vampirekid.13 said:
its not that easy you see, im in the military, so my supervisors can and often do show "interest/concern" regarding my life off duty. because its important to have "healthy life styles" in a "demanding job such as military service"
Ah, well, then tell them that this is how you unwind, that after a long days work, going out simply makes you more tired (which, for an introvert like myself, and, from the sound of it, you, it would), to the point of losing patience with everyone. The fact is, introverts do not like to socialize. Hence the name
introvert, and not extrovert.
For an introvert, the act of socializing is not a relaxing thing. It taxes us mentally, physically, and, often times, brings right to the edge of our emotional control if we have to do it against our will over and over. An introvert rests by being alone, and that is the only way an introvert truly recharges their emotional batteries.
Extroverts go out and do extroverted things to recharge, like hang out with people. From the sound of it, they are trying to force you, an full introvert (again, like me), into being an extrovert, which will cause more harm than good. Explain this to them.
I do question why you are in the military if you don't like people, though. Isn't that a really people oriented job?
Anyway, if you can convey to your... ugh... counselors (you have to see them now, right?) that you are an introvert, in the most modern sense of the word (Recharges by being alone, gets exhausted around people), you'll probably be fine. If not, well, is it possible for you to get out of the millitary? Seriously, sometimes the best way is to simply let go of what is causing the problems (again, only if possible). I'm not saying leave (if you can), but just saying that it might be for the best, if only as a last resort.