My girlfriend of four years and fiance just left me tonight.

[ZombieGenesis]

Maybe I should have kept them seperate, ba dum!

No but seriously, long term girlfriend and fiance broke it off with me tonight. Not much more I can say than that, and I'm pretty much messaging every friend I have, and a few extra places, with the same question.

What do I do now?

 

[Levitas1234]

Drugs and alcohol

 

[Johnnyallstar]

Wish I could help bub. My 4 year GF walked away in January, and I'm still messed up by it.

 

[Jimmyjames]

Ummm... my condolences?

Why did you feel it necessary to announce it here?

Occupy yourself with a hobby until you can convince yourself she's an insensitive slut who didn't deserve you.

 

[Adiona]

I'm sorry to hear that I had the same thing happen to me in December, cept mine had started an online affair then went over to America to sleep with her *breathes* oh well...

As for what to do....not much you can do is cept have time to grieve in a way to let out any raw emotion and then to slowly move forward by trying to keep busy. Hard thing to happen and not an easy thing to live with for a while, especially if love was still there from your side.

If you need a chat you can in box if needed. Not a quick fire answer to this cept...take things slowly and eventually the pain will stop.

 

[BlueberryMUNCH]

Stay strong...and that's about all you can do. Keep your friends close, and try to find a routine without her.

The next few months are gonna be shit. There's no other way to say it. But hey, it's darkest before dawn, right? Just hang in there, and you'll come out a better and stronger person for it; trust me.
Also, try do exercise. Go for long runs; just keep yourself occupied. Retreat into something time consuming. It'll make the grief easier.

Take care lad; you're not alone, alright. Everyone has to go through this once in their lives, eh? ><.

[sub]and at the risk of sounding like a dick, this would be a lot better suited for the advice forum. Some people that regularly respond on there will be able to say things better than I could ever hope to, so try request this getting moved okay:][/sub]

And I'll probably be editing this post like a ***** lmao.
Just whatever you do, don't send 'that' email, text, or phone call. If you lose anything, make sure it's not your honour.

But mmh, PM me if you feel it necessary; we're all here for you lad:].

 

[Monsterfurby]

Sometimes life just likes to kick you in the balls. Then again, life also puts you before challenges, like dealing with the fact. Considering you're still breathing, you could be worse off, and there's plenty of women out there. Won't be worth anything to you for about 48 hours, but the more distance you gain to the fact, the more you'll understand that my response to your question would be: Rock on, try out something new, you'll find someone else.

PS: Awkward terminology question: Where's the difference between a girlfriend and a fiancée?

 

[Wolfram23]

Drugs and alcohol

I'd settle for this. Possibly at the same time, in a night club.

But really, there's not much you can do but be hurt until you're not anymore. Try getting together with some guy friends and just kicking back.

 

[mental_looney]

Wouldn't it be better to try and talk to her about it rather than us.... even just for a reason why.

 

[TheDist]

I'm sorry friend, it's never easy when a relationship ends, but you don't need me to tell you that. Honestly the best thing to do is pack that part of your life away then move on, it'll be hard for quite some time, you just have to go on. Take a little time for yourself go do some fun stuff with your friends.

Thats all I can really think of man, maybe talking about it to a good friend might help clear it up in your mind too.

 

[Dantness]

My significant other and best friend broke up with me last week. So I guess I'm asking the same thing too. The advice people give to me and I shall now give to you is to focus on yourself right now. Do things for you and surround yourself with people who love you. I hope for the best for you.

 

[Dystopia]

Condolences, man.

Immediate solution - drink until you pass out and ensure your phone is switched off. THIS IS IMPORTANT. Then, rebound.

Long term solution - time heals all wounds. A cliché, yes, but it is true. Surround yourself with friends and loved ones, do things you couldn't do when you were with her.

 

[Keava]

*shrug*
Enjoy the freedom.

PS: Awkward terminology question: Where's the difference between a girlfriend and a fiancée?

Properly a girl/boyfriend is just someone you fool around with for now. Fiancée is when you actually start having serious plans for marriage.

 

[Kavic86]

Same boat as you, just now broke it off with my fiance. I feel horrible and just wanna get drunk but can't. I don't know what to do other than just keep living. I guess it wasn't mint to be. I would get a beer with you if I could but life goes on.

 

[Fetzenfisch]

Drugs and alcohol

seconded!plus some friends. for lets say 4 weeks straight. then go back on the hunt and get some new girls

 

[Souplex]

Start working on her replacement?

 

[Programmed_For_Damage]

I swear terrorists have slipped something into our water supply to destabilise relationships.
My cousin's husband (who she's been with for 9 years) just walked out on her and their son, and my sister and law's boyfriend of 4 years just left her on the weekend.

I've seen enough heartbreak over the last few weeks to last me a lifetime. All I can say is that I hope the hurt doesn't last too long because the hurt is inevitable and time and a sense of perspective are all that can remove it.

 

[Sehnsucht Engel]

The best way to get over one woman, is to find a new one. I think.