Stick with it! it gets much better.
The reason that you can't beat the oblivion gate is the enemies are always the same level as you, or a few levels below depending on how hard the mission is supposed to be. (or so i've heard, correct me if i'm wrong)
Don't make the mistake of abandoning the main questline and powerleveling. Then you will really learn what it feels like to be out of your depth. Stick with it, if it gets too hard turn the difficulty down.
If you are bothered by the fact that enemies are always the same lvl as you, don't fret. In skyrim, they supposedly have implemented a system where they're the same level as you the first time you encounter them, and if you can't beat them then you can leave and train. When you come back later, they'll still be the same level as when you first encountered them. This won't be everywhere, more just in quests and dungeons.
The reason that you can't beat the oblivion gate is the enemies are always the same level as you, or a few levels below depending on how hard the mission is supposed to be. (or so i've heard, correct me if i'm wrong)
Don't make the mistake of abandoning the main questline and powerleveling. Then you will really learn what it feels like to be out of your depth. Stick with it, if it gets too hard turn the difficulty down.
If you are bothered by the fact that enemies are always the same lvl as you, don't fret. In skyrim, they supposedly have implemented a system where they're the same level as you the first time you encounter them, and if you can't beat them then you can leave and train. When you come back later, they'll still be the same level as when you first encountered them. This won't be everywhere, more just in quests and dungeons.