Sup I said:
So I bought Oblivion friday (late to the party, I know) because I was looking forward to Skyrim without ever playing a Elder Scroll game. I figured I'd check it out before I paid for Skyrim.
In short, I hate it. The combat is wierd. Why don't enimies has health bars? And whats up the with leveling system? I don't get expirience from killing things? You're telling me I can level up by increasing my acrobatics skill 10 times?
And why is it SO hard? I'm at the FIRST Oblivion gate! It's impossible. I got there at level 2 (because it's the second fukin mission) and now I'm level 4 and still can't come close to beating it. I have a iron bow and steel arrows, and a "fine steel longsword" I'm Aprentice in Archery and Blade.
Believe it or not, not every game needs health bars! Truth be told, they are there, you just don't see them. The leveling system is like morrowind (but simpler) and works well. You choose your major skills which you'll use most and every time they go up 10 combined, you level and get stat points. If your minor skills also went up, they increase stat bonuses for relevant stats. It rewards you for working your chosen skills but doesn't preclude you from using any others.
One criticism of Oblivion you hadn't even mentioned is the enemy scaling (you will later). Enemies are always on par with you anywhere in the game. I beat the Imperial arena by lvl 5 if I remember rightly. Saying that, being lvl 4 you don't have the super weapons/armors yet, nor the spells, health, skills, etc. Seriously, play the game and level a little. I highly recommend doing all the guilds (Fighters, Mages, Assassins, Thieves). They not only give unique, powerful rewards, you also get followers (nameless underlings of whatever guild you're leader of), income, fame and some of the finest quests in any game.
The Daedric Shrine quests are also fantastic. As well as incredible rewards like Azura's Star, Skeleton Key, Goldbrand and Ring of Khajit. Sheogorath's in particular is great fun but the Assassin's guild quests are really something else. One I consider to be one of the greatest game quests ever devised sees you put into a locked house with 6 people for a bit of murder-mystery, emphasis on the murder! I shan't spoil it for you but really urge you to join that guild. The characters you meet in it are completely twisted, the end reward is very cool and you have the opportunity to turn vampire if you so choose.
If you're finding it unpleasantly hard, turn the difficulty down a notch till later. I assure you by the time you're level 20-25ish you'll be slaying daedra with almost impunity. And for archery, it's not really very effective until higher skills levels and when combined with sneak. Eventually you'd be able to zoom right in, headshot/one-hit kill most normal enemies while sneaking.