And I've already had this argument multiple times, I don't have time for it right now. I do have studies and sources for my claims, I just do not have the energy or the patience to look for them.
Why is it that in every feminism debate on this website the "I have evidence, I promise, I just don't have it with me" people are always on the anti-feminism side?
I seriously with that these people could get punished for this, I just realized that my poor grammar made it hard to understand what I meant.
I seriously wish that the misogynistic trolls on the net would get punished, like maybe having their right to comment removed, like they're swearing using improper language and confuse logic with insults.
I think Critical Miss had a comic with this, someone accuses X of possibly being sexist/racist, you should talk about this calmly, you SHOULDN'T resort to actual sexism/racism.
Now someone did make a good statement that they get too aggressive because these are their fantasies and they don't want that removed.
Unfortunately that's not a healthy thing to idealize, wanting the opposite gender to be nothing more than an object of desire?
To turn the situation around how about I play a game where I shoot people with the faces of the people (if they can even be called that) with incredibly violent weaponry, I'd argue I'm not hurting a real person, and I have to vent my anger somehow. except my fantasy dehumanizes a person to nothing more than something to extract pleasure from by causing them to suffer.
I think many here agree that both A: the people on the net were in the wrong.
Problem is a few still think her point was invalid. that's my problem, because while being only a boy who doesn't understand the feminine perspective, I know for a fact that lots of Pop-Culture is targeted at teenage males.
ANd to those boys I'm going to say a few thing to your arguments
-Firstly being sexy and controlling men is NOT empowerment:
I see a few of you think this is true, Well here's a reverse Example, Imagine a Hercules like male, but he's a bully, he intimidates weaker men and threatens to rough them up even after they've given him what he demanded, what's more when someone asks why he does it it's because he can.
That character is unlikable, and yet imagine if he was supposed to be depicted as the archetype of masculinity, Guys like me would be pissed, because it implies all men are violent pricks.
-There's being Sexy and there's Exploitation:
Now in of itself making a character look attractive is a good thing, Link from the Legend of Zelda Series, Anatomy wise he's a young male, with average proportions except for the long ears. if he was a real person he'd look like an average guy if in strange clothing.
Now think of common body types in games if they were real people they'd look like this
Notice the waist, she would require some sort of brace to stand up straight, and that's if she was a normal person, lets not forget she's probably top heavy.
Also I find the blank emotionless face disturbing the emotionally dead eyes, i can't stand it.
Now to make a point, As I said before Link when given features, is designed to make him look appealing but in an average every-man sort of way.
as for the girl, we can clearly see she's had certain traits that are sexually appealing over emphasized to the point that it's not humanly possible, meaning her appearance is deliberately mean to be provocative. My reason for link is this, I don't doubt that many girls who play Zelda think he might in some versions look attractive, however no guy I know has ever had a problem with Links appearance, his appearance appeals to everyone not to a specific grouup (with the dolly girls case a bunch of teenage heterosexual males)
-Making a Female Character a cold heartless B!tch is not a strong female:
Sometimes people go to far and decide that if the Female character is hostile to any man (for extra points make her provocative at the same time), always angry, and never ever showing any signs of weakness or vulnerability, then it surely can't be sexist. which is just plain insulting, No guy is going to like her, no girl is going to like her why? because no one like a mean B!tch
All these problem stem from the same problem, Males who haven;t had a real proper and healthy relationship with a girl, (And no in this instance you mom doesn't count)
Let's face it a guy who is already in a good relationship with a girl, probably doesn't need to have some bizarre fantasy about women, because he has that link with someone of the opposite gender, someone he can share that part of his base instincts.
The biggest problem is that this instance is like a kid who likes a type of sweet tasting food that's bad for him, he keeps wanting to eat it but it just makes him worse, and taking it away from him seems like it's needed.
Now I'm not saying no game or movie or any entertainment should remove all sexuality, that be silly. What we have to remove is the use of pandering to the lowest male instincts to people who don't have the intelligence to realize they are being tricked.
Somehow I feel I'm going to get disagreements, but I will try to stem the tide by saying
if your a girl, ok go ahead, if your a guy, I'm only going to listen if you have something intelligent to say.
The problem with alot of movements is that its the assholes who are the ones that are loud and proud which probably explains(but doesnt excuse) The backlash she got. Usually when for example talking about african violence people are quick to point out(not all africans are bad etc etc) Maybe it would help if the same respect were givin to the average male who doesnt play games as a way to express "latent female dominant fantasies". Perhaps feminists should better acknowledge that we are all not out to get them and then a better understanding will be had.
Otherwise you just come off as someone attacking a guy for being a guy(Ie: having an attraction to a female)
Again this doesnt excuse the virulent hate that both sides seem more than happy to spew but spew they shall.
"Kickstarter Video Project Attracts Misogynist Horde"
What on Youtube doesn't? Really, you can't post anything on Youtube without getting either racist, misogynist, or anti-semitic replies. Honestly, this is non-news.
Furthermore, you don't need money to do a Vlog. For accademic stuff, you don't need to pay for IP use (fair use clause), she clearly already has the video equipment if she can make a video to advertise her kickstarter. There are any number of websites where you can post video logs for free. So, I ask you, what the hell does she need $6000 for?
If she's got an interesting point to make and she makes it well, good on her, but given that it costs nothing (except time and the will) to make, if it was that important to her I don't think she'd be asking us to pay her for it beforehand.
To expand on my comment, I actually have a bit of a love/hate relationship with feminism, in a way. It's great for my sex life, but I don't enjoy what it's doing to society and women.
And I've already had this argument multiple times, I don't have time for it right now. I do have studies and sources for my claims, I just do not have the energy or the patience to look for them.
Why is it that in every feminism debate on this website the "I have evidence, I promise, I just don't have it with me" people are always on the anti-feminism side?
And for the record, I am very familiar with the feminism debate and its literature. I think I'm aware of which studies you're referring to, and they're contentious at best.
So once again, until you can back yourself up with actual evidence, forgive me if I continue to ignore your arguments.
Simply that she doesn't look like a woman, not like a woman that is old and hasn't been prettied up, simply not like a woman, more like a late change male to female transgender. Shouldn't a woman atleast look like a woman? She isn't simply ugly or something, she just doesn't seem to have a womanly face, that looks like a mans face to me.
And I've already had this argument multiple times, I don't have time for it right now. I do have studies and sources for my claims, I just do not have the energy or the patience to look for them.
Why is it that in every feminism debate on this website the "I have evidence, I promise, I just don't have it with me" people are always on the anti-feminism side?
Why is it that in every feminism debate on this website the "I have evidence, I promise, I just don't have it with me" people are always on the anti-feminism side?
And for the record, I am very familiar with the feminism debate and its literature. I think I'm aware of which studies you're referring to, and they're contentious at best.
So once again, until you can back yourself up with actual evidence, forgive me if I continue to ignore your arguments.
Sigh.
Fine.
http://www.frbsf.org/publications/economics/papers/2009/wp09-11bk.pdf
Study one finds that, within the last 35 years, despite the closing of the pay gap, more women than men going to college, and other such things, women are less happy than they were in the 70s.
http://rd.springer.com/article/10.1007/s11199-011-0017-2?state=cookieless
Here's a study that shows that men who are traditionally/benevolently sexist are happier, as are the women in their lives.
I leave you to draw your own conclusions.
I think Jerry Holkins from Penny Arcade conveyed the proper solution best when he wrote this down a few weeks ago..
Jerry Holkins said:
The answer is always more art; the corollary to that is the answer is never less art. If you start to think that less art is the answer, start over. That's not the side you want to be on. The problem isn't that people create or enjoy offensive work. The problem is that so many people believe that culture is something other people create, the sole domain of some anonymized other, so they never put their hat in the ring. That even with a computer in your pocket connected to an instantaneous global network, no-one can hear you. When you believe that, really believe it, the devil dances in hell.
Ladies, gentlemen sympathisers, you've already proven that you can raise $75,000 for a series of inane, ultimately pointless YouTube videos. All you need now is a reputable businesswoman to step up to the plate, fill a war-chest at either KickStarter or IndieGoGo and you can start participating in the medium as an independent demographic with real buying power. Assuming of course enough women can be found who do want to play video games instead of just endlessly complaining, on and on, about how their gender is being portrayed in escapist entertainment that isn't being marketed to them in the first place.
What's the worst thing that could possibly happen? You've already collectively thrown away $75,000+ trying to one up YouTube trolls.
I think Jerry Holkins from Penny Arcade conveyed the proper solution best when he wrote this down a few weeks ago..
Jerry Holkins said:
The answer is always more art; the corollary to that is the answer is never less art. If you start to think that less art is the answer, start over. That's not the side you want to be on. The problem isn't that people create or enjoy offensive work. The problem is that so many people believe that culture is something other people create, the sole domain of some anonymized other, so they never put their hat in the ring. That even with a computer in your pocket connected to an instantaneous global network, no-one can hear you. When you believe that, really believe it, the devil dances in hell.
Ladies, gentlemen sympathisers, you've already proven that you can raise $75,000 for a series of inane, ultimately pointless YouTube videos. All you need now is a reputable businesswoman to step up to the plate, fill a war-chest at either KickStarter or IndieGoGo and you can start participating in the medium as an independent demographic with real buying power. Assuming of course enough women can be found who do want to play video games instead of just endlessly complaining, on and on, about how their gender is being portrayed in escapist entertainment that isn't being marketed to them in the first place.
What's the worst thing that could possibly happen? You've already collectively thrown away $75,000+ trying to one up YouTube trolls.
I like the cut of your gib.
This whole shitshow would be instantly portrayed in a much more positive light if the ***** took the money and made a good fucking game with strong writing for both male and female characters instead of making pointless statements on perceived faults in gender relations in a particular medium.
Correlation does not equal causation. Just because women are less happy now then in the 70s does not mean it's because of feminism or because they are on more equal ground with men.
Haha, the correlation does not equate to causation came early this time. Good job, buddy. But science doesn't point out causation, only correlations. Causation is educated conjecture based on evidence provided by correlations found. If other, differing correlations are found, then that theory of causation is disproved.
Tell me, sir. What explanation do you posit for trends in women's happiness? Take into account men show an upward trend of happiness in this same study comparably and absolutely.
And I've already had this argument multiple times, I don't have time for it right now. I do have studies and sources for my claims, I just do not have the energy or the patience to look for them.
Why is it that in every feminism debate on this website the "I have evidence, I promise, I just don't have it with me" people are always on the anti-feminism side?
Fine.
http://www.frbsf.org/publications/economics/papers/2009/wp09-11bk.pdf
Study one finds that, within the last 35 years, despite the closing of the pay gap, more women than men going to college, and other such things, women are less happy than they were in the 70s.
Kids these days need to learn the difference between correlation and causation.
Angryman101 said:
http://rd.springer.com/article/10.1007/s11199-011-0017-2?state=cookieless
Here's a study that shows that men who are traditionally, benevolently sexist are happier, as are the women in their lives.
I leave you to draw your own conclusions.
I'd say manly most definitely exists, society is really very clear on it. From the very early ages, dolls are for girls, toy swords are for boys, because fighting and swords are manly. Distinguishing things as unwomanly because men are stereotypically known for doing it is the the definition of sexism, but I'm not the first to do it. Rather, I'm commenting on the fact that society has internalised these distinctions between manly and womanly and expresses them in the form of stereotypes.
And our current views of what is manly is not the only way to portray heroes. You mention unemotional, but why can't we have a very emotional hero? Why don't we see more poets or musicians as heroes? Why must they be big and strong, the less strong can still fire guns or command troops or work out puzzles? Why are their very, very few disabled heroes?
I'm not denying that the stereotype exists right now, in that stereotypically people assume one sex is more likely to act a specific way but I don't believe the idea that said traits are tied to one gender. What I mean is, men may be more likely to be written as a tough, strong willed soldier type but that does not mean a woman can't embody this kind of character just as easily without still being a female character (I think Gears of War and Bulletstorm had these soldier type female characters). The sexism comes from assuming females have an inability to have this personality, not that females who do have this personality are less female because of it.*
I may have made this up, but I keep getting the impression that people have problems with stories which put a female character in the exact same role as a male character, IE a big, tough, unemotional female soldier, and I'm not sure I understand why. I think it's sometimes because writers simply create a male character in the story and just use a female voice actor instead of thinking how a female may act differently to the situation. However, I don't think that kind of thing is sexist as much as it is difficult to create a mentally and physically strong character, regardless of gender, without resorting to the easy-to-write tough, unemotional, brooding one (of course writers which resort to this should not be thanked.)
I always thought unemotional characters were, again, easy writing because it made a characters which always knew what they were doing (because they showed no fear) and were incredibly strong willed (because they never panicked) without any actual effort on the writers part. And yes, an emotional hero with a hobbies and, well, personality would always be good; if theres one thing I think almost the whole gaming community would agree with, it's that games need better writing. There is a shooterfest going on right now however, and they all have to feature soldiers in some shape or form apparently; the writing problem is not currently due to sexism.
PS. I'm sure there's some deep psychological reason why theres a lack of disabled protagonists or heroes, maybe most people can't relate to them for some reason, but I'm not smart enough to guess at that one.
*This makes less sense each time I read it, so much so that I had to make the same point 3 times just to try and be clear... it's late, I do apologise.
And I've already had this argument multiple times, I don't have time for it right now. I do have studies and sources for my claims, I just do not have the energy or the patience to look for them.
Why is it that in every feminism debate on this website the "I have evidence, I promise, I just don't have it with me" people are always on the anti-feminism side?
Why is it that in every feminism debate on this website the "I have evidence, I promise, I just don't have it with me" people are always on the anti-feminism side?
And for the record, I am very familiar with the feminism debate and its literature. I think I'm aware of which studies you're referring to, and they're contentious at best.
So once again, until you can back yourself up with actual evidence, forgive me if I continue to ignore your arguments.
Sigh.
Fine.
http://www.frbsf.org/publications/economics/papers/2009/wp09-11bk.pdf
Study one finds that, within the last 35 years, despite the closing of the pay gap, more women than men going to college, and other such things, women are less happy than they were in the 70s.
http://rd.springer.com/article/10.1007/s11199-011-0017-2?state=cookieless
Here's a study that shows that men who are traditionally/benevolently sexist are happier, as are the women in their lives.
I leave you to draw your own conclusions.
I'm just chiming in to say that just throwing out statistics without applying them to context does not actually prove any point, and in this case the only context I can gleam is that 'feminism is supposed to make women happier', which is a gross oversimplification of what feminism is really about. 'Happiness' is an extremely arbitrary factor that is based on personal emotions and doesn't always objectively measure one's quality of life - the improvement of which feminism is trying to achieve.
To counter your example, I could post a link to a survey that ranked the inhabitants of Vanuatu the happiest in the world. Since by and large most people on Vanuatu live in tin shacks, eat tinned foods, fruits and root vegetables, have no electricity and have to boil their drinking water; by your fallacious logic it would be easy to conclude that all forms of development are more or less a waste of time.
Man, I always enjoy how people almost immediately implying my immaturity and lack of intelligence when I begin to espouse an opposing view of feminism.
And are you implying that I interpreted the study wrong? Please educate me, friend.
And I've already had this argument multiple times, I don't have time for it right now. I do have studies and sources for my claims, I just do not have the energy or the patience to look for them.
Why is it that in every feminism debate on this website the "I have evidence, I promise, I just don't have it with me" people are always on the anti-feminism side?
Why is it that in every feminism debate on this website the "I have evidence, I promise, I just don't have it with me" people are always on the anti-feminism side?
And for the record, I am very familiar with the feminism debate and its literature. I think I'm aware of which studies you're referring to, and they're contentious at best.
So once again, until you can back yourself up with actual evidence, forgive me if I continue to ignore your arguments.
Sigh.
Fine.
http://www.frbsf.org/publications/economics/papers/2009/wp09-11bk.pdf
Study one finds that, within the last 35 years, despite the closing of the pay gap, more women than men going to college, and other such things, women are less happy than they were in the 70s.
http://rd.springer.com/article/10.1007/s11199-011-0017-2?state=cookieless
Here's a study that shows that men who are traditionally/benevolently sexist are happier, as are the women in their lives.
I leave you to draw your own conclusions.
I'm just chiming in to say that just throwing out statistics without applying them to context does not actually prove any point, and in this case the only context I can gleam is that 'feminism is supposed to make women happier', which is a gross oversimplification of what feminism is really about. 'Happiness' is an extremely arbitrary factor that is based on personal emotions and doesn't always objectively measure one's quality of life - the improvement of which feminism is trying to achieve.
To counter your example, I could post a link to a survey that ranked the inhabitants of Vanuatu the happiest in the world. Since by and large most people on Vanuatu live in tin shacks, eat tinned foods, fruits and root vegetables, have no electricity and have to boil their drinking water; by your fallacious logic it would be easy to conclude that all forms of development are more or less a waste of time.
Pretty much this. The studies admit that quality of life has improved. How one is supposed to objectively judge happiness I do not know, and these studies have done nothing to enlighten me.
Man, I always enjoy how people almost immediately implying my immaturity and lack of intelligence when I begin to espouse an opposing view of feminism.
Side boob exposure? You made that blasphemous link, not me.
Look at women's issues of today. Look at yesteryear. Things are better. Look at civil rights issues for African-Americans of today and yesteryear. Better. But still broken when compared to the rights and privileges to men in America and Japan, the places where games are made. Sure, everyone has their kicks, but their kicks don't really limit them in such a drastic way.
Things are BETTER? Things are worse than fucking every. More women are unhappy, and more are on antidepressants than ever before. The only people things today are good for are attractive, intelligent men. Why is that? Because feminism. So, good job to feminists, I guess. lol.
'Rights and privileges to men in America/Japan'
Hahahaha. Right. Divorce rape, alimony, child support, false rape claims, and a biased judicial and media system. It must be hard being a woman, seeing how other, more attractive women seem to drive men insane while they barely give a plain jane the time of day.
Kickstarter Video Project Attracts Misogynist Horde.
Your argument has officially fallen apart and become the ugly troll that it always was. I can't argue with that, just throw billy goats over the bridge and get out. Enjoy your muddy hole I guess.
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