Exile3, and then Blades of Exile.
Firstly, it's an RPG, which allows you a lot of freedom in which characters you choose. The graphics are very basic, but you select from a large list for your PCs, predominantly, but not exclusively white, and with lots of women.
Likewise, the human NPC have a bit of variety, though again predominantly white. The pics are tiny, and in very many cases it's hard to tell gender at all, and occasionally race.
Also, there's two dying screams, one male and one female, when a human dies, it randomly picks one of those...so half the people getting killed are women. Bit odd when the gender of that character had been established, though.
One or two people are heavily implied to be LGBT, though not actually stated.