Father Time said:
Where do I find mods to email?
In regard to finding the contact information for the mods, there are a couple of ways of doing it. There's a complete list of mods in the Code of Conduct [http://www.escapistmagazine.com/forums/codeofconduct]. To find that, on the toolbar above, hover over Forums. There will be a list of forums in the drop-down menu. Beneath that, in the blue, there are four options. "Code of Conduct" should appear on the lower left. (It should look something like this [http://i45.tinypic.com/nb9qf8.png].)
Each mod's profile should have some method of contacting them. The direct way through the Escapist's website is to select "Send a message" from the profile. Other alternatives include finding other listed contact information (such as Skype, Steam, XBL, SEN, IM, and Twitter profiles) and occasionally e-mail addresses.
You can also occasionally find mods online on the IRC. (Brief tutorial for that found here [http://www.escapistmagazine.com/chat/].)
Your answer doesn't give me a big yay or nay that I was hoping for.
Unfortunately, like most things, there is no big "yea" or "nay" option when working with certain topics. If there wasn't context like that, you and I would've both been banned already for discussion lolicon, porn, and sexual violence. It's just part of the nature of all discourse really.
Whether or not you can talk about things like lolicon, Rapelay, and other such things are context-dependent in life. As such, I can imagine it's the sort of thing you can discuss with university-level culture professors, but likely not your grandparents. On the same coin, it's generally a bad idea to talk about your hidden fetishes and fantasies among strangers, but not to your significant other or lover.
Although if you're looking for a flat answer, then just go with "Nay." It's impossible to go wrong by simply avoiding topics you think will go badly. Doesn't mean you can't, just that you should be careful about when you should.