Opinion's on sexuality

[PayneTrayne]

You can stick it where ever you please, as long as its not in me.

In other words, I do not care about another persons sexuality, one way or another.

What's everyone's opinion on Asexuality? 'Cause I'm feeling a bit left out of the opening post.

I do have a problem with asexuals, mostly because 90% of them are liars/emos/have possible mental issues that they refuse to address.

Which isn't to say all of them (Or you) fall into the category at all, only that a ton of people flock to the word for the wrong reasons.

This right here, absolutely this.

Some of the asexuals I've met in real life have a holier than thou complex, so that might also sour my opinion on them as a whole. But I'm sure some (if not most) of you guys/gals are great people.

 

[Iconsting]

Yep, they're sexual orientations alright.

 

[Vault101]

anyone who says its "unatural" can fuck right off, we havnt been doing anything "natural" since we worked out how to make fire (and I bet homosexuality was around then)

now if we are bringing religioin into it...well this argument would go nowhere really fast, my point is ok fine you can say you shouldnt do it because God says you shouldnt, fair enough, but dont try and make it out to be somthing "unatural" or somthing people choose

 

[Vault101]

You can stick it where ever you please, as long as its not in me.

In other words, I do not care about another persons sexuality, one way or another.

What's everyone's opinion on Asexuality? 'Cause I'm feeling a bit left out of the opening post.

I do have a problem with asexuals, mostly because 90% of them are liars/emos/have possible mental issues that they refuse to address.

Which isn't to say all of them (Or you) fall into the category at all, only that a ton of people flock to the word for the wrong reasons.

This right here, absolutely this.

Some of the asexuals I've met in real life have a holier than thou complex, so that might also sour my opinion on them as a whole. But I'm sure some (if not most) of you guys/gals are great people.

so what IS the deal with asexuality? does it mean you just cant really get "exited" about anything? that you have no sex drive?

 

[trollnystan]

A person's sexuality is a person's sexuality. I sometimes wish people wouldn't make such a big deal of it. I consider myself straight BTW, although I'm probably a 1 on the Kinsey scale 'cos I do find boobies interesting. Va-jay-jays do nothing for me though. (TMI!)

But yeah, my own personal opinion is that we all fall somewhere on the Kinsey scale - or something like it - and there's nothing wrong with you regardless of where you fall.

 

[dOrOrOwait]

You can stick it where ever you please, as long as its not in me.

In other words, I do not care about another persons sexuality, one way or another.

What's everyone's opinion on Asexuality? 'Cause I'm feeling a bit left out of the opening post.

I do have a problem with asexuals, mostly because 90% of them are liars/emos/have possible mental issues that they refuse to address.

Which isn't to say all of them (Or you) fall into the category at all, only that a ton of people flock to the word for the wrong reasons.

Asexuality (sometimes referred to as nonsexuality, in its broadest sense, is the lack of sexual attraction and the lack of interest in and desire for sex.Sometimes, it is considered a lack of a sexual orientation. One commonly cited study placed the prevalence of asexuality at 1%.

Asexuality is distinct from abstention from sexual activity and from celibacy, which are behavioral; the latter is usually for a religious reason. A sexual orientation, unlike a behavior, is believed to be "enduring". Some asexuals do have sex, despite lacking a desire for it.

If these people are claiming to be Asexual give them a break, isnt that a better life than spreading the clap like all you kids do today!

 

[Kaz Helberd]

lemme trim the fat... people are a product of their environment...

end of line.

 

[Febel]

You can stick it where ever you please, as long as its not in me.

In other words, I do not care about another persons sexuality, one way or another.

What's everyone's opinion on Asexuality? 'Cause I'm feeling a bit left out of the opening post.

I do have a problem with asexuals, mostly because 90% of them are liars/emos/have possible mental issues that they refuse to address.

Which isn't to say all of them (Or you) fall into the category at all, only that a ton of people flock to the word for the wrong reasons.

This right here, absolutely this.

Some of the asexuals I've met in real life have a holier than thou complex, so that might also sour my opinion on them as a whole. But I'm sure some (if not most) of you guys/gals are great people.

so what IS the deal with asexuality? does it mean you just cant really get "exited" about anything? that you have no sex drive?

As I said in an earlier post it varies just like with every other orientation but in my case I can get..."exited" (hell I "relive" myself on occasion) but yeah, no real sex drive to speak of.

 

[Shio]

So long as you're attracted to consenting adults and aren't hurting anyone, we're cool. I myself am attracted primarily to transwomen.

I just don't understand Bi-sexuals, I mean how can you not have a peference?

Most (being almost all) bisexuals prefer one gender to the other, but enjoy or are open to both. There are those who enjoy both equally, but it is rare. Either way, that preference to both equally or one slightly more or less is their... preference.

 

[Fiz_The_Toaster]

I don't care nor do I plan to anytime soon.

I'm just an indifferent kinda gal really, the only time I will get pissed is when it's thrown in my face, and that goes for both sides.

Don't.

Fucking.

Care.

It is not something anyone should give a shit about ever.

Yeah it makes me wonder why people get all up in arms about the whole thing. Like it will fucking matter what they have to say about it.

 

[Shio]

Biologically the 'Default' orientation is 'straight' (hence the term "straight") but depending on how one was raised, who their parents are, and what they're exposed to, that can change.

Sorry, but you're wrong.

I suppose you'll claim next that most people aren't tall and those exposed to tall people become tall as a result? Sorry, biology doesn't work that way and there is no evidence in the world that heterosexuality is the 'default' sexuality.

If you've any proof to offer besides your provably incorrect opinion, please share it with the class.

 

[kayisking]

What's everyone's opinion on Asexuality? 'Cause I'm feeling a bit left out of the opening post.

Asexual people have no deal. They're cool in my book.

I dunno, I've gotten lots of "Your joking, right?", "That's not normal" And my personal favorite "Oh are you studying to be a priest?"

I always wondered (and I mean no offence in any way shape or form, it's just that I have never met one of you)wheter you truly feel no attraction to other humans in a physical manner, or just choose to ignore it. Could you clear that up?

It varies a lot, but me personally, I've never once looked at someone and thought "Yeah, I'd like to fuck that." I assumed that was pretty much what everyone thought until I lost my virginity at which point I realized that, to me, sex was boring. During my teens I tried it with around 1/2 dozen women and a couple of men (to cover my bases, so to speak) and...yeah, nothing doing. It's too much time and effort for something that I just didn't really get that much out of.

Oh, and the only way you'd offend me was if you'd said something like "That's unnatural" but then I guess that would irk anyone.

Alright mate, thanks for anwsering. Have a nice day.

 

[Snork Maiden]

I just don't understand Bi-sexuals, I mean how can you not have a peference?

Everything's hot! I'd probably dink toward a preference for girls, but that's only because I'm a lot more picky when it comes to guys. If there's a hot guy around, though, ohhhh yeah I'd tap that shit right up.

What's everyone's opinion on Asexuality? 'Cause I'm feeling a bit left out of the opening post.

Asexual people have no deal. They're cool in my book.

I dunno, I've gotten lots of "Your joking, right?", "That's not normal" And my personal favorite "Oh are you studying to be a priest?"

This made me smile so much. Now if anyone introduces themselves as asexual all I'll be able to think about is asking them if they want to be a priest.

 

[Snotnarok]

If you're bothered by who someone has sex with in their privacy you're an asshole. However if they're having sex on your couch/bed/dinner table you probably have a right to be upset...regardless of their partner :U

 

[Snork Maiden]

I suppose you'll claim next that most people aren't tall and those exposed to tall people become tall as a result? Sorry, biology doesn't work that way and there is no evidence in the world that heterosexuality is the 'default' sexuality.

I love people who can't see how this is fact. My parents (as much as I love them) are both evangelical Christians - my mum is totally accepting of anything, but that doesn't mean my upbringing reflected this, and some of the views they hold are as ridiculous as they come. I wasn't exposed to homosexuality in any meaningful way growing up, and if it was ever on TV it was normally greeted with a "thats icky and wrong" response. Yet, here I am.

If you're bothered by who someone has sex with in their privacy you're an asshole. However if they're having sex on your couch/bed/dinner table you probably have a right to be upset...regardless of their partner :U

If someone's having sex on your couch that's a clear invite.

 

[Mini_Watto]

I think being heterosexual is not a law, but a choice. As opposed to everyone else, who now uses "gay" as an insult.

 

[Jungy 365]

I have no problem with the concept of homosexuality, and I believe everyone is entitled to be with whoever they love. I have to admit though, that I have always been slightly uncomfortable when around anyone who was homo/bi-sexual. If I could change anything about myself, it would be this, as I know that people of a different sexuality are just that: people. And yet I sometimes find myself unable to have natural conversation with people.

 

[boringanarchy]

Gay people should burn in hell...I need someone to talk to while I'm down there and they're a lot more entertaining than straight people .

But seriously, if you are so worried about who someone else is banging that you have to legislate it, you have waaaaaaaay too much time on your hands.

 

[OmniscientOstrich]

I just don't understand Bi-sexuals, I mean how can you not have a peference?

Hmm, can't tell if trolling. If not, then my response would be be that some people who are bi lean more towards one sex than the other and might try to measure themselves on the Kinsey scale:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kinsey_scale

No. 3 on the scale would be the example of people who are dead on 50/50, though in regard to my own bisexuality I ignore this percentage game entirely as the statistics are irrelevant when it comes down to the individual; you could be a 1 on the scale and yet find 'the one' in someone of the same sex and vice versa.

TL;DR

People who are bi are attracted to individuals not specific genders (imo).

 

[zehydra]

I'm a bisexual woman and proud of it. ^^

Everyone should be free to express their sexuality as they see fit. *

[sub]* With a standard disclaimer for the idiot who wants to say "what about rape" - no, that isn't an expression of sexuality, that's torture. Don't be a jerk.[/sub]

I had all sorts of comebacks to this statement including deep philosophical questions about the very nature of sexuality, but then I realised that, in the end, this is hardly the place for deep philosophical debates, as I'm slowly realising.

actually, compared to some other places in the web, this is the best place.