Personal Conjecture:
I would say that trans issue are definitely not well understood by the genera public. Sensible folks probably would not use a fictional movie as a credible source of trans experiences without additionally doing independent research. The issue is, not a lot of people are sensible. And in a way, mass media shows what is acceptable and what isn't, and how to perceive issues. Not everyone buys into it and its nothing like mind control, but it is a pervasive subtle influence.
As a trans person I feel pretty uncomfortable about this movie. With the exceptions of a few movies that centered on the lives on transgender individuals, most depict trans people in a terrible light: as a punch line, a liar for living their gender, something less than human, even when they pass completely as their identified gender.
My Best Understanding:
Something else too, just to clarify things. There are a lot of interpretations of these terms but I think this is the most prevalent version.
Cross-dresser: person who wears clothes of a gender their don't typically identify as
Transsexual: a person who presents as a gender they typically don't identify as and performs sexual acts while presenting (hence the "sex" in the word)
Transgender: a person who does not identify with their biological sex and gender, and instead they identify as the opposite. This is a prevalent phenomena that is constantly present within the individuals life-time and may increase in intensity as the individual ages (due to the effects of their biological hormones). The feeling of disassociation with gender (and biological sex) is known as gender dysphoria, and it can cause great mental duress.
The intensity and nuance of gender dysphoria depends on the person, but it generally hinders their ability to be a functional member of society. The treatment for gender dysphoria is often therapy and transitioning, which alleviates the disassociation with their body and the gender they are expected to present as due to their biological sex. The treatment is not for being transgender.
Post-transition suicide rates have been noted to be lower than pre-transition suicide rates for transgender people, however they are still higher than the population average.
Personal Conjecture:
I would reckon this is due to a lifetime of mental stress, from gender dysphoria and society stigma, and how transitioning becomes such a focal point in a transgender persons life once they begin that finishing the process leaves a big gaping hole in their goals and ambitions. This is why I think therapy is important throughout the process, so the person is able to have other professional and life goals and ambitions to drive them, so that it is only a part of their experience, that once complete will allow them to continue moving forward and living their life.
Also people are similar but each person has odd peculiarities and mutations, just a part of reproduction and a sufficiently large society. It sucks that I have a few crossed wires in my brain, whether due to genetics, epigenetics in utero, or who knows what, but I am able to be a more functional member of society with the right treatment. Transitioning is a treatment for gender dysphoria, not being transgender.
Seems like there are a lot more transgender people nowadays, well we've always been here. It's just we either transitioned successfully, transitioned poorly and were noticeable/committed suicide/lived entire life with severe depression, or didn't transition and committed suicide/lived entire life with severe depression. Fun fun fun. At least now people are feeling more comfortable with being who they are without the fear of death or violence. Which I think is good, society should try to enable it's members to be as effective as they can be, within reasonable resource allocations, so they can provide benefits to society (i.e. taxes, volunteering, etc)
A great deal of the mental duress I have experienced comes from how society handles my issue and treats people like me. It definitely compounds the stress of gender dysphoria. Once I started transitioning and began taking estrogen, I felt very different. I had more energy than before, colors seemed brighter, smell more prominent, and for the first time in my life the way I felt was just right, although my body was still not. It went a long way to alleviating a lot of the stress I carried from being transgender, and the process of transitioning has continued to do so. In a way it was like my brain was an engine that was built for running gasoline but was given diesel fuel.
So yeah being transgender sucks, and it has gotten better. But just because things have improved doesn't mean people should shut up about it because it's not something someone wants to hear. There is still a long way to go not only for trans people, but for a variety of folks. And we on the shit end of the stick have to work hard too, we can't just sit around complaining and hoping for people to fix it. It's a two way street, we have to be the change we wanna see, and we have to set a high standard to get the positive attention and respect that'll improve things.
TLDR; I didn't choose the thug life, the thug life chose me.
(P.S. I had no intention of coming across as condescending or demanding, and if that is how the previous passage is interpreted then I am disappointed in my composition. This was only intended as a mix of my knowledge and personal views and experiences on the issue. There was no intention of judging or attack other posters, rather it was an attempt to explain and inform in a helpful and personable manner)