Kids don't get to pick their parents. They have to love and trust their parents because they have no other choice; they need their parents too much to keep them alive and to teach them what the world is and what they as children are and how to navigate all the trials of being a child who lives in the world. The first sentence of this does not apply to the Batkids, but the second absolutely does. Like their biological parents, the Batkids have no choice but to trust Batman if they want to survive and to learn how to be better than they currently are.DudeistBelieve said:How is he acting like a father figure when he literally can not be emotionally there for any of them? He can mentor them on how to fight crime, but when it comes with deal with actual people and relationships Bruce is pretty much lost.
For Batman to stick his dick inside Batgirl is just the biggest betrayal because he of all people knows what it's like to be abandoned by your parents. It's not just hypocrisy for him to do so, and it's not just a betrayal of her and her trust (though let's be clear, those things are bad enough), it's a betrayal of what Batman represents in the mythology of the DC Universe: justice. Just as Superman is an avatar of hope, Batman is meant to be an avatar of justice* who punishes wrongdoers. By violating Batgirl's trust, he puts himself in a position of needing to be punished for his sin, and the way it looks up to this point, his punishment is for someone else to be brutalized, crippled, and emotionally scarred for life. Batman escapes justice by giving his sentence to a girl who is not the hero of her own story but just a pair of knees Batman is fond of because of that time they parted for him, and her pain stops being about her own struggle because it needs to be about Batman having a reason to punch a mass murderer in the face.
At least from the information available, this choice is a misfire on every level, making Batman a bad person as well as a corruption of his own mythological underpinnings, and making Batgirl less a character than plot device to serve as a basis for a fight by enraging him that the Joker would touch his stuff.
*albeit not a form of justice I condone or agree with, but never mind