Mother Finds Kidnapped Children On Facebook

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IT'S CHINATOWN I TELL YOU! CHINATOWN!

The father is really the good guy, and the mother is an evil and abusive monster who hired Jack Nicholson to use his Facebook skills to find her children!

Seriously though, I don't think the mother did the right thing. She should realize that she just isn't their mother anymore and that she isn't part of their lives, that she is probably destroying a happy family for her own sake.
 

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DeeTee said:
cainx10a said:
They probably bonded with the father more by now, well, good job destroying that relation Mrs.
What? It's the fault of the woman who lost her children, not of the father that kidnapped them? What should she have done, washed her hands of them? That's like blaming the cop that arrested you for ruining your life, not yourself for committing the crime.
It's not a matter of putting the blame on one party or another. Personally, I find that separation/divorce laws towards man are pretty unjust based on my assumption that Mrs. got a divorce and was able to keep both children. That would probably be why the Father kidnapped those children, ran off and start a new life (probably had to, and I doubt that was easy on his side to do such a thing).

Then again I'm making a lot of assumption, since I don't know the whole story.

But I find it abhorrent in this scenario to celebrate early.
 

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Matt_LRR said:
So yeah, legal justice was served, but are the kids "better off" for it? Unlikely.

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The morality is rather grey. On the one hand the father committed a pretty serious crime and should be punished for it and the children should be able to meet the person they were taken from, and the mother herself should be able to see her kids again. On the other hand, the father obviously cared for them (I'm not sure if he was a GOOD father or not, but that's beside the point) and the children are now separated from the one person they considered their parent and placed with a woman they don't know, as you stated.

No doubt the man deserves punishment for the crimes he committed, but what of the two teenagers caught up in all of this?

A bit of a dilema, to put it mildly...

Was the law truly 'just' or 'right' here?
 

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uppitycracker said:
Good thing the kids didn't jump on the Quit Facebook day bandwagon.
More like the Quit Facebook rollerskate, as far as I know it flopped horribly.
 

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Voodoomancer said:
uppitycracker said:
Good thing the kids didn't jump on the Quit Facebook day bandwagon.
More like the Quit Facebook rollerskate, as far as I know it flopped horribly.
Most things like that fail miserably. Like the 'Youtube Blackout' stuff that happened. Of the people who say they will only maybe 1% actually do. It's a joke.
 

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cainx10a said:
They probably bonded with the father more by now, well, good job destroying that relation Mrs.
Uh, he STOLE them from their mother. He deserves nothing but the worse.
 
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While that is heartwarming, taking kids who spent 15 or so years with the only parent they've ever known, and having to leave all their friends and old life behind has to be an insanely hard thing to do.

Again, the father was a dick and deserved to be punished, but will the kids be better off?
 

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As heartwarming as this sounds I don't know a damn thing about the mother reported here even more so due to the fact that she wasn't named. How do i know she wasn't a ***** who verbally talked down to her kids while abusing several drugs and the father took them to get them away from that type of life? So many unanswered questions about this lady.
 

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soren7550 said:
cainx10a said:
They probably bonded with the father more by now, well, good job destroying that relation Mrs.
Uh, he STOLE them from their mother. He deserves nothing but the worse.
I would actually praise my dad if he stole me from my mother. But that's just me I guess.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zN6MxLYB8hM
 

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SnootyEnglishman said:
As heartwarming as this sounds I don't know a damn thing about the mother reported here even more so due to the fact that she wasn't named. How do i know she wasn't a ***** who verbally talked down to her kids while abusing several drugs and the father took them to get them away from that type of life? So many unanswered questions about this lady.
That's actually a very good point.

I'm rather worried now. More information is required on this story.
 
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IHaveNoCoolness said:
To all the people who are wondering about the guy and how she probably ruined their relationship, etc, etc...

The guy is a kidnapper who took the children illegally. How much of a decent guy can he be?
Sure, the guy may have sucked, but what about the kid's friends and their lives?
They've been taken from their old life and all their friends. And now have to deal with what their father, the only parent they've known for 15 years, committed an awful crime.

Plus, we know nothing about the father. For all we know he could have been a complete ass. But he could have also been a very loving father. For all we know he probably took the kids because the mother was a bad mother. And trying to get custody of kids away from their mothers is an insanely hard thing to do.
 

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Rainboq said:
MGlBlaze said:
Matt_LRR said:
So yeah, legal justice was served, but are the kids "better off" for it? Unlikely.

-m
The morality is rather grey.
Isn't pretty much all morality grey area?
Universally yes, individually not so much. 'Good' and 'Evil' vary from person to person or society to society so as a whole all morality is grey, but on an individual level there is less grey area.

That said, anyone who claims what they do to be good without question and anyone who disagrees should die in a fire are pretty serious nut-jobs. And that's ignoring the blatant hypocrisy in declaring such an extreme fate against those who disagree.
 

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Daughter's 18 and the son's 17 by now. If the kids don't want to be with the mother, the daughter, at least, can totally leave Mom again if she wants to, as she's a legal adult. And the son's old enough to try for emancipation, or follow his sister after another year.
 

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lol maybe she was just looking for the FarmVille exchange and THEN noticed it was her daughter lulz
 

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Ugh...This just rubs me the wrong way.

Seriously, these kids probably didn't even know their mom, and after fifteen years she comes along, gets their dad arrested, and makes them move away from home and all their friends?

I'm sorry, but that is just fucking disgusting. I don't care whether or not "justice was served", they broke apart a family and put the kids in the custody of someone who might not even by a competent mother. I bet there was a good reason why the dad ran off with the kids.
 

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Julianking93 said:
Wow. Just when I thought that Facebook was a worthless piece of shit, this happens.
Yeah, I was thinking the same thing when I read this. Looks like Facebook finally had some actual use. Well, until the ambiguous morality sinks in.

That said, I think another crime was once busted when the thief decided to log onto facebook on a computer in a house he was robbing stuff from and didn't log off.
"What An Idiot".