what about teh menz [http://goodmenproject.com/category/noseriouslywhatabouttehmenz/], those guys.
Rebecca Watson.
That's just a number of prominent feminists I found just on my fucking twitter page who are all reasonable as hell.
Hmm, a quick Googling turns up something a bit unpleasant about Valenti (specifically an article in which it sounds an awful lot like she wants the burden of proof in rape cases to lie with the accused in an article about Julian Assange [quoted below]), and Hugo is generally ugh (I find it interesting that he's such a popular male feminist though, given that he's a professor who used to sleep with his female students, almost murdered an ex girlfriend, may have fathered a child that he helped the mother pretend was her other boyfriend's because she wanted to marry the stable one with the good job, acts an awful lot like a recovering addict using "feminism" as a movement as his sponsor, pretends that all men everywhere are exactly like him and all the dirtbag things he's done before, and tends to take the view that women have no agency at all since they seem never to be responsible for their own actions). NSWATM is usually pretty reasonable, though they occasionally have their off days (actually been reading it since it's launch though I despise the new format since they've moved to Good Men Project). Clarrise isn't too bad either. Haven't read any Rosenberg. Feministing is a bit hit and miss. At least you didn't use Pandagon, Shakesville, or RadicalHub as your examples.
Jessica Valenti said:
Swedish rape laws ... go much further than U.S. laws do, and we should look to them as a potential model for our own legislation.
In fact, some activists and legal experts in Sweden want to change the law there so that the burden of proof is on the accused...[footnote]http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2010/12/10/AR2010121006996.html[/footnote]
JerrytheBullfrog said:
Feminism = not a monolith. Or shall I get Anders Breivik to represent all gamers?
Feminism is not a monolith has two effects. One, it allows a No True Scotsman argument while pretending that's not what is being done. Imagine I claimed "Republicans (to pick a group I gathered you don't like given you've accused me of being right wing[personally, I'm registered independent in large part because I can't figure out why one's positions on freedom of speech, abortion, and gun control should in any way be remotely related -- as an aside I <3 ACLU, pro-choice, and pro-gun]) are not a monolith", therefore you can't take any statement from or about any of them as even being an example of things they say, even when that statement is fueld by their Republican-hood. Or Democrats, or Neonazis, or MRAs. In fact I'm pretty sure I can argue that since "Neonazis are not a monolith", that it's impossible to demonstrate that Neonazis are racist scum because some other unnamed and unknowable Neonazi "isn't like that."
On the converse, since FINAM means that almost no beliefs are actually feminist ones, thus it sets the bar really really low to count as a feminist. In fact, if the bar is "believes men and women should have equal rights and responsibilities wherever possible, and equivalent ones when equal ones are literally impossible", then
*I* count as a feminist. In fact, almost everyone you meet is, even if a lot of them wouldn't use that label because of all the other things that seem to get attached to it.
Anders Breivik seems to be a one off case, I can't point to dozens of examples of people like him. I *can* point to dozens of examples of people identifying as feminist saying terrible, terrible things, often in books used in the academic study of feminism afterward, and not as examples of one-off nutjobs (influential feminists from the 70s tend to fill this hole readily, for example).
JerrytheBullfrog said:
(Also, spoiler alert, but the divorce-custody thing? Is also an example of sexism against women - we give custody to women more often because society forces them into the nurturing caregiver role, so clearly the mom MUST be the better child rearer - that also happens to hurt men. HUH.)
Ah, yes, the old "anything that screws men specifically is really about women" argument. Got a version of it for why men commit suicide at a dramatically higher rate than women, but we still focus suicide prevention selectively at women?
wetnap said:
or someone working the mines digging coal until you die.
Damnit, I'm playing Minecraft completely wrong, aren't I? =p
JerrytheBullfrog said:
As a guy who used to be as fucking willfully blind as you, I have seen rape culture for a fact.
Care to provide some evidence? I'm actually interested, because it always seems like underpants gnome logic to me:
1. Someone tells a joke that references rape in any fashion/makes somthing that loosely implies rape.
2. ???
3. Rapists feel better about being rapists, so more actual rape happens.
I can't come up with an example that doesn't also require nearly the entire game industry and most of the movie and TV industries to be promoting a "murder culture" wherein murder is trivialized and normalized and actual murders should be skyrocketing for the past few decades. But that doesn't match reality at all.
greatorder said:
gotta say, the insult 'ovendodger' is new to me...
Yeah, I'd never heard that one before either. Is it supposed to be like calling someone a draft dodger except their not in the kitchen so their dodging the oven? Or am I supposed to be building a trebuchet with which to fire ovens at feminist icons? Actually that last one could make for an interesting game concept, maybe bonus points for hitting Valerie Solanas before she can shoot you?
lizabeth19 said:
Oh dear Lord. Maybe this thread should be renamed "Feminist commentator has opinion, internet has conniptions".
Seriously, I bet if I started a thread entitled "Maybe the feminists are right...", I would get a couple of hundred views in a matter of minutes.
You can't do that. Feminsits cannot be right about anythnig, because they hold no positions despite having strong opinions about everything.
Brian MacInnes said:
Oops! Who ever was in charge of assembling this openly gynemasculinistic project's head montage haplessly included a Princess Peach illustration from no less than 'Super Princess Peach'. That would be the one in which she heroically advents to rescue the helpless Mario and Luigi from Bowser, decimating his army on the way. Also fearless tomb raider Lara Croft, among others.
It's also the game where she decimates Bowser's army by using her mighty mood swings. So, yeah, sorry, she'll rip Super Princess Peach a new one.
animehermit said:
SOCIALCONSTRUCT said:
Generally speaking men are much better firefighters than women. Organic cultural perceptions are built around patterns that are generally true rather than exceptions. I prefer this organic viewpoint to PC tabula rasa nonsense.
Just because men CAN be better at firefighting, doesn't mean that we shouldn't allow women to also be firefighters. I'm sure every woman currently employed as a firefighter is better at it then I am.
So long as they are held to the same standards as the men, they certainly should be. When you start holding them to a separate lesser standard because not enough are passing, then there's a problem.
I actually find the case with the boy on the girl's field hockey team interesting. You know, the one where there's no boys team so he's on the girls team and people have tried to kick him off for being good at the game? I've seen a *lot* of people feel it's unfair for him to use a Title IX argument because he's "not a protected class."
Father Time said:
Society and the media seem to jump on their side a lot. See duke lacrosse where everyone immediately assumed the college kids were guilty until it became painfully clear they weren't. I can't think of a big shitstorm where everyone sided with the accused.
Also saying you support something is saying you are actively rooting for it which he is not.
You know why I didn't footnote Duke Lacrosse or Hofstra as examples above? Because I wanted more recent ones to avoid the whole "see you have to go back a very long time just to find one example, it's not really important" argument I've seen before.