wulf3n said:
Absolutely nothing, but yours is an entirely fabricated scenario. There's no evidence to show that actually occurred. Other industries are probably smart enough not to pull stunts like this.
Quick google fu brings this up. http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=endscreen&v=zFFGbi4CCvg&NR=1
Please note that it is, yes, a party organized by a company in the fashion industry that heavily features half-naked men mingling.
wulf3n said:
If a part of your audience are offended by said behaviour, whether you intend it or not you're excluding them.
Again, replace the principal actors in that statement and tell me it still makes sense. Is a party that offends a straight guy "exclusionary" just because he's uncomfortable around shirtless men? No. Ergo, a party that offends a straight female is not also "exclusionary" just because she's uncomfortable around women in skimpy dresses.
wulf3n said:
Spoken like someone who's always been a part of the majority. No ones saying these types of parties can't exist, just that their prevalence in GAMES CONVENTIONS is ridiculous and unnecessary. It detracts nothing of note if removed, yet discourages others when included.
First of all, it would be wildly incorrect to assume that I've always been part of a majority.
Second, it would be a different conversation if people were arguing for the addition of different types of parties or saying that it's cool if we have these events, but we ought to have other events as well. But they aren't. There's no call of, "hey, we've put up with your bro-zone for a while now, how about having a ladies night or family friendly events one night out of the week." Instead the statements made and the complaints are "this makes me uncomfortable and I should never have to see it." Which, by definition, means that it should never exist in the same space that you also exist.
Let's say that we concede that the proper place for informal parties like this are away from the GDC after-party. Cool, we can have an after-after-party. Guess what happens next? Everyone shows up to the after-after-party and suddenly that becomes the place where deals are made, connections happen, and the journalists have to come. Then we have news stories about dancers at the after-after-party.
wulf3n said:
And you wonder where "privileged straight males" comes from.
I don't wonder that at all. I simply think at some point people have to realize that they aren't always going to be the "face" of the particular group they happen to be included in. That the group as a whole tends to follow the tastes of the majority isn't "tyranny" or "privilege" it's just common sense.
There's nothing wrong with feeling dissatisfied as part of a minority. Or agitating for a little more focus on your personal needs. What's going on though isn't that. Or at least it's not being articulated that way.
wulf3n said:
There are plenty of places you can go for "informal events" if a group want to go to something like that they can. When you organise you're own event you need to think of the messages being sent to those that don't share your view of "fun". The fact that you don't understand [or don't care] is why the "privileged straight males" line gets thrown around.
Yes, and one of those places is an after-party at a conference.