Politeia said:
So to sum this all up, you believe that using feminazi in any sense will not help to distinguish between radical feminism and normal feminism, whereas I was arguing for its use to draw a distinction between the two.
You made fair (and I would say convincing) arguments that the target (anti-feminists) would not learn to distinguish between the two using my method.
I concede on those grounds. You're right. I had hoped for an equivalent to what happened to the word 'Yank,' but it seems like that won't be the case anytime soon. Yank was originally used as a derogatory word by British soldiers to describe colonists, until the colonists actually embraced the word and made it their own. I recognize a difference between that and this case, but I was hoping for a similar taking-over from the bigoted likes of Rush.
(Opinions ahead) However, in respect to the 'No True Scotsman' thing, I would make the claim that radical feminists are not feminists, since they don't believe in legal equality, which is the bar that I would give for actually being a feminist. They don't want equality, ergo they aren't feminists, using the most basic definition of feminism. I think that it would help pull the millions and millions of people in support if any feminists with actual sway publicly condemned *all* extremist views that run contrary to equality.
Shit, the only reason *I* ever learned that feminism and radical feminism were not one and the same was because of a male friend of mine who explained a bit about the various waves of feminism and said that he was a feminist.
I truly think that millions of Americans, males especially, could be swayed using the same tactics that my friend used. Nothing changed, at all, because I've always wanted legal equality for everyone. The sole change is the recognition that, by definition, I'm a feminist because I believe in equality. Previously, I would never have considered, say, signing up for programs or clubs or newsletters dealing with women's issues, expecting there to be at least a 50-50 split of radical feminists to normal-goddamned-people.
That's why I said that history is irrelevant. The ONLY thing that should matter in feminism is legal (and social/etc) equality. Anything beyond that should get a different label, lest you scare away people that can't distinguish between the majority of sensible people and the minority of fools.
My claim is that you don't need to know anything about feminist theory or the like in order to be a feminist. You need only want to strive for equality. (Naturally, my definition also excludes, er, 'androgynist' extremists from being feminists).
This actually reminds me a bit of a singer or actress who said something along the lines of "Feminist leaders today have lost track of what the original goal of feminism was: Equality. (yada yada). I no longer call myself a feminist, but instead a humanist. I fight for the equality of all humans, no matter their gender."
So, yes, I suppose I'm ignoring parts of modern feminism, because I do believe that anything past 'equality for women' is not feminism at all, but a bastardization of it.
Regarding the actual word feminazi, I don't think that the Nazi reference is as deplorable as you seem to think. After all, I use 'grammar Nazi" frequently, but by no means I'm a comparing a pedantic know-it-all to a group that murdered tens of millions of people. I will, however, stop using feminazi in basic usage, except as a clarifier while explaining to others.
Holy shit, that is a nice wall of text. If you do actually read it all, I'd love for an explanation from a (girl...?) like yourself on how guys fit into this equation.